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This is a thread with information regarding puberty, pregnancy, sexuality, and nooky! We ask that if you have any suggestions or information you would like us to add, please PM me with the information. Also, if you have any questions regarding any of these subjects one of our mods would be happy to help!


Please note that if you have any health conditions or problems and come here for answers, all we will do is beg you to seek medical attention. We are not doctors and wasting time here asking us about your health will only endanger you more.


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"Ugh! Well, it looks like I am back now for some time....I may be popping in and out though, so if I leave again, I am sorry. I am just torn as to how I should leave this thread or even if I should leave it. I put up a new poll, so let me know what you think....give me some more poll ideas, I have been out of ideas for awhile."


Content:
Introduction and Updates- 1st Post
Creator, Mods, and Hotlines - 2nd Post
Banners and Links and Everything Else- 3rd Post
Myths - 4th Post
Puberty - 5th Post
Sexual Orientation - 6th Post
Sex - 7th Post
PMS and Boobs - 8th Post
Birth Control - 9th Post
Pregnancy - 10th Post
STD's - 11th Post
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Meet The Thread OP:

"Hello! I'm Anna (aka: Magic-Froggie Sundae).
I'm 22 and married to my high school sweetie. I was very sheltered growing up and knew very little about anything going on 'down there'. I began having sex about a year after my husband and I began dating and decided to start educating myself on sex and sexual hygeine and anything else involved! Now, here I bring all of the information to this thread to help shed light on you and any questions you might have! I am familiar with sex mechanics, safe sex, PMS and women's health, and other things. PM me with your questions. It's what I am here for!"

Meet The Thread Mods:

My name is Katie (aka: KatieKat920).
I am 16 and in a long distance relationship.
I will soon be going to college but plan to be active here for a long while. I think that I am able to help people and at the same time I am learning myself. Some people might think that being 16, I shouldn't know about sex, but I think the opposite. People these days have sex younger and younger, and I think that it will be reassuring to know that there is an active teen trying to help out around this sort of thing. PM with any questions!

"Hello, I'm Brad (aka : Zilla Brad).
I'm 41 and single, never married. While I am a virgin, I have a great overall knowledge of sex through school, reading, and the media. I will try to help however I can or just talk to you!"

Hi, I'm Fran Salaska.
I'm 20 years old and single. I have a fair ammount of knowledge in everything. After high school I set out on a mission to learn all I could about sex. Feel free to ask me any questions!

"Hello. My name is Mallory (Masturbating_Rot_Crow).
I'm 22, currently an art student at NIU, and in a relationship soon to be four years old (woot!). I was lucky enough to have an expansive sex-ed growing up, thanks to four different schools with four different curriculums, an open mom, and equally curious friends. I never stop trying to learn more about sex, masturbation, STIs, pregnancy, and everything in between. I love reading cosmos, the latest medical journals, and staying up late to watch Talk Sex (I love you Sue!). I'll always try to answer your questions the best I can. Talk to me!

Hi, I'm Becky (aka: Ladybird Sauce).
I'm 18 and plan on moving in with my boyfriend. With incredibly conservative parents and very little sex ed at school, I turned to the internet to teach me what I needed to know. I hope I can pass some of that knowledge on. If you're struggling with issues to do with sex and religion (particularly Christianity), feel free to talk to me: I was once adamant that I'd never have sex before marriage. Otherwise, I can help with sex, relationships, and contraception. Feel free to PM me if you want to talk privately.
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LINKS:

Threads We Love:
When Your Uterus hates You::: Living With PCOS
Fizzlestick's Fantastic Safer Sex Kit
LDR Support Thread
Pregnancy Support
Lick My Boots! Master/Slave Passion and Lifestyle
Dominance/Submission Support
Submissive Support
Free Or Reduced Cost Birth Control
Talk Sex With Kate
Polyamory 102
The Official Post-Abortion Thread
Stripper Support Thread
Reusable Meunstral Products: cleaner, greener, cheaper
Super-Moms: Parent Support
Single Parent Support
ASEXUALITY Support
Operation: Beautiful
GLBTQ Support
Tokophobia: Those Who Fear Child Birth

Other:
KidsHealth
ScarleTeen
TeenWire
Puberty101

Videos:
How To Use A Condom
How Pregnancy Happens

Birth Conrol:
Trojan Condoms
LifeStyles Condoms
Undercover Condoms (flavored non-latex condoms and dentals dams!)

Foreplay:
K-Y Lube

Sexuality:
GLBT Basics

PMS:
GladRags
First Period
About.com - First Period

Birth Control:
How Stuff Works - Male Birth Control
Male Contraceptives
Billings Method - Family Planning
Natural Birth Control
Birth Control Fail Rates

Pregnancy:
First Time Parents Guide
New Mom Survival Strategy
Daddy-To-Be: Dealing With Pregnant Wife
Making The Most of Pregnancy: For Men
Miscarriage Support

It's About Choice:
Adoption
Abortion
Planned Parenthood
NAF: Pro-Choice
National Right To Life: Pro-Life[/url

International:
Planned Parenthood: International Program

STD:
BeSTD.org

Victims of Rape/Sexual Assault:
JusticeWomen
Escaping Hades
RAINN


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MYTHBUSTERS:
Myth: Men cannot get breast cancer.
Fact: Breast cancer affects both men and women.

