Submissive Support--- Standing Proud with Heads Bowed

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[Katefox Tarnagona]

Nightwolf: I think you're right. Having patience can be hard, but it's working out better to take things slowly, especially as we are both still learning. Nah, it's not mean if it's an accident.

Coco: I've never actually had a collar before. And wow, you think he'd really try to give away your birthday present to someone else? That's...kind of incredibly jerkish, because if he gave it as a present, then it's yours, whether you wear it or not.

[faerie graveyard]

I'm a switch, usually more of a dom because that is what my boyfriend prefers (he's a sub), but currently looking around to learn a bit more about the more submissive side of myself. Would I be welcome here or should I look elsewhere?

[Katefox Tarnagona]

ChibiLady

I'm a switch, usually more of a dom because that is what my boyfriend prefers (he's a sub), but currently looking around to learn a bit more about the more submissive side of myself. Would I be welcome here or should I look elsewhere?

Definitely welcome here. 3nodding Hi.

[nightwolf714]

ChibiLady

I'm a switch, usually more of a dom because that is what my boyfriend prefers (he's a sub), but currently looking around to learn a bit more about the more submissive side of myself. Would I be welcome here or should I look elsewhere?

Sure, the more the merrier. ^_^ I think there might be a couple switches in here, or at least a couple who poke their heads in once in a while.

[faerie graveyard]

Katefox Tarnagona

ChibiLady

I'm a switch, usually more of a dom because that is what my boyfriend prefers (he's a sub), but currently looking around to learn a bit more about the more submissive side of myself. Would I be welcome here or should I look elsewhere?

Definitely welcome here. 3nodding Hi.

Yay. :3 <3

But, yeah. So I was reading the last page, turning people from being super-vanilla into a nice blend of vanilla and kinky is the most fun, in my opinion. e we
It's really really fun to just break people out of their box, and have them be wild and then still maintain that little sweetness. :3

>>; <is nosy/rambles a lot.>

If You Hate Me, Ignore Me. Talking s**t About Me Only Makes Me Famous.
Oh, and makes you look like a total a** too.

[nightwolf714]

ChibiLady

Katefox Tarnagona

ChibiLady

I'm a switch, usually more of a dom because that is what my boyfriend prefers (he's a sub), but currently looking around to learn a bit more about the more submissive side of myself. Would I be welcome here or should I look elsewhere?

Definitely welcome here. 3nodding Hi.

Yay. :3 <3

But, yeah. So I was reading the last page, turning people from being super-vanilla into a nice blend of vanilla and kinky is the most fun, in my opinion. e we
It's really really fun to just break people out of their box, and have them be wild and then still maintain that little sweetness. :3

>>; <is nosy/rambles a lot.>

If You Hate Me, Ignore Me. Talking s**t About Me Only Makes Me Famous.
Oh, and makes you look like a total a** too.

Most definitely. I love being my Alpha's spoiled lil' pup, as long as I don't get spoiled rotten. ^_^ He's getting to be a good Dom and is okay with taking control, although he's still nice to me. <3 <3 <3

[Fial Neilans little moon]

Katefox Tarnagona

Nightwolf: I think you're right. Having patience can be hard, but it's working out better to take things slowly, especially as we are both still learning. Nah, it's not mean if it's an accident.

Coco: I've never actually had a collar before. And wow, you think he'd really try to give away your birthday present to someone else? That's...kind of incredibly jerkish, because if he gave it as a present, then it's yours, whether you wear it or not.

Well I wouldn't put it past him at this point. It has only been a few weeks (max) since he left me and the other day he brought up his sexual past with this other girl. I did not need to hear it and he should know that. I don't want to blame it on simply him being a dumbass. It seems like he is actually to arrogant and stubborn to think of anyone but himself these days. He knows this girl he almost left me for doesn't want him back and he knows he is rubbing it in my face that he wanted her, not me, the whole time he was with me (3 months). He was a great guy, everyone who knew him thought so, until he pulled this s**t. His best friend can barely talk to him these days because of how drastically he went against his own morals and standards when we broke up.

