Well, a**l sex is number one for me, I guess if you'd consider that a kink. In most situations it's a fetish (i.e. necessary) that I or my partner is ********.
I also like crossdressing, I'd consider that a kink. I've never tried it with a partner but I'd like to get ******** while I'm wearing stockings and crotchless fishnets. surprised Also sometimes just wearing certain articles of lingere will turn me on. For instance I've been lounging around in thongs when possible. My mom went to bed and my step dad is out so I'm enjoying my solitude in a cute little number. >_> The catch: I don't want to be seen as a woman while I'm crossdressing. I have my manbits, they're pretty damn obvious in a tiny thong. My body has really masculinized over the past few months so I really just look like a man parading around in ladie's undies.
I also have recently discovered I'm a *********, but I'll never ACT OUT on those fantasies. It's essentially a peg above *****; rather than being turned on by prepubescent children I am turned on by pubescent boys (roughly between the ages of 11 and 15, depending on the kid). Kind of weird. But since I don't condone child abuse, I try to instead find twinks or young-looking transmen.
I enjoy WATCHING some forms of BDSM, but I don't like the psychological aspect of "slave" and "master." I also don't think I want some of those things done to me. I don't like the idea of being tied up so I can't move. But I DO like the idea of doing horrible things to my a**. I don't know why, really, but I like pain there.