Myth: It's not possible to get pregnant the first time you have sex.
Fact: It is possible you can get pregnant any time you have sex, whether or not you use a contraceptive.

Myth: It's not possible to get pregnant if you have sex in certain positions (e.g. standing up).
Fact: It is possible to get pregnant anytime you have sex.

Myth: It's not possible to get pregnant if you have sex on your period.
Fact: It is possible to get pregnant any time you have sex.

Myth: It is normal for sex to hurt girls their first time.
Fact: There is no reason for sex to hurt your first time, although some girls do experience mild to severe pain their first time. This pain, if experienced, can be attributed to a variety of things (lack of lubrication/arousal, hymen stretching/tearing).

Myth: Your hymen tears the first time anything is inserted into the v****a.
Fact: Hymens come in a variety of shapes, some with many or few perforations. Some hymens are so stretchy that they never "break", and some "break" the first time.

Myth: A girl's v****a stretches out permanently over time.
Fact: This is untrue. The average v****a is around 3-4 inches, but when aroused, it can become up to three times that size, allowing a girl to accommodate most men. It will then reduce back to its normal size. The only thing that may stretch the v****a more is child-birth.

Myth: Men want sex more than women do. Wrong. The reason why men tend to wishfully prod their penises into our determinedly turned backs, isn't just to do with desire. Other factors have a big influence, too: For example, we're still more likely to do most of the housework on top of holding down a job. So we're exhausted! Plus, hormones make us feel like having a lot of sex during certain times of the month, rather than all of the time. And, because we tend to attach more emotions to sex than men do, we aren't going to beg him for action if he's been giving us attitude.

Myth: Peeing after sex washes out sperm and prevents pregnancy.
Fact: For a start, urine exits the bladder through the urethra, which lies in above of the vaginal opening. Which means any sperm in the v****a won't even get wet when you wee.

Myth: If you start watching or viewing porn, you will become addicted.
Fact: Only 1%; all people who check out porn will become addicted. If you're sporting a ring, be careful as 38% of addicts are married.

Myth: Abortions cause breast cancer.
Fact: Abortions do not cause breast cancer. Men and women can get breast cancer, overweight or underweight, history of it or none, it is an unpredictable illness.

Food For Thought: On average, African-American men have bigger penises. Fascinating because it's true. African-American guys are bigger and thicker. One study of Asian, Caucasian, and African-American men came up with the following stats: Asian men were smallest, averaging 4-5.5 inches; Caucasians came next with 6 inches; and the penises of African-American men are reportedly 6.5-8 inches long.

Myth: UTI's are caused by coffee, alcohol, hot tubs, and spicy food.
Fact: UTI's are NOT caused by these things (however, the chemicals and other crap in hottubs can make you more susceptable to getting an infection). They are caused by bacteria entering the uretha. You are more prone to get a UTI if you are dehydrated or after having prolonged sex. This is why you should urinate or wash before and after having vaginal and a**l sex, to wash bacteria away so it has less time to grow. If you have a UTI and you want to relieve it, drink lots of water and unsweetened cranberry juice (unsweetened because sugar promotes bacteria growth). The acid in cranberry juice destroys bacteria. [taken from Hilda Hutcherson, M.D. Glamour April '09.]
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PUBERTY

The Five Stages of Puberty in Girls:
1 Age Range: Usually 8-11
In Stage 1 there are no outside signs of development, but a girl's ovaries are enlarging and hormone production is beginning.

2 Age Range: Usually 8-14. Average: 11-12
The first sign is typically the beginning of breast growth, including "breast buds." A girl may also grow considerable height and weight. The first signs of pubic hair start out fine and straight, rather than curly.

3 Age Range: Usually 9-15. Average: 12-13
Breast growth continues, and pubic hair coarsens and becomes darker, but there still isn't a lot of it. Your body is still growing, and your v****a is enlarging and may begin to produce a clear or whitish discharge, which is a normal self-cleansing process. Some girls get their first menstrual periods late in this stage.

4 Age Range: Usually 10-16. Average: 13-14
Pubic hair growth takes on the triangular shape of adulthood, but doesn't quite cover the entire area. Underarm hair is likely to appear in this stage, as is menarche (first meunstration). Ovulation (release of egg cells) begins in some girls, but typically not in a regular monthly routine until Stage 5.

5 Age Range: Usually 12-19. Average: 15
This is the final stage of development, when a girl is physically an adult. Breast and pubic hair growth are complete, and your full height is usually attained by this point. Menstrual periods are well established, and ovulation occurs monthly.


The Five Stages of Puberty in Boys:
1 Normal Age Range: 9-12, Average: about 10
Male hormones are becoming active, but there are hardly, if any, outside signs of development. Testicles are maturing, and some boys start a period of rapid growth late in this stage.

2 Normal Age Range: 9-15, Average: 12-13
Testicles and scrotum begin to enlarge, but p***s size doesn't increase much. Very little, if any, pubic hair at the base of the p***s. Increase in height and change in body shape.