[faerie graveyard]

I don't do well with really mean or cruel doms. XD;;


Sweet - Wow what a jerk. ;( If any of my boys did that to me. Sub/dom/whatever. I'd smack them sh*tless. That's just really scummy and not dom like. Doms should treat their subs/slaves with a certain amount of respect if you ask me.

[Katefox Tarnagona]

sweetcharades1234

Katefox Tarnagona

Nightwolf: I think you're right. Having patience can be hard, but it's working out better to take things slowly, especially as we are both still learning. Nah, it's not mean if it's an accident.

Coco: I've never actually had a collar before. And wow, you think he'd really try to give away your birthday present to someone else? That's...kind of incredibly jerkish, because if he gave it as a present, then it's yours, whether you wear it or not.

Well I wouldn't put it past him at this point. It has only been a few weeks (max) since he left me and the other day he brought up his sexual past with this other girl. I did not need to hear it and he should know that. I don't want to blame it on simply him being a dumbass. It seems like he is actually to arrogant and stubborn to think of anyone but himself these days. He knows this girl he almost left me for doesn't want him back and he knows he is rubbing it in my face that he wanted her, not me, the whole time he was with me (3 months). He was a great guy, everyone who knew him thought so, until he pulled this s**t. His best friend can barely talk to him these days because of how drastically he went against his own morals and standards when we broke up.

I don't know what to say. I only hope he gets himself sorted out, and sorry that you have to deal with that.

[Fial Neilans little moon]

Katefox Tarnagona

sweetcharades1234

Katefox Tarnagona

Nightwolf: I think you're right. Having patience can be hard, but it's working out better to take things slowly, especially as we are both still learning. Nah, it's not mean if it's an accident.

Coco: I've never actually had a collar before. And wow, you think he'd really try to give away your birthday present to someone else? That's...kind of incredibly jerkish, because if he gave it as a present, then it's yours, whether you wear it or not.

Well I wouldn't put it past him at this point. It has only been a few weeks (max) since he left me and the other day he brought up his sexual past with this other girl. I did not need to hear it and he should know that. I don't want to blame it on simply him being a dumbass. It seems like he is actually to arrogant and stubborn to think of anyone but himself these days. He knows this girl he almost left me for doesn't want him back and he knows he is rubbing it in my face that he wanted her, not me, the whole time he was with me (3 months). He was a great guy, everyone who knew him thought so, until he pulled this s**t. His best friend can barely talk to him these days because of how drastically he went against his own morals and standards when we broke up.

I don't know what to say. I only hope he gets himself sorted out, and sorry that you have to deal with that.

I hope he gets himself sorted out too. I am doing my best to deal with it, including spending the holidays with my family. I leave tomorrow and I'm looking forward to it.

[nightwolf714]

ChibiLady

I don't do well with really mean or cruel doms. XD;;


Sweet - Wow what a jerk. ;( If any of my boys did that to me. Sub/dom/whatever. I'd smack them sh*tless. That's just really scummy and not dom like. Doms should treat their subs/slaves with a certain amount of respect if you ask me.

Totally agree. Submission is a gift, not something to be demanded. That means that a certain amount of respect is required. And I don't mean no bad words or anything, especially if you've got a kink for that. But respect for the other person is a definite requirement.

Have fun with your family, SweetCharades. Getting away a bit might help clear your head and let you deal with things more easily. I hope it does. *hug*

[Fial Neilans little moon]

nightwolf714

ChibiLady

I don't do well with really mean or cruel doms. XD;;


Sweet - Wow what a jerk. ;( If any of my boys did that to me. Sub/dom/whatever. I'd smack them sh*tless. That's just really scummy and not dom like. Doms should treat their subs/slaves with a certain amount of respect if you ask me.

Totally agree. Submission is a gift, not something to be demanded. That means that a certain amount of respect is required. And I don't mean no bad words or anything, especially if you've got a kink for that. But respect for the other person is a definite requirement.

Have fun with your family, SweetCharades. Getting away a bit might help clear your head and let you deal with things more easily. I hope it does. *hug*

*hugs* Thank you. I am hoping that is what will happen. ^w^

On the comment about submission being a gift, in my opinion, both submission and Dominance are gifts. It is just as much a submissive's choice when it comes to a Dominant as it is the Dominant's choice when it comes to a submissive.

