Hmm, not sure which group I'd be in. Since I've never fallen in love, it's hard to say. I haven't dated all that much, but I'm a huge flirt (and I've had a number of random make-outs for fun). I have no trouble getting guys to like me, but I'm never actually interested in any of them. I want to fall in love, but I haven't yet... I'm 22. I feel like I'm just the girl who ends up breaking guys' hearts (which sucks, 'cause I hate having to let them down, I don't like to hurt people). Admittedly, the few times that I've found an interest in a guy, I ended up either letting him walk out of my life forever, or I, myself, turned around and walked away, never to look back. ...maybe I'm afraid...
So, I'm waiting to fall in love, but I'm also actively flirting (though, with guys I'm not interested in... flirting is all fun and good... doesn't mean much...). Neither of these techniques will work. What will work, though I have yet to get over myself to try it, is to change my thought pattern in regards to relationships and myself. Note that I wrote something above about: just being the girl who breaks hearts? Yah, that's the wrong kind of mindset for someone who wants to be in a lasting and meaningful relationship. The kind of mindset I'm demonstrating now will just aid me in continuing down my perpetually single path.