3 Normal Age Range: 11-16, Average: 13-14
p***s starts to grow in length, but not much in width. Testicles and scrotum still growing. Pubic hair starts to get darker and coarser and is spreading towards the legs. Height growth continues and body/face shape look more adult. Voice begins to deepen (and crack). Some hair around the a**s grows.

4 Normal Age Range: 11-17, Average: 14-15
p***s width increases, as well as length. Testicles and scrotum still growing. Pubic hair begins to take adult texture, although covers a smaller area. Most boys have first ejaculations. Underarm hair develops. Facial hair increases on chin and upper lip. Voice gets deeper and skin gets more oily.

5 Normal Age Range: 14-18, Average: around 16
Nearing full adult height and physique. Pubic hair and genitals have adult appearance. Facial hair grows more completely and shaving may begin now or soon.

During the late teens and early twenties, some men grow a bit more and develop more body hair, especially chest hair.

Hair Removal:
Male Hair Removal
Female Hair Removal

LINKS:
Puberty 101
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Sexuality
Sexual orientation refers to "an enduring pattern of emotional, romantic, and/or sexual attractions to men, women, or both sexes." According to the American Psychological Association "it also refers to an individual’s sense of personal and social identity based on those attractions, behaviors expressing them, and membership in a community of others who share them." Sexual orientation is usually classified according to the sex or gender of the people who are found sexually attractive, and is therefore usually discussed in terms of three categories: heterosexual, homosexual, and bisexual. "However, some people may use different labels or none at all." The most common forms exists along a continuum that ranges from exclusive heterosexuality (being sexually attracted to members of the opposite sex) to exclusive homosexuality (being sexually attracted to members of the same sex) and includes various forms of bisexuality (being sexually attracted to members of either sex).


Homosexuality:
Homosexuality refers to sexual behavior with or attraction to people of the same sex, or to a homosexual orientation. As a sexual orientation, homosexuality refers to "having sexual and romantic attraction primarily or exclusively to members of one’s own sex". The exact proportion of the population that is homosexual is difficult to estimate reliably, but most recent studies place it at 2–7%.

Bisexuality:
Bisexuality refers to sexual behavior with or physical attraction to people of both genders (male and female), or of a bisexual orientation. People who have a bisexual orientation "can experience sexual, emotional, and affectional attraction to both their own sex and the opposite sex".

Asexuality:
Asexuality is a sexual orientation that describes individuals who do not experience sexual attraction to either gender. One commonly cited study placed the incidence rate of asexuality at 1%.

Heterosexuality:
Heterosexuality refers to sexual behavior with, or attraction to, people of the opposite sex, or to a heterosexual orientation. As a sexual orientation, heterosexuality refers to "an enduring pattern of or disposition to experience sexual, affectional, or romantic attractions primarily to "persons of the opposite sex".

Pansexuality:
Pansexuality, or omnisexuality, is a sexual orientation characterized by the potential for aesthetic attraction, romantic love, or sexual desire for people, regardless of their gender identity or biological sex. Thus, pansexuality includes potential attraction to people who do not fit into the gender binary of male/female. Some pansexuals suggest that they are gender-blind; that gender and sex are insignificant or irrelevant in determining whether they will be sexually attracted to others.

Polysexuality:
Polysexuality refers to people who are attracted to more than one gender or sex but do not wish to identify as bisexual because it implies that there are only two binary genders or sexes. Polysexuals are those people sexually attracted to many different sorts of ideas and characteristics. Polysexuality should not be confused with pansexuality; pan meaning all, and poly meaning many, though not necessarily all.



LINKS:
Coping With Sexuality
Ask a Lesbian


Transsexualism: As told by Zero Fail (thank you!)
First we have to understand and differentiate sex and gender. Sex is what annatomically, hormonally, and genetically you are. You can be born, male, female, or intersexed. Gender is the mind. It's a sense of identity between masculine and feminine. Gender can be man, woman, androgen, gender queer, third gender, etc. Somebody that is a transsexual has a gender/sex mis match. They might have the genitals of one sex, but identify as the other.

They can be female to male (ftm) or male to female (mtf). A transsexual is a person who feels the disconnection between their brain and their genitals. It's a feeling of "that's not supposed to be there."

There is no specific "sex change surgery" it's just a lengthy process. Typically a transsexual will go to therapy (psychologist). After a certain amount of time living in their preferred gender role (called a real life test) they will be allowed to go on hormones. Sometimes, however, hormones may be started during the real life test.

A transsexual wants to live their life completely as the opposite sex, however many make the decision not to have "bottom surgery" which physically changes their genitalia.

As for sexual orientation within transsexuals a female-to-male can identify as straight, gay, bisexual, pansexual, or asexual and a male-to-female can identify as a lesbian, straight, bisexual, pansexual, or asexual. A cisgender (non-transgender) man was dating or attracted to an mtf he would be considered in a heterosexual relationship regardless of surgeries, or living full time (presenting as female 24/7).


