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All the time! Doesn't matter who! 0.203125 20.3% [ 39 ]
Only if we're truly in love~ <3 0.51041666666667 51.0% [ 98 ]
Nope. I don't do sex. 0.14583333333333 14.6% [ 28 ]
Maybe when I'm older... 0.140625 14.1% [ 27 ]
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For me, I think holding hands and kissing are far more important than sex. I would NEVER kiss someone if I wasn't majorly crushing on them and I definitely wouldn't have sex with a random.
Is sex really important in your relationship? Would you get into a relationship knowing your partner didn't want it?
Or are you one of those people that absolutely needs it.
Would you have sex with someone you just met?

So what's your opinion guys?
Let me know!
I do not think holding hands is important in a relationship
You think this thread hasn't been here before a hundred times?
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            Is sex really important in your relationship?
            I wouldn't say it is "really" important, but it is indeed something I want in my relationships.

            Would you get into a relationship knowing your partner didn't want it?
            Hm, depends, but they would have to be pretty amazing for me to consider it.

            Or are you one of those people that absolutely needs it.
            No, I don't need it. But I do want it. There's only so much my hand can do for me.

            Would you have sex with someone you just met?
            Probably not. I'd rather see what our relationship is like first before going at it.
Hmm.. My thoughts on this are a bit different.

Kissing and holding hands are intimate gestures, but they are afectionate at best. This meaning-I kiss and hold my friends. To me kissing isn't romantic unless you make it romantic. There is a big difference between a swift peck of the lips, than a passionate smooch.

But, I will never kiss anyone other than my partner when I am in a relationship. Exclusive means exclusive.

Though to me sex is big deal I'm proudly abstinent. If someone even hints to me whoring because of my flirty personality, I'll get up in their face. As naive as it sounds: I'm saving my virginity for the person I fall in love with. And, even though I can really like someone, I've yet to fall in love.
      I'm not that interested in sex.
      I have the same view on kissing.

      I'm fine with it, but I could go months (maybe years, I haven't tried) without it and not give a s**t.
I could take or leave sex.
I used to think I would want sex more after I lost my virginity, and I've discovered that I could honestly live without it.
I would have sex with someone I just met quite easily if they were attractive.

Sex is important to me, I don't think I could deal with those 'waiting for the right one/only after marriage' types.

In a relationship, intimacy *does* make sex more fun though.
MynamesSEO
I do not think holding hands is important in a relationship

I don't think it's important as such but more something that shows your love.
Fizzlesticks
You think this thread hasn't been here before a hundred times?

Never said it hadn't been done before.
Anyway, I haven't personally seen one so I thought I could do one so I could get answers.
The Earth King
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            Is sex really important in your relationship?
            I wouldn't say it is "really" important, but it is indeed something I want in my relationships.

            Would you get into a relationship knowing your partner didn't want it?
            Hm, depends, but they would have to be pretty amazing for me to consider it.

            Or are you one of those people that absolutely needs it.
            No, I don't need it. But I do want it. There's only so much my hand can do for me.

            Would you have sex with someone you just met?
            Probably not. I'd rather see what our relationship is like first before going at it.


"Or are you one of those people that absolutely needs it.
No, I don't need it. But I do want it. There's only so much my hand can do for me."

Oh my god I cracked up at that part! xD
catnapgood
Hmm.. My thoughts on this are a bit different.

Kissing and holding hands are intimate gestures, but they are afectionate at best. This meaning-I kiss and hold my friends. To me kissing isn't romantic unless you make it romantic. There is a big difference between a swift peck of the lips, than a passionate smooch.

But, I will never kiss anyone other than my partner when I am in a relationship. Exclusive means exclusive.

Though to me sex is big deal I'm proudly abstinent. If someone even hints to me whoring because of my flirty personality, I'll get up in their face. As naive as it sounds: I'm saving my virginity for the person I fall in love with. And, even though I can really like someone, I've yet to fall in love.


"This meaning-I kiss and hold my friends."
Why I think it's improtant is because I would never kiss my friends (on the cheek) or hold their hand.
Even a hug is asking a bit much unless we're best friends.
And I think it's great that you're saving yourself for the person you love smile I'm doing the same.
Nezyl
      I'm not that interested in sex.
      I have the same view on kissing.

      I'm fine with it, but I could go months (maybe years, I haven't tried) without it and not give a s**t.

Well you sound pretty cool surprised (not saying people who are more into it aren't biggrin )
no i don't think id want to be with someone who didn't want to have sex.

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