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Why lie to someone that it is okay when you know it isnt? Better to suggest actual show options isntead of coddling them. Its a fashion, there are certain dos and donts. There are lots of shoes you can wear that come from normal stores, like mary janes do, any sort of nice heel, oxford heels were popular for a while.
Nobody is coddling anyone. We were discussing jelly shoes.
90's style jelly shoes: not elegant enough.
Viviene Westwood x Melissa heels (made out of a rubber material): yes please. But that is a very expensive option. I just bought a pair on clearance for a bit over $100.
Go to Bodyline, or look for some cute shoes on Dream V (rounded toe, not too pointy of a heel, there are a few styles that work well in Lolita there), You can also order for Aitaiana (you can order from their taobao shop without a shopping service). Worst case, look for shoes that can work in thrift stores, but you might not have the best of luck.