LINKS:
Psych. Paper on Transgenderism/Transsexuality/Gender Dysphoria
Transsexualism: A Primer

Hermaphridite or Intersex
A Hermaphrodite is a person containing both male and female reproductive organs at birth. Usually the parents of the hermaphrodite infant choose the sex of the child sooner rather than later, and depending on internal reproductive organs as well. This phenomena is not the same as transsexual, however it is similar.

Hermaphrodism occurs in the animal kingdom too. One example is the clown-fish (Finding Nemo). The 'female' of the school of fish is the largest fish, and the dominant male second largest, and then there are young which are all male. When the 'female' is caught or dies, the dominant male changes to 'female'. Thus, life continues on. Snails are another good example of hermaphrodism. They contain BOTH sexes reproductive organs.


Terms To Remember:
Protandry: Where an organism is born as a male, and then changes sex to a female.

Protogyny: Where the organism starts as a female, and then changes sex to a male.



As Told By ZeroFail
Intersex:

Intersexed can happen in several ways: hormonally, physically, and genetically. Any combination of those can happen.

A person that is hormonally intersexed might have androgen insensitivity syndrome where a person lacks many secondary sex characteristics (facial hair for example). There are other conditions as well, I just don't remember them all.

Physically intersexed people have partial sets of both sex organs. They might for example have internal testicles, and a v****a.

Genetically intersexed can be something with Klinefelter's Syndrome. There was also a case where a person was born physically female, but genetically male.
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SEX
Sexual intercourse, in its biological sense, is the act in which the male reproductive organ (in humans and other higher animals) enters the female reproductive tract, called copulation or coitus in other reference.

Sex or intercourse is enjoyed world-wide by both sexes and is experienced in many different ways. There are so many things used in sexual activity now days, it's hard to know where to start! The most important thing regarding any sexual activity though is to be safe!

Description of an OrGasM!!!!
An intensely pleasureful throbbing sensation after the genitals have been stimulated enough to release.

Masturbation:
Gettin' down and dirty! Girls do it, boys do it; but we don't touch and tell!

Female Masturbation
Masturbation gives women the opportunity to explore their body while at the same time giving them a high degree of sexual freedom. It allows them the opportunity to experience sexual pleasure without relying on a partner, and to release sexual tension when they feel the need to.

Masturbation can be a very empowering learning tool for women - it teaches them about their bodies, and how it responds to sexual stimulation. Many normal and healthy women only experience orgasm while masturbating, or find it is their most intense type of orgasm. Masturbation is the first and most important sexual skill a woman should learn, as it holds the key to enjoying other forms of sexual activity. Ideally, this skill is commenced early in life (preferably prior to the age of five), but far too often it is not learned until a woman is in her late teens or early twenties. This stems from the incorrect notion that children are entirely devoid of sexuality and that they must be protected from its 'evils'. Children, especially infants, are incredibly curious individuals who will undoubtedly discover masturbation on their own. A parent, if they discover their child masturbating, should not chastise them for it, but rather, tell them about appropriate private and public behaviour.

However, not all women have negative views of masturbation, nor indeed do all women feel the need to masturbate. The point is that women are increasingly developing more positive attitudes towards masturbation and the pleasure it can bring them. If given the opportunity, women will often discuss their masturbation habits with pride, without the least amount of guilt.

Male Masturbation
It is a well-known fact that men enjoy masturbation and virtually all men do it with some regularity. There is no maximum or minimum number of times a week you should masturbate. Masturbation is both physically and mentally giving, as well as spiritually fulfilling. There are no negative side effects associated with masturbating.

There are many different ways to reach a quality orgasm through masturbation and there is no 'right' way. Try different sensations out and see how you like them.

In closing, there is no right way to masturbate and there is no specific number of times you should do it per week. As long as you feel comfortable with the frequency at which you masturbate and the pleasure it provides you, then keep on doing it. Masturbation is normal and should be pleasurable, so find out what you like the best and then show your partner, if you have one, how they can help please you properly.

IMPORTANT INFORMATION:
Mutual masturbation can indeed spread disease; if there are cuts or abbrasions on the fingers (or chewed skin around the fingernails), these can transmit infection. Furthermore, rough skin on hands and fingers can graze vaginal walls, making it more likely for STDs to be passed on. Use latex gloves when playing around.


Oral Sex: Cunnilingus and Fellatio
Let's get our dirty little mouths way down south!

Cunnilingus is oral sex performed on a woman; basically, putting your mouth on the female genitalia (aka: eating out, carpet munching, clam chowder). Fellatio is oral sex performed on a man; in other words, the male sex organ into your mouth (aka: blow-job).

IMPORTANT INFORMATION ON ORAL SEX:
Oral sex can spread disease; things like cold sores and other viruses transfered by bodily fluid can be transfered. Use a dental dam or condom when performing or recieving oral sex.


IMPORTANT INFORMATION ON SEX TOYS:
As soon as you receive your new pleasure pal, go down this checklist:

Inspect your sex toy for imperfections, including rough seams (you may be able to file down very small seams with a fingernail file), discoloration (which may be an expected part of the manufacturing process or indicate extreme temperature exposure), or tears in softer materials such as jelly and realistic materials.

Check for cracks in acrylic, glass, and plastic toys or plastic pieces of toys (battery packs, handles, etc.).

