Foarl
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- Posted: Thu, 06 Dec 2007 23:56:52 +0000
I saw a post about why life sucks, and I wrote this. But I realise no one is really going to read it in that thread or appreciate it. Feel free to post your own stories of why life is worth living, worth experiencing and worth every last ounce of pain. No matter what it throws at you.
EDIT:
To anyone who has a story to post, I'd really appreciate it if you could. I think there needs to be more faces behind the survivors of tragedies compared to the faces of the victims.
Even if it's long, I at least would like to hear them. This is what the Life Discussion forum really should be for in my opinion.
~*****~ My Story ~*****~
In this past year, my relationship with my girlfriend disintegrated, it hit 2 years before we broke it off. She was my best friend, but in the end she stopped respecting me and became selfish.
All of my friends moved away to go to university, and the few others I had left were all mutual friends she and I had in common.
I spent the summer working in a lab, and I barely got to talk to anyone for the entire time. My social life diminished to 3 online friends. I got to see live people three weekends of the entire summer.
I end up in a party residence at university, and since I don't drink I've been almost entirely alienated. The sunday a week and a half ago my best friend died from a genetically inherited disease at the age of 18. Last saturday I buried him and had to see my ex girlfriend again.
Right now I just finished studying 4 hours for my exam tomorrow, and now I'm 1 hour into studying for the other exam I have tomorrow. The day after his funeral I had to work 8 solid hours on a 13 page report we were given a week to do because I couldn't concentrate thinking about what had happened.
But my friend taught me one thing if nothing else:
NO MATTER HOW BAD YOU THINK IT IS, SOMEONE ELSE HAS IT WORSE AND HAS A BIGGER SMILE ON THEIR FACE.
I always see people whining about why life hurts them more than others. And I'm just not in the mood to hear people complaining right now. I'm not, even though one of the people I know at university was nearly crying over how my life was "horrible", and I'm not complaining one bit. Yes we all die in the end, but that means we only get one shot at this.
Why not make it count?
EDIT:
To anyone who has a story to post, I'd really appreciate it if you could. I think there needs to be more faces behind the survivors of tragedies compared to the faces of the victims.
Even if it's long, I at least would like to hear them. This is what the Life Discussion forum really should be for in my opinion.
~*****~ My Story ~*****~
In this past year, my relationship with my girlfriend disintegrated, it hit 2 years before we broke it off. She was my best friend, but in the end she stopped respecting me and became selfish.
All of my friends moved away to go to university, and the few others I had left were all mutual friends she and I had in common.
I spent the summer working in a lab, and I barely got to talk to anyone for the entire time. My social life diminished to 3 online friends. I got to see live people three weekends of the entire summer.
I end up in a party residence at university, and since I don't drink I've been almost entirely alienated. The sunday a week and a half ago my best friend died from a genetically inherited disease at the age of 18. Last saturday I buried him and had to see my ex girlfriend again.
Right now I just finished studying 4 hours for my exam tomorrow, and now I'm 1 hour into studying for the other exam I have tomorrow. The day after his funeral I had to work 8 solid hours on a 13 page report we were given a week to do because I couldn't concentrate thinking about what had happened.
But my friend taught me one thing if nothing else:
NO MATTER HOW BAD YOU THINK IT IS, SOMEONE ELSE HAS IT WORSE AND HAS A BIGGER SMILE ON THEIR FACE.
I always see people whining about why life hurts them more than others. And I'm just not in the mood to hear people complaining right now. I'm not, even though one of the people I know at university was nearly crying over how my life was "horrible", and I'm not complaining one bit. Yes we all die in the end, but that means we only get one shot at this.
Why not make it count?