I dont care much on what sexually arouses me (probably cause its easy or i don't really pay to much attention). But what would really turn me on, because I am a man of arts. Not action, no a sexual dance or dirty talk wouldn't turn me on. What would turn me on would be words, but not naughty words. I would personally love it if a woman would call me handsome... I don't think much if a woman would call me sexy or cute because it would be repetitive to what I believe every one says to their crush or spouse. Handsome, i fine well pronounced word... that would make my entire evening. I don't need sexual content to make me feel loved... just a simple compliment that no one uses anymore... and a rare "I love you" wouldn't hurt.
The smell of three-day-unwashed hair. More than any perfume in the world, this turns me on. It's about the most honest smell one can have of a human, and it drives me insane.
Also, doing it in nature would turn me on even more.