Well, I don't actively go out of my way to make the lives of others miserable, and when I can, I try to better the lives of those I care for. I also don't actively go out of my way to do things that are considered immoral by the greater public.(Such as stealing, cheating, beating the s**t out of the elderly/young/animals, don't have sex with children/animals, or purposely wreaking havoc in any other manner.)
But I'm also considered a sexual deviant. (Gay and into BDSM with my long-term partner/husband.)
So, personally, I don't think I deserve eternal damnation for enjoying healthy, consenting activities.
I'm not religious now, but even when I was I felt like I'd go to hell as opposed to heaven. Heaven was always described as something for the select few. What did I ever do that was special enough to deserve a spot in heaven? I didn't lie, cheat, or steal and I was very active when it came to volunteer work and always looked out for others, but I still felt like I was undeserving to go to heaven.