Lolita is... Sexy?

[Purae Fox]

BAHAHAHA! Fair enough razz although it was a hypothetical situation razz . And I agree; getting it dry cleaned would be a bit.... well, err.. xD

Angel_Takio

Purae Fox

It is a little odd that a man could get sexually aroused by you wearing such lolita clothing...
But. everyone finds different things that arouse them.

You should have tried saying to him 'Mate, listen. You can't hold me against the wall in this skirt and accessorising garments. Hands off - it's expensive.' <3



It sounds very cute what you were wearing smile I wouldn't mind seeing a photo <3

Oh, we never did it while I was wearing it. I really didn't want to have to ask my dry cleaner to remove spunk stains and pecker tracks from a cute, frilly dress XD

[Purae Fox]

I agree. I posted previously and it depends on the man/woman and what they find 'sexy'.
Showing too much skin does can go against the Lolita style. It's just beautifully feminine.

Almond Milks

Famously Deranged

I don't believe that a "Sexy" or "Sexually Attractive" Lolita isn't a Lolita. It's simply a different styled Lolita, just like a Goth/Victorian/Kawaii Lolita, Its simply categorized like every other type of Lolita. Just because some people like to show some skin doesn't mean they aren't any less Lolita than any other one.

Sexy doesn't have to mean showing skin, that's not the kind of attractive we are talking about. Skimpy clothing goes against most lolita styles aside from ero, so yes, if someone was showing off a lot of skin it probably would go against the lolita aesthetic.

[Sweetly Adorables]

Guys totally think I'm more hot in Lolita. I think it's because I'm a lot more confident, poised, comfortable, and cute in my make-up and wigs and dresses than in my jeans and t-shirts. A lot of guys will ask to have their picture taken with me if I wear it out in public alone, that's really fun. Now I'm thinking of going out in Lolita tomorrow... hahaha ^^

[Tina Tomorrow]

I do find pastel frills, rocking horse janes, and bows pretty sexy on a lady. Not like what the typical guys of my age liking too much skin.

I remember watching The Innocence of Youth series by Digital Sin(Los Angeles based porno company) which features its female cast in Lolita fashion. Sexually appealing with a hint of class compared to what the japanese produced.

[Almond Milks]

Tina Tomorrow

I do find pastel frills, rocking horse janes, and bows pretty sexy on a lady. Not like what the typical guys of my age liking too much skin.

I remember watching The Innocence of Youth series by Digital Sin(Los Angeles based porno company) which features its female cast in Lolita fashion. Sexually appealing with a hint of class compared to what the japanese produced.

I had to look that up and wtf ita porn.

[JessieKateRose]

Almond Milks

Tina Tomorrow

I do find pastel frills, rocking horse janes, and bows pretty sexy on a lady. Not like what the typical guys of my age liking too much skin.

I remember watching The Innocence of Youth series by Digital Sin(Los Angeles based porno company) which features its female cast in Lolita fashion. Sexually appealing with a hint of class compared to what the japanese produced.

I had to look that up and wtf ita porn.

My friend found a porno with one of the women wearing Baby, the Stars Shine Bright. She never linked me to it because I think she was a little embarrassed that she was watching it but I think the print was A Midsummer Night's Dream? She said the woman didn't really do much in the video, though.

[Almond Milks]

JessieKateRose

Almond Milks

Tina Tomorrow

I do find pastel frills, rocking horse janes, and bows pretty sexy on a lady. Not like what the typical guys of my age liking too much skin.

I remember watching The Innocence of Youth series by Digital Sin(Los Angeles based porno company) which features its female cast in Lolita fashion. Sexually appealing with a hint of class compared to what the japanese produced.

I had to look that up and wtf ita porn.

My friend found a porno with one of the women wearing Baby, the Stars Shine Bright. She never linked me to it because I think she was a little embarrassed that she was watching it but I think the print was A Midsummer Night's Dream? She said the woman didn't really do much in the video, though.

Oh man that's weird. I wouldn't want to wear my brand to do something like that. What if it got... dirty, gonk

[JessieKateRose]

Almond Milks

JessieKateRose

Almond Milks

Tina Tomorrow

I do find pastel frills, rocking horse janes, and bows pretty sexy on a lady. Not like what the typical guys of my age liking too much skin.

I remember watching The Innocence of Youth series by Digital Sin(Los Angeles based porno company) which features its female cast in Lolita fashion. Sexually appealing with a hint of class compared to what the japanese produced.

I had to look that up and wtf ita porn.

My friend found a porno with one of the women wearing Baby, the Stars Shine Bright. She never linked me to it because I think she was a little embarrassed that she was watching it but I think the print was A Midsummer Night's Dream? She said the woman didn't really do much in the video, though.

Oh man that's weird. I wouldn't want to wear my brand to do something like that. What if it got... dirty, gonk

I know, I would die if I got bodily fluids on any of my Lolita, especially Baby, the Stars Shine Bright. x_x I guess that was part of why she didn't do much in the video, lol.

[Angel_Takio]

Almond Milks

JessieKateRose

Almond Milks

Tina Tomorrow

I do find pastel frills, rocking horse janes, and bows pretty sexy on a lady. Not like what the typical guys of my age liking too much skin.

I remember watching The Innocence of Youth series by Digital Sin(Los Angeles based porno company) which features its female cast in Lolita fashion. Sexually appealing with a hint of class compared to what the japanese produced.

I had to look that up and wtf ita porn.

My friend found a porno with one of the women wearing Baby, the Stars Shine Bright. She never linked me to it because I think she was a little embarrassed that she was watching it but I think the print was A Midsummer Night's Dream? She said the woman didn't really do much in the video, though.

Oh man that's weird. I wouldn't want to wear my brand to do something like that. What if it got... dirty, gonk

Refer to my previous statement for hilarity.

[retro_rage]

Angel_Takio

....
So it got me to thinking: Is it wrong to 'feel' sexy in or about lolita, even if it's a very modest fashion? I certainly never minded wearing lolita around him, and he was pretty happy with it. But was it wrong of him to enjoy it that way? Was it just his thing? Or was he really a bit of a child-lover and it was just a cover up. I have my opinion in the matter, but I'd like to hear some others. Comments anyone?

Hi! I don't think it is wrong to feel sexy regardless. I think sexyiness starts in the mind, not with the attire. Good for you for feeling sexy! Maybe the fact that you received sexual attention while dressed in lolita is the reason why you view it as sexy =). I also do not think it was wrong for your boyfriend to adore your dress. There are differences between liking children and like girls dressed as children as well as similarities. The difference is in how you act and think. Children are innocent, their minds are not developed to the extent that teenagers or adult minds are. Girls who wear lolita do not have the mentality of children and thus are only visually somewhat similar in extreme dress.

[Passion not Perfection]

I really don't care if someone thinks I look sexy in Lolita, it's a little weird, but whatever. If you happen to feel sexy in Lolita, awesome, I'm glad it makes you happy. My only problem is when people suggest I wear Lolita to be some kind of sexual object for men. It pisses me off, like my only goal in life should look attractive for a man and not dress to make myself happy.