first,,,how old are you? just curious, SEX, SEX, SEX why are you even thinking about it? i think you need to keep your mind occupied in something else than sex! besides sex is like nuthn. now there's a big difference between sex and love. there's so much more than just sex. are you ready? are you stable? are you mature? have you thought about stds? of the consequences? are you emotionally ready? do you have a good paying job that you can support if the girl should become pregnant? having a baby is a life time commitment. that's why there's so many dead beat dads and children having children because they dont think with their head. also girls end up getting welfare which is taxpayers money because simply they did not think about the consequences. what do you have to offer? it's not like ok i need to have sex, ok ima find a girl to have sex with. i probably did not make any sense. this just got me kinda pissed off. just having this forum. i just hope you really think about it before doing anything stupid!