Insert fresh batteries to make sure the toy works properly.


Using the Right Lubricant
Choosing the correct sexual lube is key to keeping your sex toy in the best shape possible, and it makes every experience more enjoyable. Just remember these simple tips:


Water-based lubricant may be used with any sex toy.

While silicone lubricants are perfect for use with a partner, a silicone lubricant should never be used with silicone sex toys, nor should it be used on any realistic material (CyberskinTM, FuturoticTM, NeoSkin®, FauxskinTM, Soft TouchTM, UltraSkin).

Never use an oil-based lube or petroleum jelly on any toy that will come into contact with or be inserted into the v****a (may increase risk of vaginal infections), or with anything made of rubber/latex, including latex condoms (will disintegrate latex).


Tips for Sharing Sex Toys
If you share your sex toys with a partner, or want to switch between a**l and vaginal use, even on yourself, you must thoroughly clean the toy to avoid infection, and to avoid introducing bacteria into the v****a. The best way to avoid bacteria transmission is to use a condom over the toy and change it whenever the toy is used for different partners or orifices. This method is hygienic, fast, and extends the life of your toys by protecting the material!


Cleaning Your Sex Toys
Regular cleaning is key to maintaining the integrity of the material of any sex toy. Be sure to wash before first use and immediately after each use before storing. Always be careful to keep water and cleanser away from battery cartridges and electrical parts. The safest way to clean most of your sex toys is to use an antibacterial cleanser, such as ForPlay Adult Toy Cleaner. This formulation contains Nonoxynol-9, which kills all bacteria and is compatible with all sex-toy materials. Simply dilute with warm water (see bottle for instructions), wash the toy with a cloth, rinse it thoroughly, then towel dry with paper towels or a soft, lint-free cloth. However, each toy material is different and is best cleaned and cared for in its own special way. Here's a breakdown of how to clean sex toys by material:


Silicone: Hypoallergenic and easiest to maintain, silicone dildos and non-battery-operated toys may be boiled for two to three minutes, or washed with soap and water. NEVER boil silicone sex toys with electrical components. Let them air dry completely or dry with a lint-free cloth before storing.

Plastic/Acrylic/Glass: All can be washed with warm water and anti-bacterial hand soap and sterilized using an alcohol-soaked cotton ball (rinse thoroughly afterward); acrylic and glass toys may be boiled or submerged in hot water if they're not battery-operated.

Rubber/Latex and Jelly: These products are extremely porous, so be sure to wash them thoroughly with warm water and anti-bacterial hand soap, and rinse so that no trace of soap is left, as it can degrade the material and cause irritation to you. Again, while it's a good idea to use a condom with any insertable toys, it's an especially good idea with these materials.

Realistics: Names include CyberskinTM, FuturoticTM, NeoSkin®, Soft TouchTM, UltraSkin, and FauxskinTM, and this type of material is widely used for erection rings and masturbation sleeves, as well as vibrators and dildos. Thoroughly wash with warm (never hot) water and a liquid antibacterial soap, then let air dry completely. Once dry, sprinkle with the included "renewing" powder or cornstarch. Never use talcum powder or baby powder, as these can cause irritation and sometimes larger problems for women (pure talc is fine but very difficult to find).
Because sex toys not only touch your skin, but touch very intimate areas of your body, it's extremely important to know whether you have any allergies or sensitivities to certain materials, cleansers, etc. If you're not sure, we highly recommend that you do an allergy test on a small patch of skin, such as the wrist, before using any product.


Storing Your Sex Toys
How you store your sex toys is as important as how you clean them, and while we're not suggesting you need to invest in a temperature-controlled vault, there are some basic things you can do to prolong the life of any toy, as well as keep it clean and safe from harm.


Always remove the batteries when you're done using any toy so they can't leak, run down, or otherwise corrupt the toy; both the batteries and the toy itself will last longer!

Be sure your toys are completely dry before storage to discourage mold and mildew.

Keep each item separate by wrapping it in a soft cloth (T-shirts or socks work well), because some materials are not compatible with each other and can cause melting or discoloration. If vibrating bullets and eggs are removable, store them separately from their respective toys as well.

Direct sunlight and excess heat may cause toys and condoms to melt, discolor, or dry out, so store these items in a cool, dark place such as a dresser drawer or trunk. Extreme cold can also do damage to toys not made of acrylic, glass, or silicone, and only if those are not battery-operated, so never refrigerate or freeze soft materials or condoms.

Always clean your sex toys before putting them back into their storage spot and when taking them out for use.


When to Replace Your Toys
No sex toy lasts forever, and some, depending on frequency of use, may last a very short while, so how do you know when it's time to say good-bye? Find out below.


Mechanical features slow or stop working, even after battery replacement

Cracks are visible in plastic, acrylic, or glass toys, or on the plastic pieces of other toys

Mold or mildew has formed on the material, or the material is deteriorating

Battery corrosion is seen inside the battery pack



FAQs about Sex Toy Care & Cleaning
"I don't know the material my sex toy is made of-how do I clean it?"
If you no longer have the toy packaging, you may not be sure what material your toy is made of; use warm water and a mild soap on a washcloth and let the product air dry.

