What's your outlook on sex?

Sex?

All the time! Doesn't matter who!	20.3%	[ 39 ]
Only if we're truly in love~ <3	51.0%	[ 98 ]
Nope. I don't do sex.	14.6%	[ 28 ]
Maybe when I'm older...	14.1%	[ 27 ]
Total Votes:			[ 192 ]

[glitch in space]

For a lot of relationships sex is an important factor. That doesn't make their relationship any less meaningful. It doesn't mean that the physical factor of their relationship is more important. For me, sex is important. That's because I'm a very sexual person so it just goes hand in hand with my personality. For people who aren't sexual, sex wouldn't be a huge factor and that's understandable. It all depends on who you are and how you are sexually.

I currently do not have a boyfriend but that doesn't really stop me from doing things I want to do. I have had sex with someone I had just met before. I have a ******** buddy. I do not like having to limit myself sexually just because I'm not in love or anything. That's something people are very judgemental about. People always say, "sex should be something special with the person you love." Just because I like to have ******** around doesn't mean sex has lost all of its meaning. And if you've never had sex with someone you didn't love then you wouldn't know that sex is an entirely different experience when you are in love with the person. Sex with someone you don't love is just sex; it still feels great regardless. But, sex with someone you love is different. That's what I consider "making love" because it doesn't just involve the physical. When you're making love, you involve yourself emotionally and it feels better than regular sex. Another reason it generally feels better is because (for me, at least) I feel more comfortable around the person I love. All my insecurities vanish and I am solely focused on him.

But I understand the opinons that contradict mine. The standards of sexual morality for people has been basically the same for thousands of years. I understand why people still abide by them

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[iGiant-Midget]

G-Force Alpha 1

You said....

SEX

eek redface xd

No I said.... Um... DEX!

[XxMusic Is My TalentxX]

yum_puddi I think being sexual AND being appropriate are important. But I'm saving myself for now...I don't want to be pregnant at 16.

iGiant-Midget

For me, I think holding hands and kissing are far more important than sex. I would NEVER kiss someone if I wasn't majorly crushing on them and I definitely wouldn't have sex with a random.
Is sex really important in your relationship? Would you get into a relationship knowing your partner didn't want it?
Or are you one of those people that absolutely needs it.
Would you have sex with someone you just met?

So what's your opinion guys?
Let me know!

[iGiant-Midget]

XxMusic Is My TalentxX

yum_puddi I think being sexual AND being appropriate are important. But I'm saving myself for now...I don't want to be pregnant at 16.

iGiant-Midget

For me, I think holding hands and kissing are far more important than sex. I would NEVER kiss someone if I wasn't majorly crushing on them and I definitely wouldn't have sex with a random.
Is sex really important in your relationship? Would you get into a relationship knowing your partner didn't want it?
Or are you one of those people that absolutely needs it.
Would you have sex with someone you just met?

So what's your opinion guys?
Let me know!

Well if you do end up getting pregnant at 16 there's always "16 and pregnant".

[XxMusic Is My TalentxX]

iGiant-Midget

XxMusic Is My TalentxX

yum_puddi I think being sexual AND being appropriate are important. But I'm saving myself for now...I don't want to be pregnant at 16.

iGiant-Midget

For me, I think holding hands and kissing are far more important than sex. I would NEVER kiss someone if I wasn't majorly crushing on them and I definitely wouldn't have sex with a random.
Is sex really important in your relationship? Would you get into a relationship knowing your partner didn't want it?
Or are you one of those people that absolutely needs it.
Would you have sex with someone you just met?

So what's your opinion guys?
Let me know!

Well if you do end up getting pregnant at 16 there's always "16 and pregnant".

No. I want a future.

[iGiant-Midget]

XxMusic Is My TalentxX

iGiant-Midget

XxMusic Is My TalentxX

yum_puddi I think being sexual AND being appropriate are important. But I'm saving myself for now...I don't want to be pregnant at 16.

iGiant-Midget

For me, I think holding hands and kissing are far more important than sex. I would NEVER kiss someone if I wasn't majorly crushing on them and I definitely wouldn't have sex with a random.
Is sex really important in your relationship? Would you get into a relationship knowing your partner didn't want it?
Or are you one of those people that absolutely needs it.
Would you have sex with someone you just met?

So what's your opinion guys?
Let me know!

Well if you do end up getting pregnant at 16 there's always "16 and pregnant".

No. I want a future.

aw i like that show too...

[npulse]

I'm not a one time stand person, nor would I have sex with someone who I wasn't committed to.

I don't mind if others want to have sex without commitment, but for me personally, it's something I'd only share with someone I loved.

[Chelsi C21]

Twisted Rainbow Insanity

To be honest, it makes me really uncomfortable. Sometimes I wish that there were no such thing as sex. I don't like how it affects people, and it can turn a lot of people into monsters over it. If some guy tried making a random sexual comment to me I would probably feel like crying. I only have sex with my boyfriend, and that's because it's meaningful to me. But sometimes it just goes too far, and I get scared again, and I feel ashamed and dirty. I don't know, I know I sound ridiculous. Maybe I should just get some help.

I used to feel the same way with my fiancee when we were still just bf and gf (the ashamed and dirty part) but we were each others firsts you know? And we were in love. But that's because for 19 years all I had shoved down my thorat was that "sex is wrong save yourself for marriage/ no man wants used goods" I was raised by a religious family, but I don't see anything wrong with it unless you have sex with random people or every guy/girl you date.

[Twisted Rainbow Insanity]

Chelsi C21

Twisted Rainbow Insanity

To be honest, it makes me really uncomfortable. Sometimes I wish that there were no such thing as sex. I don't like how it affects people, and it can turn a lot of people into monsters over it. If some guy tried making a random sexual comment to me I would probably feel like crying. I only have sex with my boyfriend, and that's because it's meaningful to me. But sometimes it just goes too far, and I get scared again, and I feel ashamed and dirty. I don't know, I know I sound ridiculous. Maybe I should just get some help.

I used to feel the same way with my fiancee when we were still just bf and gf (the ashamed and dirty part) but we were each others firsts you know? And we were in love. But that's because for 19 years all I had shoved down my thorat was that "sex is wrong save yourself for marriage/ no man wants used goods" I was raised by a religious family, but I don't see anything wrong with it unless you have sex with random people or every guy/girl you date.

My boyfriend and I are each other's first too! (And hopefully our lasts xD) I was raised in a religious setting as well, but I was able to break free from all of the other Catholic teaching so I don't see why that particular one would stay.