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Ugh this is so gay.
some guy is practically forcing me to show him noodz.
he is a really good friend of mine but his sexual frustration is getting in the way.
I dont know what to do D:
Don't show him the n***s if you dont want too. Tell him how you feel. If he doesnt respond favorably- tell him you wont be speaking to him in the near future.
teester
Don't show him the n***s if you dont want too. Tell him how you feel. If he doesnt respond favorably- tell him you wont be speaking to him in the near future.


I told him that i dont want to show him my n***s.. but he says he wont stop bothering me for them. and i really like him alot, hes my best bud.
He wants to give me his n***s but i dont like seeing the people i know naked >_<
First of all, don't. After you give them to him, anyone will be able to get them if he decides to share. Talk to him, and tell him you aren't interested and no means no. He needs to learn to back off. If you have to be mean, be mean. Suggest porn, wanking, whatever it takes, just leave you alone.
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As everyone's pointed out, showin' him the n***s is probably a *bad idea*. If he wants to keep troubling you for 'em, I suggest you ignore him. It'll hurt, but it'll also be better for the relationship.
that sounds like mah friend.. he randomly goes to the bathroom, strips, and walks out wearing nothing but a sock saying "kt, have u ever felt like uv forgotten something?" >.< put ur clothes back on...
iamthedeadninja
that sounds like mah friend.. he randomly goes to the bathroom, strips, and walks out wearing nothing but a sock saying "kt, have u ever felt like uv forgotten something?" >.< put ur clothes back on...
LOL. That's a new one.
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iamthedeadninja
that sounds like mah friend.. he randomly goes to the bathroom, strips, and walks out wearing nothing but a sock saying "kt, have u ever felt like uv forgotten something?" >.< put ur clothes back on...
LOL. That's a new one.
yup then he tried looking at my n****e.. it was interesting. i told him no.
He keeps on bugging me!
i blocked him on AIM but he made a new account >_<
yeah ive been in this situation recently... it sucked. Hes not my friend anymore. because he wouldn't back off. you really do need to stand your ground tho. and if he gets pissed and stops talking to you, then really, you dont need to be friends with him.
NO means NO make sure he kinow that...
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Just say NO and really mean it...like you would scold a dog for chewing your favorite italian leather shoes 3nodding an evil look and threat in your voice helps too.

if you have a strictly online only relationship and he can't hear your voice...insults do nicely.
first of all if he was your true friend he would not be asking you that if you already told him no. people can only go so far if you allow it! no means NO and what part of no does he not understand! be firm, you do not need this! if it means you not being his friend or stop talking to him well then let it be. he cannot force you to do anything you dont want to. itz kinda like date rape he cannot force you at all! it's your body, your decision. be strong!!
kick him to the curb, do friends treat you like that? duh, no!

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