"If my vibrator is waterproof, can I wash it in the dishwasher?"
Only silicone dildos that do not require batteries can be washed in the dishwasher or boiled. Do not submerge any sex toy that takes batteries, and never submerge electrical toys.

"Will using a sex-toy cleaner with Nonoxynol-9 increase my risk of STIs?"
No! Nonoxynol-9 will kill any bacteria on your sex toys and, if rinsed off properly after washing, it will not make you more susceptible to getting sexually transmitted infections.

"I have ultrasensitive skin, so I can't use antibacterial soaps or toy cleaners-what should I do to clean my toys?"
It would be best for you to only use silicone-based toys (they're hypoallergenic); if it does not use batteries, it can be boiled in hot water for cleaning and sterilizing, so no soap is necessary.

"I only have one sex partner. Why would we need to use condoms with our sex toys?"
Rubber, latex, jelly, and realistic materials are porous and harder to clean thoroughly, so using a condom will extend the life of the product. Plus, a condom will keep you both safe from bacteria if the toy is shared between you or switches orifices. An added bonus is if you use a lubricated condom, no additional lube is necessary!


Deifnition of BDSM (i lost the guide someone sent to me, so....I had to use Wiki's.)

BDSM is a complex acronym derived from the terms bondage and discipline (B&D, B/D, or BD), dominance and submission (D&S, D/S, or DS), sadism and masochism (S&M, S/M, or SM).

BDSM includes a wide spectrum of activities and forms of interpersonal relationships. While not always overtly sexual in nature, the activities and relationships within a BDSM context are almost always eroticized by the participants in some fashion. Many of these practices fall outside of conventional sexual activities and human relationships.

BDSM encompasses many activities, including — but are not limited to — forms of dominance, submission, discipline, punishment, bondage, sexual roleplaying, sexual fetishism, sadomasochism, and power exchange, as well as the full spectrum of mainstream personal and sexual interactions.

An important distinction is that BDSM is not a form of sexual abuse — although some BDSM activities may appear to be violent or coercive, such activities are conducted with the consent of all partners involved. BDSM relationships and practices are exercised under the philosophy of "safe, sane and consensual" (SSC), or the somewhat more permissive philosophy of "risk-aware consensual kink" (RACK).

Activities and relationships within a BDSM context are characterized by the fact that the participants usually take on complementary, but unequal, roles. Typically, participants who are active — applying the activity or exercising control over others — are known as tops or Dominants. Those participants who are recipients of the activities, or who are controlled by their partners, are typically known as bottoms or submissives. Individuals who move between top/dominant roles and bottom/submissive roles—either periodically within a relationship, or from relationship to relationship—are known as S/switches.

However, even though the submissive or bottom role plays as obedient and subjective to the dominant in the relationship, they have the power to leave the relationship if their objectives are compromised or they are unhappy in said relationship.

BDSM is often practiced within the context of a limited and defined encounter known as a BDSM scene. Such scenes often have ritualistic aspects, complete with modes of behavior, forms of address, codes of conduct, dress codes, and many other aspects of theater and role playing. As such encounters are often, but not always, at least partly sexual in nature, people outside of BDSM have a tendency to view it as a form of "kinky sex".

Some participants incorporate aspects of BDSM into their everyday relationship(s) with their partner(s), especially those who practice dominance and submission or power exchange (especially Total Power Exchange). For these individuals, BDSM is part of their lifestyle and in some discussions is referred to as "The Lifestyle".


Lucky Stone Lissi's Introduction to Vaginismus

Vaginismus is a condition that causes the muscles of the v****a (PC muscles) to involuntarily contract when intercourse or insertion of an object is attempted. This tightening of the muscles makes it effectively impossible or very hard to insert anything, and causes attempted intercourse to be painful. Anyone can suffer from vaginismus, whether you are sexually active or not. It generally has a large psychological component, which may stem from one of the following: fear of pain or painful sex; an upbringing that viewed sexual activity as wrong; traumatic experiences, which may or may not be sexual; anything seen as a physical invasion. There are also physical causes, such as Tourette’s syndrome, an unusually thick hymen, or infections that may cause pain during sex and trigger vaginismus.

It is not necessary to treat vaginismus if you are comfortable with it. However, it is entirely possible to treat it and remove all the symptoms. There are a variety of methods, ranging from cheap self-treatment to counselling or, in rare cases, surgical methods. Learning all about and exploring your own body is an important first step in overcoming this condition.

The main thing is not to worry! Stress won’t help, and there’s no need for it. Vaginsimus is entirely treatable and there’s support out there for you if you know where to look. For now, try this website; it can be a bit confusing, but there’s a lot of info there. Scarleteen also has some useful information.
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PMS
PMS or Pre-Meunstral Syndrom begins when a woman's body has matured enough to bear children. PMS happens when the uterine lining (lining of the uterus) is stripping from the uterus to cleanse itself so an egg may drop into the uterus and wait to be fertilized. When an egg is not fertilized, the processs begins again in a month. PMS can last from 3-8 days, less or more, and can occur every 21-42 days. The most normal case of PMS lasts 7 days and occurs every 28 days. However, each woman is different, therefore each cycle is different.

