a Man who wears Lolita and identifies as male is called a Brolita. A man who Identifies as Female is a normal Lolita.
There are 3 boy styles that are associated with Lolita. They are not lolita, but they tend to be okay when worn to meetups and stuff. 1.) Ouji: Little prince style. Think of Ciel Phantomhive. 2.) Kodona. A step up. a bit more mature. (teenager) 3.) Dandy. An adult man. Dandy is very similar to Aristocrat, but there is a style difference.
oh gosh, im starting to get a bit frustrated because for the life of me i cant seem to put together a good outfit!
I'll be like "oh these shorts look cool!" but then i dont know what they'd look like on me so it makes me hesitant to buy them, and then i cant decide what socks or shoes to wear with them...
Plus, finding some legit boy clothing that isnt just clothes for girls that looks like guys clothes is so hard >.<"
I dont want to order from Japanese sites because i dont know how they work and i dont want to make a mistake and end up overcharging myself...
ahhh i need help. someone just needs to know what kind of outfit i want and then coordinate it for me asdfasdjhfasdf
There is, try "Fanplusfriend", it's a site that sells all kinds of lolita outfits (and cosplay) for men and women smile
oh i did see that! thank you!
i love a lot of the choices there, definitely some stuff i want from there *u*
I don't know if you have noticed that already, but F+F does custom sizing on most of their items (except the ones one sale - they usually want to get rid of those so they're not making any more). So if you find out that the items you want only come in Lady sizes and they won't fit you, you can have them made specifically to your measurements.
(Too bad my dream dress is one of those they want to get rid of xD)
wow, thats actually a great idea... do they charge extra to do that?
Because thats sounding like a good option...
They usually charge an extra $5, except on basic pieces.
For the crown, maybe try Etsy.
Also, keep in mind that your outfit will look best if you coordinate the colors. Here, you may want to find accessories the same shade of blue as the bowtie on your shirt, or remove the bow tie and replace it with one in another, easier-to-coordinate color. ^^