GuardianCentauri
Ugh, yikes. It sounds like you went through a ton of awful drama on so many different levels over such a short period of time. sad
Anyways, I'm glad to hear that he turned out to be okay and didn't commit suicide, but I'd sure feel deeply betrayed about all the cheating too, god. I take it from your wording at the end of "ex-bf" that you did officially break up with him? I've known other people who had significant others who went down the suicidal or claiming to be suicidal path every time they came close to a spliting of the relationship. As much as I would be truly concerned for their well-being, I'd also feel resentful and used if I were continually put on the guilt train about it. confused
He's done this before and I found out about it, but it was only one other person and the circumstances were a little different. So we got over it and moved on.
This new thing, he was dating someone else for 8 months in an LDR, and I would continually ask about it, and he would continually deny it. Well she came over to meet us, and he said she was a ********, and I was ok with that, but then when she got here, it was clear they were very romantically involved. After a week of both of us being lied to, to our faces, about his relationship with the other one of us, I wrote a note directly to the other girl. Then s**t blew up even more than it had already.
I learned that not only was he also dating her, but another girl I knew about but wasn't suspecting, and on top of that, probably other people we both didn't know about. He was giving ALL of us the same lines, about how he wanted to marry us and s**t, and lying to each of us.
I had broken up with him during this 7 day drama fest maybe 3 days before this happened, so the relationship was already dead to me by the time the note happened. Also, I had been on the fence about breaking up with him for about 2 months prior to this, for other reasons.
So this big ******** happens, and the girl that's here and I become somewhat friends, and everyone has broken up with him, and we actually had a decent time last night at the end of it.
But I'm getting REALLY ANNOYED at everyone sending ME "don't be suicidal!!" messages, when THIS ENTIRE TIME, I have NOT shown ANY signs of being suicidal. Are you ******** kidding me??
I realize I'm kind of pre-disposed to killing myself a lot, but I have NEVER, and WILL NEVER kill myself over a ******** relationship. I'm sorry, it's just not on the list of things that have ever made me want to off myself. I am perfectly fine with being single.
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Anyway, so I thought I was over the whole ordeal.
I am never getting in a romantic relationship with him ever again, though honestly we'll likely still remain best friends (but I'm re-thinking this as well. I need more time to sit on it, really).
BUT, and this is what really ******** angers me, the girl that's here is here for 3 more days on vacation right. Despite ALL THIS, despite the fact that he's cheated on her with TWO PEOPLE RIGHT NOW, and ONE MORE in the past, she made up with him in one day and is now calling herself his girlfriend again.
Way to ruin ******** everything.
Not only am I kinda jealous (whatever, can't help that), but it means that this liar goes totally unpunished for his actions and gets exactly what he wanted (because reportedly[from him] he loved her the most).
What also angers the ******** out of me is that despite crying every night about being cheated on this entire two week vacation, and despairing about her "having nobody" and that's why she had my ex-bf over facebook, despite all this ******** drama, she has the nerve to say she's independent and doesn't need anybody.
Yeah, SO independent. That's why you cry about having nobody and then get back together in the same day with this wonderous cheater, amiright?
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I'm just waiting for this "new" relationship to fail so hardcore. Because she's become a controlling b***h due to circumstances. She reads all his fb everything now, blocks some of the past gfs (not me thouhg, she thinks I'm pretty cool.. whatever) from his page... Etc., etc.
Even if he hadn't cheated on her, she's now making it a hugely toxic relationship by controlling everything he does and who he talks to.