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A woman will NOT develop male genitalia on HRT - saw this on the front page.
While a woman will not develop complete male genitalia on HRT, the clitoris of a woman is the equivalent of the p***s and will grow large- between 1.9-3 inches flaccid on HRT , resemble a p***s and also will become erect. I have a friend who says his is big enough for penetration and it's wonderful and the best thing about HRT for FTM.

Anyway! Hi, I like to go by Ly and I'm female IRL but exploring and experimenting to see if I actually want to be a boy. I would like to be treated as a boy here. biggrin HULLO!

I have a boyfriend, but this year I started exploring my feelings about gender and cross-dressing and role-playing and he has been very, how shall I say, disrupted by this? He still loves me but our sex life has died and I'm very lonely and sad because of it. We may end up splitting apart romantically. u_u Looking for a place to express these issues, feelings and thoughts because I feel pretty trapped in my current life.

So that's me! 3nodding


Welcome. :3 You are very much right. I wouldn't say it's the best thing personally, but it's certainly pretty awesome. I've been on Testosterone over a year now and while I've certainly had major downstairs growth I'm still no where near big enough for any type of penetration. I'm maybe 1.5" hard (but I haven't been able to measure it either.) I'd say it would be a bad thing to promote transmen to aspire towards that because if the growth isn't significant enough it's going to be a MAJOR disappointment down the road and possibly cause the feeling of 'not being man enough.' I'll certainly admit that my front page needs A LOT of re-working and re-wording because the way I wrote that all those years ago just made me cringe. I wrote this right at the beginning of my transition when I was 16 so I've grown a lot these last six years.

Gah. Sorry to hear that Ly. Unfortunately it's not uncommon for some relationships to fall apart. Seems like it's either that or you grow closer.

Welcome again bro. It's good to have you here.
Jeez, has it been that long? Damn I guess it has been. In feb I will have been on HRT for five years. Feel old. sweatdrop
Haha yeah. xD It's been quite a while! How's it been going?
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Haha yeah. xD It's been quite a while! How's it been going?
Pretty good, have a good job that isn't a dead end, got family who support me, those who don't I don't have to deal with, and I pass well enough nowadays I don't have to worry about random jerks harassing me for being trans. Hoping to be able to save up enough for either some FFS or breast augmentation by the end of next year.

What area of California are you moving to? Northern, central, or southern? (I'm in central)
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Haha yeah. xD It's been quite a while! How's it been going?
Pretty good, have a good job that isn't a dead end, got family who support me, those who don't I don't have to deal with, and I pass well enough nowadays I don't have to worry about random jerks harassing me for being trans. Hoping to be able to save up enough for either some FFS or breast augmentation by the end of next year.

What area of California are you moving to? Northern, central, or southern? (I'm in central)
Haha that's awesome! My dad took a sociology class last year and made a COMPLETE turn around so I went from having a completely un-supportive family to having a completely supportive one. xD Quite a welcome surprise.

I -think- I pass fairly well but I was ma'am'd once with facial hair and that surprised the hell out of me. :/ Good luck on saving up money! It's certainly tough. x.x As far as I know my insurance in California covers it, but I won't know for sure until I get there.

Southern California. Riverside county. Never ventured north. I hear terrible things live up there. 3nodding
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Worked yesterday, and a co-worker says there's a rumor going around that I "might be seeking a sex change" .... funny enough. I mean, sure, it's true, but I refuse to let them get the satisfaction of knowing. *Shrug*
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Worked yesterday, and a co-worker says there's a rumor going around that I "might be seeking a sex change" .... funny enough. I mean, sure, it's true, but I refuse to let them get the satisfaction of knowing. *Shrug*
Most people don't understand the subject of transition at all. They have no idea what to think or say to be polite and might even be curious about it. My experience though has been people who aren't going through it know next to nothing about it and because of that say stupid/rude/mean/annoying things without meaning to.
Hi, all. I need to speak to another transman through PM's who really knows his stuff about transition because I have a few pressing questions. PM me as soon as you can, okay? Don't worry about if someone else has answered my request, because the more the merrier based on personal opinion, etc. Thank you!
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Been on hormones for nearly 8 months and I keep getting called "sir" left and right sweatdrop
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Been on hormones for nearly 8 months and I keep getting called "sir" left and right sweatdrop
What kind of clothes are you wearing, hairstyle, etc...? Also how is your voice?

Been sir'd at work because of my voice on the phone and I'm years into practicing, it happens.

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