[ Poll ] Sex-Ed and What They Missed! *X-MAS CONTEST*

Handing out condoms on schools: will it reduce the STD/pregnancy rate?

yes		64.1%	[ 75 ]
no		35.9%	[ 42 ]

Total Votes: 117

[KatieKat920]

Zero Fail

KatieKat920

I'd tell them that there is Gay intercourse, or foreplay. But I don't see why a gay guy wouldn't know about gay sex unless they were keeping it saved for marriage or something.

But then again many gay men consider oral sex to be the primary form of sex. It all depends on the person.

Yea, I just put that in the foreplay section but it can be the main sex.

Either way, they can still learn without having to watch porn. Just some people take to learning by watching porn.

[fashion zombie harlot]

i was going to have my husband explain to me, since he's been with guys... and then id explain that to my friend. lol

would that work?

[Lucky Stone Lissi]

Maybe. I dunno, I think perhaps just saying "oral, manual, a**l" and giving them a dictionary and some lube would work. I honestly think learning about sex is something people should do on their own (or as a couple, anyway). There's a danger of getting too prescriptive, of accidentally giving the impression there's a 'right way'. It should be about what they feel is right or natural for them, what they want to do, not what they think everyone does.

I think it's also important to tell them not to rush into trying everything they've heard of in that one night.

[fashion zombie harlot]

well they really dont know anything.. lol they do oral.. just never done a**l.
thats why i was going to have my husband help explain.

[KatieKat920]

I don't see why you can't explain it yourself Harlot. You were a mod of a sex-ed thread afterall.

a**l really can't be that hard to explain, you get 2 guys, one in whatever position feels comfortable, and then "stick it in their pooper" as my friend has once stated.

EDIT: However, that's an overly simplified version, there is a lot to it if you don't want it to be painful.

[fashion zombie harlot]

well, im not a guy XD thats why. i dont know how a**l is for guys experience wise XD

thats why i said my husband. he's had experiences enough to explain more things and any questions on experiences

[Zero Fail]

What needs to be explained? It just doesn't seem like anything needs to be explained. Everybody finds out about how to do sex and make it work their own way without instruction.

[Lucky Stone Lissi]

XD With lube! I don't think it should be too hard to explain to them. But maybe suggest they try other things involving the prostate too, first? Like... a**l fingering, if you see what I mean? Just so they have some idea of what is actually pleasurable!

[KatieKat920]

If the guy's like a**l, it should be pleasurable. Simple enough.

If they really don't know what it's like, they should just experiment on their own since this is obviously making you uncomfortable it seems.

[fashion zombie harlot]

@lucky- as far as i know- they've done everything but d**k to a**.
i dont know if they want to use it, lol, but im sure they know how to get it in since they've done fingering.

im nervous/excited for em

@kat- not uncomfortable- i just dont know the male side of the experience

[KatieKat920]

It depends on if they like a**l stimulation.

If it's anything like for you, it should be most enjoyable.

[fashion zombie harlot]

it should be amazing for them then XD

[Magic-Froggie Sundae]

@Zero: "I personally am pro-life, but I won't go so far as to deny any mother any rights....they had one mom who developed cancer during her pregnancy and she wasn't going to terminate her pregnancy because of it, but if worse came to worse, she was going to be put on life support (which can be endangering to fetal development). She was 25 weeks along when the state seized custody of the fetus and forced her to have a c-section that killed her and the BABY. It's totally invasive and taking away every woman's right."

@fashion: "I would say that's your choice....or theirs....they probably won't ask you to sacrifice your feminimity for their sake. Or, you could get more feminine slacks and a tighter blouse and tailored jacket, compliment your body and their tuxes."

@Zilla: "I planned my wedding in two weeks...."

@fashion: "(O.o)....hmm....teach him how to perform oral and....a**l? Maybe....just tell him a bit about foreplay. It will probably just come naturally to him. Make sure they....'clean out' ahead of time...."

[Magic-Froggie Sundae]

(i think i compromised myself in that statement above....oh well....no one's perfect))

[Zero Fail]

Magic-Froggie Sundae

@Zero: "I personally am pro-life, but I won't go so far as to deny any mother any rights....they had one mom who developed cancer during her pregnancy and she wasn't going to terminate her pregnancy because of it, but if worse came to worse, she was going to be put on life support (which can be endangering to fetal development). She was 25 weeks along when the state seized custody of the fetus and forced her to have a c-section that killed her. It's totally invasive and taking away every woman's right."

I'm 100% pro-choice. Abortion I feel should be allowed for any/all reason. I however feel as if measures should be put in to prevent and lower abortion rates. Things like more funding for adoption agencies, and support for single mothers, or mothers in poverty. Making it easier to obtain emergency contraception, as well as better sex education at a much younger age should also be implemented.