[nightwolf714]

sweetcharades1234

nightwolf714

ChibiLady

I don't do well with really mean or cruel doms. XD;;


Sweet - Wow what a jerk. ;( If any of my boys did that to me. Sub/dom/whatever. I'd smack them sh*tless. That's just really scummy and not dom like. Doms should treat their subs/slaves with a certain amount of respect if you ask me.

Totally agree. Submission is a gift, not something to be demanded. That means that a certain amount of respect is required. And I don't mean no bad words or anything, especially if you've got a kink for that. But respect for the other person is a definite requirement.

Have fun with your family, SweetCharades. Getting away a bit might help clear your head and let you deal with things more easily. I hope it does. *hug*

*hugs* Thank you. I am hoping that is what will happen. ^w^

On the comment about submission being a gift, in my opinion, both submission and Dominance are gifts. It is just as much a submissive's choice when it comes to a Dominant as it is the Dominant's choice when it comes to a submissive.

Definitely. It requires mutual respect for each other. I would not be able to be a sub if not for my Alpha and my Alpha would not be able to be a Dom without me. I need a Dom and he needs a sub, but unless we were both willing to gift each other our gift, it wouldn't have happened. Now, he respects me and takes care of me. I respect him and try hard to obey his rules. smile

[Fial Neilans little moon]

nightwolf714

sweetcharades1234

nightwolf714

ChibiLady

I don't do well with really mean or cruel doms. XD;;


Sweet - Wow what a jerk. ;( If any of my boys did that to me. Sub/dom/whatever. I'd smack them sh*tless. That's just really scummy and not dom like. Doms should treat their subs/slaves with a certain amount of respect if you ask me.

Totally agree. Submission is a gift, not something to be demanded. That means that a certain amount of respect is required. And I don't mean no bad words or anything, especially if you've got a kink for that. But respect for the other person is a definite requirement.

Have fun with your family, SweetCharades. Getting away a bit might help clear your head and let you deal with things more easily. I hope it does. *hug*

*hugs* Thank you. I am hoping that is what will happen. ^w^

On the comment about submission being a gift, in my opinion, both submission and Dominance are gifts. It is just as much a submissive's choice when it comes to a Dominant as it is the Dominant's choice when it comes to a submissive.

Definitely. It requires mutual respect for each other. I would not be able to be a sub if not for my Alpha and my Alpha would not be able to be a Dom without me. I need a Dom and he needs a sub, but unless we were both willing to gift each other our gift, it wouldn't have happened. Now, he respects me and takes care of me. I respect him and try hard to obey his rules. smile

Aww that is so cute >w< And is definitely what I am describing. ^W^

[Kamea Leilani]

nightwolf714

Imperial_Persephone

Subbies~ I found the definition for dumba**es like our friend Sweetcharades ran into, CHDW: Clueless, Horny, Dom(me) Wannabe. What do you think?

You need an A for Arrogant in there. XP

Zombiie says:

CHADW?

Coco: >.> I'm going to come down there and beat the s**t out of this douchebag, mkay? Make him feel pain...
Also, could you move back in with your 'rents? To get away from Mister a*****e?

Fake dominants: I just ignore/laugh at them. Once you can get to the point where they don't bug you, laughing at them, especially to their face, has amazing results xD
It pulls their self-esteem down the same way they were just trying to pull yours down, but with half the effort and twice the results. =D

Submissiveness: I was always a kid who wanted others to take control. I can, if I must, but I really prefer others to. I'm much more comfortable following the lead of a trusted friend than telling them what to do. Strangers however, if they don't have a direct authority over me I usually won't listen. Part of that is from me being painfully shy around new people. I'd rather ignore them and come off rude than actually have to talk to them.

Vanilla-turned-kinky: I did that with Master =P It worked out pretty well once He understood that He didn't have to be mean to be Dominant. We're fairly light, but then again we live with His parents. His is more of a laid-back power, but He's not afraid to use it if I'm out of line/etc. Like, when we were leaving our kinky friend's house one time, I wouldn't leave because my friend and I were talking. I wasn't doing it to be mean or bratty, we were just trying to finish our conversation. So Master grabbed the D-ring on my collar and pulled me out xD

Mmmmrrrrghhhhh...Brraaiiiiiinnssssss?