Symtpoms Of PMS:
acne
breast swelling and tenderness
feeling tired
having trouble sleeping
upset stomach, bloating, constipation, or diarrhea
headache or backache
appetite changes or food cravings
joint or muscle pain
trouble concentrating or remembering
tension, irritability, mood swings, or crying spells
anxiety or depression


(but remember, the symptoms for PMS are almost the same symptoms as pregnancy)


Relief of the dreaded cramps, backaches, bodyaches, and headaches and other symptoms:
~use pain killers according to directions (acetominophen, ibuprofen, and naproxen)
~use heat compresses (hot bath, heating pad, hot water bottle, hot towels)
~lay on back on floor with bottom pushed up against the wall, place legs
straight up against wall like you are sitting on the wall
~drink water or tea, do not drink caffeine (it worsens cramps)
~bananas are full of potassium and they relieve cramps too


Most of the other symptoms take patience and clarity of mind to control. If you find your PMS symptoms are interfering with your daily routine, you may opt for birth control to regulate or lessen these symptoms.


CATCH THE FLOW
First period, you start bleeding, now what? What do you use to stop it? Start by using what you would feel most comfortable using and later on when you are more comfortable with having your period, you may opt for a different method.

Methods:
disposable pads
disposable tampons
Meunstral cups (flexible silicone cup to be inserted)
re-usable pads (fabric pads to be washed and re-used)


LINKS:
Re-Usable Feminine Products




ALL ABOUT THE BOOBS

Bra Shopping:
Bras come in all shapes, sizes, and colors; unfortunately that means you have alot of choices in finding the perfect fit in a bra.

Are you wearing the right size?
Almost 8 in 10 women are wearing the wrong size- you may be one of them. Why? Your body changes over time, and your fit will change year to year as you lose or gain weight, exercise more or less, and so on. If you are experiencing discomfort, spillage over your cups or back strap, tight straps, or a gap between your cups, you are most likely wearing the wrong size.


Measuring yourself for a bra is an art, not a science.

If you're not sure what size you wear, or fall between two sizes, you may want to try several sizes and styles as a starting point.


Getting Started
It's best to measure when you are wearing your most comfortable bra - one that has no padding and is not a minimizer.

STEP 1: BAND SIZE

Measure under your arms, high on your back, across/under the top of your chest. If this measurement is an even number, this is your band size. If an odd number, add 1" to determine your band size.

STEP 2: CUP SIZE

Measure loosely around the fullest part of your bust. Next, subtract your band measurement from your bust measurement; each inch represents a cup size. see chart below:

0 in. = AA
1 in. = A
2 in. = B
3 in. = C

And so on and so forth.


But remember each bra is different, so it might take time to find the right bra. I suggest searching large department stores (Macy's, JCPenney's) or lingerie shops (Fredericks of Hollywood, Victoria's Scret) to find a good bra.


Breast Cancer
Before you can launch an effective battle against breast cancer, it's important to understand some basics: What is breast cancer and how does it happen? What are some of the myths about your risk of breast cancer?

In this section, you'll find answers that help you move forward with a solid grounding in the facts, including information about:

How Breast Cancer Happens
The breast is a gland designed to make milk. The lobules in the breast make the milk, which then drains through the ducts to the n****e.

Like all parts of your body, the cells in your breasts usually grow and then rest in cycles. The periods of growth and rest in each cell are controlled by genes in the cell's nucleus. The nucleus is like the control room of each cell. When your genes are in good working order, they keep cell growth under control. But when your genes develop an abnormality, they sometimes lose their ability to control the cycle of cell growth and rest.

Breast cancer is an uncontrolled growth of breast cells.
Cancer has the potential to break through normal breast tissue barriers and spread to other parts of the body. While cancer is always caused by a genetic "abnormality" (a "mistake" in the genetic material), only 5–10% of cancers are inherited from your mother or father. Instead, 90% of breast cancers are due to genetic abnormalities that happen as a result of the aging process and life in general.

While there are things every woman can do to help her body stay as healthy as possible (such as eating a balanced diet, not smoking, minimizing stress, and exercising regularly), breast cancer is never anyone's fault. Feeling guilty, or telling yourself that breast cancer happened because of something you or anyone else did, is counterproductive.

Who Gets Breast Cancer
Breast cancer is the most common cancer to affect women. In 2007, it is estimated that there will be about 178,480 new cases of invasive breast cancer diagnosed in the United States, along with 62,030 new cases of non-invasive breast cancer.

Every woman is at SOME risk for breast cancer—this is merely the "risk" of living as a woman. But there are many risk factors that can make one woman's picture differ substantially from another's. When you understand your own particular risk profile, you are in a better position to manage it and don't have to fear the unknown.

Myths of Breast Cancer
What is your risk of breast cancer? Which breast cancer treatment is right for you? What about antiperspirants and breast cancer?

What you don't know CAN hurt you. Misinformation can keep you from recognizing and minimizing your own risk of breast cancer or getting the very best possible care. Arm yourself with the facts.

Here are ten common myths about breast cancer, followed by myths about specific types of breast cancer treatment.

