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Shucoki
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Shucoki
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that may be so, that adoption rates may not increase, but lets say you were that baby and your own mother was deciding whether or not to end your life...would you want to be put up for adoption or would you rather die...i know the baby doesn't actually know that it will die but still, its horrible to think of and the fact that a girl can't take care of a baby just shows her carelessness. she decided to have sex and now she is backing out? this is not always the case but for most of the time it is. If a girl knows she can't take care of a baby then why does she perform the act responsible for reproduction? you can see why this not only makes me mad, but irritated at the stupidity of people, and abortion is just an easy way out for these stupid people when they should really take responsibility for it...and in the case of rape...i would never abort my child even if i was raped because that would make me no better than the rapist.
Wow I can't beleve it has taken me so long to reply to this.Sorry if I came off a bit snappy some of the wording could of been better now that i re-read my post,and if anything i said offended you.I can understand your irrataion towards the women who get one just because they don't to handle a baby , but ultimatly it not the case for all women some if for if the child is going to be in constant pain,Others they may be left with life crippling problems some cases they will die if they keep it,.In my opinion rape is valid reason to get an abortion.My main reason of supporting it is because the reasons I listed above .Not really inculding the reason not handling the responsiblity,but thats thier business.Another thing her not being to take care of it is may not have to deal with carelessness.Many cases they can't afford to take care of it babies cost alot to take care of.
I Almost forgot to answer your question I would rather be aborted than too know my mother didn't want me.
you didn't offend me at all actually unlike a lot of other people on gaia, and i do sort of agree with what your saying but at the same time i don't. I guess i just wouldn't be able to live with myself if i had an abortion. And if my child did have a crippling illness, i know it would be hard but i do want my child and i would want it to live for as long as possible. This kinda reminds me of a movie called Lorenzo's Oil which is a very sad movie but i would do what the mother did and try to help my child live for as much as possible. Also, you said that you would rather be aborted than unwanted, but to be aborted is to be unwanted. In my opinion i would rather enjoy my life even if im put in foster care. Although you are right that babies cost a lot of money, but taking toys and cradles and stuff out of the equation reduces the cost. After all, which matters more? the life of the baby or how much money you might spend?
The life of the baby matters more than money of course,I was just saying that a mothers ability to take care of child may because of finacals issue it wasn't really meant to have anything to deal with abortion.Back to the origina ltopic.I get a little irratated when people think sex is just about reproduction.Sex has more benifts than just reproduction bonding is one benfit outside of reproduction.I .Aborting a child do to illness is somthing i can understand is because mother watching her chilld suffer can put alot strain on her mental health which isn't good for her and the child.I generally try to respect other views and opinions just as long as they don't start insulting me because i don't agree with them.
oh well yes, sex isn't just for reproduction, but i think that if you accidentally get pregnant then you should just keep it, you know...that's all im really saying and yes i also agree with you when you say it is irritating when people insult you because i do get insulted a lot and it seems like the people who insult me have nothing better to do that try to make their self-esteem rise, either way it is boring to have conversations with those people, also you mentioned that if a baby were to be born with an illness and to be honest, i wouldnt abort it simply because i couldnt bear it. Not because im selfish but i believe that every child should have at lest some time on earth to be happy...thats just my opinion though
I think you missed the point of what i was saying about the illness but then again maybe i'm intepratitng your post wrong.I'm in a rush so this all i can post at the moment.
