I hope Demon-sama doesn't hurt me for doing this, but I can't seem to help myself, so here I go...
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Dear Demon,
you gotta give me a liiiitttle pointer to help with a litttllle issue im having with my b/f...to make a long story short,,,HE`S FAT!!! And i need a polite way to tell him to maybe start dieting
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i donno about a polite way... but just for curiosity, what is the problem with his fat? is it obesity? attractiveness? health issues? heh, this is a tough one @w@;;;
Weeellll,,,im not really too shallow or anything, buuuut i´m 18 and he´s 20 and people say that after you turn 20 the blubber begins to grow,,,sooo i was just hoping for a way to at least make him aware that he has to pay attention to his diet...his little tummy is sorta cute, but you know im scared that there´s gonna be exponential growth to the already not-so-little belly
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Hey now, no need to go on the defensive there. It's only natural to want your significant other to keep a physique that keeps your interest. You're a female, and it's only in your nature to seek out flaws in your relationship, large or small and n** them in the bud ASAP.
Firstly, you gotta be honest with yourself here and think for a second. Do I like the man, and dislike the pudge, or do I dislike the pudgy man. If it's the man you want, but the pudge has to go then you should be thinking, how can I support & encourage my BF in loosing the poundage. Note the choice of words there, "support & encourage," or vice versa, whichever works for you.
The Demon-sama has some good advice there, but here's something you might want to remember, as my pal RSJ said earlier, "guys are STUPID." If you and him are tight, invite him to walk with you to do some excersize, IF the "have you considered loosing weight" talk went well. If you're one of those fitness fanatical gals then you'll have to go easy on him as he'll probably be out of shape.
wink Walk a few blocks, or a mile or so, then at the end, give him some positive re-enforcement. Again, I fall onto the words of wisdom RSJ dropped, "GUYS LOVE PHYSICAL CONTACT." A kiss on the cheek or something like that while adding a nice hinting bit of dialogue like, "You've got a stronger body then I thought, you should work it more often." Yea, you might have to do it off and on a few times, but if that doesn't get the gears going in his head to at least CONSIDER working out or dieting when he doesn't, I dunno what could.
