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Should I tell her off?

Yes, let it all out, ******** her, get her out of your life, she's ruining it. 0.85185185185185 85.2% [ 23 ]
No, for whatever reason. 0.14814814814815 14.8% [ 4 ]
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Well there's this girl named ashley.
She's my ex, I dated her online. =.=
For some reason,
she thinks im wannabe emo.
She thinks im obssessed/stalking her.
thinks I still like her.

for about a month she was stalking ME, and complaining about how I stalk HER, call her names etc.
I used to call her a whore and slut because She would flirt with every guy she sees and her avatar, well yeah.
She'd do that cyber sex thing with a guy infront of me to make me jealous.
It doesnt bother me anymore, but yeah.
I dont call her names, it doesnt bother me, im not so emo anymore, im not stalking her, YET SHE HAS TO ALWAYS HOLD A GRUDGE AND COMPLAIN CONSTANTLY HOW I DO THAT, WHEN IT'S LIKE 6 MONTHES AGO!

She's probably gunna post on this as soon as she sees it, and give me a
ASSLOAD of DRAMA {edit} nvm, I decided to do this in a mule. Anyway she usually does give me alot of drama.
She has mood swings, bad ones, she is also bipolar. she is, and it's real easy to tell.
She gets very emotional too.

Okay so should I stop talking to her completly and tell her off? (because there's more personal stuff to it than this)
or should I just deal with it?
There's no way I can work it out with her, she doesnt listen, she just blows it off like "I dont give a s**t".
Im just afraid that one day i'll piss her off so much, that she will stop talking to me.
As benefiting as that is, im also afraid that then i'll regret it completly, and all that.
Tell her off!
I remember my ex was saying I was stalking him and he was the one Spamming my text messages and I didn't respond and one day i got annoyed and told him to ******** off and he kept bothering me >=(
So i called his dad xD
And then he stopped texting me for a month but guess what? >.> He made his friend stalk me instead so i got mad and changed my number but before that I told them off >8|
So Yeah tell her off and then loose all contact with her =D
And if you need backup on the drama or fight tell me and I'll help o_o
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You shouldn't have to deal with someone like that who's just always aggravating you. I'd keep my distance from her for a little while and then maybe try to start up a friendship again if she means that much to you. If not, then just break it off completely.
Online relationship dude? Unless you know her in real life you probably shouldn't take it seriously. I mean she could be a predator O_O or worse a penguin. Anyways thats not the point. If she has to have cyber sex with guys on Gaia...she probably isn't worth keeping.

I understand that you might be infatuated with her. But thats kind of unhealthy. Relax and stop with the drama, Relationships are just supposed to be fun. Nothing is supposed to change other than the fact that you get to call her your girlfriend. And like...do stuff. dramallama .

So yeah thats what I got, I doubt it was helpful, but I get gold for posting so yeah.
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kikyo_hikari
Tell her off!
I remember my ex was saying I was stalking him and he was the one Spamming my text messages and I didn't respond and one day i got annoyed and told him to ******** off and he kept bothering me >=(
So i called his dad xD
And then he stopped texting me for a month but guess what? >.> He made his friend stalk me instead so i got mad and changed my number but before that I told them off >8|
So Yeah tell her off and then loose all contact with her =D
And if you need backup on the drama or fight tell me and I'll help o_o

Telling her off is just going to cause more drama though. I mean, if you can calmly tell her the reasons you dun want to talk to her anymore then that's fine. But yelling at her and just breaking off contact seems like a jerk-face thing to do. Granted, she was acting meanly but two wrongs don't make a right.
Um... Seriously? Why are you still talking to your ex, who you apparently don't get along with? I don't talk to any of my ex's, period.
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It's the internet. Ignore her.
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Bone-Z Dekay
Um... Seriously? Why are you still talking to your ex, who you apparently don't get along with? I don't talk to any of my ex's, period.

I'm friends with one of my ex's and there hasn't been much of a problem. Funny how her name is also Ashley and how she also used to have a tendency to cause drama. lol. Not so much anymore though. Personally, I don't see anything wrong with being friends with an ex.
die kleine Fee
It's the internet. Ignore her.


Tell her to ******** off, then ignore her.
die kleine Fee
It's the internet. Ignore her.

My thoughts exactly.
Half_Tenshi
kikyo_hikari
Tell her off!
I remember my ex was saying I was stalking him and he was the one Spamming my text messages and I didn't respond and one day i got annoyed and told him to ******** off and he kept bothering me >=(
So i called his dad xD
And then he stopped texting me for a month but guess what? >.> He made his friend stalk me instead so i got mad and changed my number but before that I told them off >8|
So Yeah tell her off and then loose all contact with her =D
And if you need backup on the drama or fight tell me and I'll help o_o

Telling her off is just going to cause more drama though. I mean, if you can calmly tell her the reasons you dun want to talk to her anymore then that's fine. But yelling at her and just breaking off contact seems like a jerk-face thing to do. Granted, she was acting meanly but two wrongs don't make a right.

well that b***h probably deserves it, I may of treated her badly, but I made up for it for 5 monthes of kissing a** and dealing with her bullshit.
honestly, I think she's a person to takes EVERYTHING for granted, doesnt put herself in other people's position so maybe she can understand,
she just doesnt understand anything I tell her, because she doesnt bother to listen.
She told me to go die today because she took something I said the wrong way...
I said im sorry, but she still completly ignored it like she didnt hear my apology.
block her
I had to move accounts cause my ex was stalking me over the internet
creepy dude
oh yeah and who voted no and why?
sugarhamster
die kleine Fee
It's the internet. Ignore her.

My thoughts exactly.

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