Miguel Lobo
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Post: 46017989_1 created on Mon Dec 22, 2008 8:50 pmPosted: Mon Dec 22, 2008 8:50 pm
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Artimus and I have discussed a thread for Daddy Doms and their little girls. It would not be to deplete readers and posters from other threads having to do with BDSM or D/s but rather to give those who are interested a chance to discuss that specific interest and the various ways that interest . . . well, interests an individual.
We must understand that Doms and subs of any particular orientation are like virtually any other category of items; you have to speak in general terms because each example is a bit different, and that difference becomes affected even more when you have two individuals instead of just one. When they interact they affect one another, limits are respected, expanded, changed, tolerances are adjusted. First; what is a Daddy Dom? One must assume that you are interested in D/s or you are going to be very lost. If you are not familiar with D/s then by all means, ask, but you may well be directed to other threads. Now, to an answer (somewhat) to that question. A Daddy Dom is a Dom. They are in charge. It’s that simple. How much in charge depends upon the relationship with the individual little girl. But generally speaking (as we’ve agreed to do) a Daddy Dom looks to his little girl much as a Daddy would to his daughter. He will care for, nurture, mentor, teach, discipline if necessary, and hopefully, respect and love his girl. Second; what is the little girl’s role in such a relationship? As indicated above, it depends. Generally she’s thought to accept her Daddy’s attention, guidance, lessons and discipline when applied, and yes, accept his love as well. The relationship can be anything from a Adult/child relationship to Adult/adult with age play and everything in between. It can be based on sex, the Daddy being possibly ***** in nature but without a child being involved, to a kinky role play. It can be where the little girl feels herself as a little girl of whatever particular age she feels, but not in a role play sense. It would be that she would BE a little girl, 6, 7, 15, but not role playing, not putting on an act but rather being that little girl. It doesn’t have to be sexual and it can be a mix of sexual and non-sexual. For instance, Artimus can feel 2, or 3, or a bit older. This does not mean she wants to have sex with Daddy when she’s that age. It can mean that she’s 14 or 15 and DOES want to have sex then, with Daddy. OK, the incest aspect. . . for God’s sake, let’s not fail to discuss this! Is this incest? Of course not (unless the Daddy is really the Daddy of the little girl.) With that aside we have to acknowledge that there is a certain amount of incestuous feelings in many such relationships. Whether that is the focus or a side bar to the relationship depends on the individuals in the relationship. Now I think we’ve said quite enough to get this thing rolling, so let’s be clear; this thread isn’t to promote Daddy Dom/little girl relationships but rather to explain them. We are here to answer questions when we can and to discuss. We will ignore those who simply say, “Ewww, that’s disgusting!” usually with poor grammar and massive quantities of misspelled words. If those people who are offended by it want to discuss it and wish to state their opinions in a clear, non confrontational manner, then good. Dissension isn’t bad in and of itself, nor is such a relationship for everyone. One note; this is a LOT more mainstream than many realize. As an example here are a couple of songs you might find interesting. The first was quite popular. http://www.lyrics.com/index.php/artists/lyric/george-michael-p-4909-lyrics-father-figure http://www.lyrics.com/index.php/artists/lyric/fleetwood-mac-p-4273-lyrics-oh-daddy Questions? Answers? Experiences? We’re open to all. [EDIT] If anyone wishes to contact either Artimus or myself in a PM, please feel free to do so. I can understand that some may have a question about this lifestye and not wish to be public about it. Feel welcome here, or in private. EDIT: Recently we were approached by a site moderator (very politely I might add) who told us that there had been complaints, specifically by one individual that we were promoting *****. I want to make this very clear; 1.) we are NOT promoting this lifestyle but rather we are an informative thread regarding Daddy Dom or any parental figure, with that of another person with a childLIKE fetish or lifestyle. In almost all cases this "child" is a consenting adult and if we WERE promoting the lifestyle that is what we would promote. We cannot prevent behavior of others of any age but we can let everyone know WE are speaking of consenting adults. If after this edit one or more still don't get that then I'm sorry, but they will have to deal with their own problems of reality denial. If by chance we have mislead, I apologize and if there are still questions please discuss this with the many regulars of this thread. Thank you, Michael |
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