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Myth: Pulling out does NOT help keep the woman from getting pregnant.
The sperm know's exactly what to do, and even if you get just a little bit on the outside of the v****a the sperm can still make its way into the v****a.


It takes just one, and there is sperm in the pre-c**.
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"I'm looking into getting some toys....like plugs and stuff to ease me into it a bit. They have beginner kits....lube is not a problem. Condom will be used too. I just don't want to mentally prepare for it, then he back out and I get all embarrassed."
What all can stimulate a clitoris orgasm?
Magic-Froggie Sundae
"I'm looking into getting some toys....like plugs and stuff to ease me into it a bit. They have beginner kits....lube is not a problem. Condom will be used too. I just don't want to mentally prepare for it, then he back out and I get all embarrassed."


One step at time. Once you try the toys, then you can drcide if you want to do it with hubby.
Zilla brad
Magic-Froggie Sundae
"I'm looking into getting some toys....like plugs and stuff to ease me into it a bit. They have beginner kits....lube is not a problem. Condom will be used too. I just don't want to mentally prepare for it, then he back out and I get all embarrassed."


One step at time. Once you try the toys, then you can drcide if you want to do it with hubby.
Also, if you're worried about... mess, being near a shower is good.
But I agree that lying on my stomach is the easiest for me, not only with controlling the weight, but just what's going on in general. I also am much more likely to aim to please if I get a little something-something first. Nothing makes me more agreeable than a screaming orgasm, and personally, I think that kind of reward system works best for my bf and I.
Speaking of controlling weight, I had a nice spill while on the bottom just last week. My elbows just slipped.
Up until now, I never knew you could get rug burn from high thread count sheets, but lo and behold, I've got one of those big, black, deep and nasty scabs taking up the entire side of my elbow, complete with red-rashy burn marks around it.
Abyssus _Puella
What all can stimulate a clitoris orgasm?


Almost anything that stimulates the c**t can lead to a clitoral orgasm. Be it your hands, a vibrator, your partner, or the washing machine.
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@Rot Crow: "LoL, be more careful next time! I'm kind of getting excited about it....but we'll probably not attempt for a long time. He was all interested in how you prepare for it and he even wants me to get some sex books to read together....gah, I am so outgoing on here about sex, but IRL, I am very reserved. I want to do crazy things, but he has never seemed into it before."

@Abyssus: "Stimulating the clitoris will bring on a c**t orgasm. I can't c** from that alone though. I have to have penetration. You could try a vibrator...."
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@Abyssus: "For some people, it takes certain types of pressure to trigger a c**t orgasm. Some like tapping, some rubbing in circular motions, some rubbing up and down....try it out, see what you like."
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Magic-Froggie Sundae
@Rot Crow: "LoL, be more careful next time! I'm kind of getting excited about it....but we'll probably not attempt for a long time. He was all interested in how you prepare for it and he even wants me to get some sex books to read together....gah, I am so outgoing on here about sex, but IRL, I am very reserved. I want to do crazy things, but he has never seemed into it before."

@Abyssus: "Stimulating the clitoris will bring on a c**t orgasm. I can't c** from that alone though. I have to have penetration. You could try a vibrator...."


@ Froggie: Good for you guys!

@Abyssus: I use a jackrabbit vibrator. I still cannot get an orgasm with penetration, so I use that to help. They make ones that are also shaped like dolphins, butterflys...basically anything with a GOOD vibration helps with clitoral stimulation. Hopefully you have a nice adult store that lets you open the package and test the motor in it.
Magic-Froggie Sundae
@Abyssus: "For some people, it takes certain types of pressure to trigger a c**t orgasm. Some like tapping, some rubbing in circular motions, some rubbing up and down....try it out, see what you like."

Oh this is what i do
"well first you eat her out but, you kinda bite her c**t. ( soft or hard weva she likes) and you suck in air (if You can, lick at the same time) (*with fingering) but thats just me.
Abyssus _Puella
What all can stimulate a clitoris orgasm?

Clitoral stimulation, pretty much. The type of movement, speed, amount of pressure, etc. varies from individual to individual. But don't jump yourself straight away - use indirect stimulation to build up arousal to begin with. Rubbing, poking, pinching, and slapping - of various areas on the vulva - are all acceptable ways to begin stimulation before you move on to direct contact. From thereon, it's a matter of speed, intensity, and motion, with many different combinations - and pieces of equipment - available. Fingers and vibrators are popular, but I've also heard good things about Mardi Gras beads (lubricate well).
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Ryokamatsu: "She wants to know what to do on her own...."

Morgan: "I wouldn't recommend Mardi Gras beads as the paint can break off and could lead to infection....they have toy beads made from silicone that are much better to use in sexual play."
I like penetration too, I luuuuuuurve my rabbit vibrator.
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Hey guys, position question:

When I'm on top, usually my back is bent, in a curve.
Sometimes my partner tries to straighten me up, because I figure it would feel really good. Anyway, when he tries to straighten me up like this, it hurts, very bad. I always say. "No, it hurts." So I go back to bending forward.
Oh and when I'm bent forward, my weight is on my hands, maybe since my hands no longer suport my weight when I straighten up, it puts pressure down there?

Why does it hurt like that?

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