1.) Breast cancer only affects older women.
No. While it's true that the risk of breast cancer increases as we grow older, breast cancer can occur at any age. From birth to age 39, 1 in 231 women will get breast cancer (0.5% risk); from age 40–59, the risk is 1 in 25 (4% risk); from age 60–79, the risk is 1 in 15 (nearly 7%). Assuming you live to age 90, the risk of getting breast cancer over the course of an entire lifetime is 1 in 7, with an overall lifetime risk of 14.3%.

2.) If you have a risk factor for breast cancer, you're likely to get the disease.
No. Getting breast cancer is not a certainty, even if you have one of the stronger risk factors, like a breast cancer gene abnormality. Of women with a BRCA1 or BRCA2 inherited genetic abnormality, 40–80% will develop breast cancer over their lifetime; 20–60% won't. All other risk factors are associated with a much lower probability of being diagnosed with breast cancer.

3.) If breast cancer doesn't run in your family, you won't get it.
No. Every woman has some risk of breast cancer. About 80% of women who get breast cancer have no known family history of the disease. Increasing age – just the wear and tear of living – is the biggest single risk factor for breast cancer. For those women who do have a family history of breast cancer, your risk may be elevated a little, a lot, or not at all. If you are concerned, discuss your family history with your physician or a genetic counselor. You may be worrying needlessly.

4.) Only your mother's family history of breast cancer can affect your risk.
No. A history of breast cancer in your mother's OR your father's family will influence your risk equally. That's because half of your genes come from your mother, half from your father. But a man with a breast cancer gene abnormality is less likely to develop breast cancer than a woman with a similar gene. So, if you want to learn more about your father's family history, you have to look mainly at the women on your father's side, not just the men.

5.) Using antiperspirants causes breast cancer.
No. There is no evidence that the active ingredient in antiperspirants, or reducing perspiration from the underarm area, influences breast cancer risk. The supposed link between breast cancer and antiperspirants is based on misinformation about anatomy and a misunderstanding of breast cancer.

6.) Birth control pills cause breast cancer.
No. Modern day birth control pills contain a low dose of the hormones estrogen and progesterone. Many research studies show no association between birth control pills and an increased risk of breast cancer. However, one study that combined the results of many different studies did show an association between birth control pills and a very small increase in risk. The study also showed that this slight increase in risk decreased over time. So after 10 years, birth control pills were not associated with an increase in risk. Birth control pills also have benefits:
decreasing ovarian and endometrial cancer risk
relieving menstrual disorders, pelvic inflammatory disease, and ovarian, and cysts
improving bone mineral density
As with any medicine, you have to weigh the risks and benefits and decide what is best for YOU.

7.) Eating high-fat foods causes breast cancer.
No. Several large studies have not been able to demonstrate a clear connection between eating high-fat foods and a higher risk of breast cancer. Ongoing studies are attempting to clarify this issue further. We can say that avoidance of high-fat foods is a healthy choice for other reasons. Excess body weight, IS a risk factor for breast cancer, because the extra fat increases the production of estrogen outside the ovaries and adds to the overall level of estrogen in the body. If you are already overweight, or have a tendency to gain weight easily, avoiding high-fat foods is a good idea.

8.) A monthly breast self-exam is the best way to diagnose breast cancer.
No. Digital mammography or high quality film-screen mammography is the most reliable way to find breast cancer as early as possible, when it is most curable. By the time a breast cancer can be felt, it is usually bigger than the average size of a cancer first found on mammography. Breast examination by you or your healthcare provider is still very important. About 25% of breast cancers are found only on breast examination (not on the mammogram), about 35% are found on mammography alone, and 40% are found by both physical exam and mammography. Keep both bases covered.

9.) I'm at high risk for breast cancer and there's nothing I can do about it.
No. There are several effective ways to reduce—but not eliminate—the risk of breast cancer in women at high risk. Options include lifestyle changes (minimize alcohol consumption, stop smoking, exercise regularly), medication (tamoxifen, also called Nolvadex); and in cases of very high risk, surgery may be offered (prophylactic mastectomies, and for some women, prophylactic ovary removal). Be sure that you have consulted with a physician or genetic counselor before you make assumptions about your level of risk.

10.) A breast cancer diagnosis is an automatic death sentence.
No. Fully 80% of women diagnosed with breast cancer have no signs of metastases (no cancer has spread beyond the breast and lymph nodes). Furthermore, 80% of these women live at least five years, most longer, and many live much longer. Even women with signs of cancer metastases can live a long time. Plus promising treatment breakthroughs are becoming available each day.

LINKS:
BreastCancer.org
BreastCancerIllustrations

Something To Watch For:
Not everyone's boobs are the same size (example: righty isn't always the same size as lefty). If you should begin to notice a signifigant difference in breast size it is wise to get it examined as you may have cysts or tumors, or it could be nothing, but this needs to be confirmed by a doctor. Again, some people have same sized boobs, some do not.
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BIRTH CONTROL

Birth control is a way for people to prevent pregnancy and to regulate their periods. Birth control is commonly called contraception. People have used contraception for thousands of years. Today, we have many safe and effective birth control methods available to us.

All of us who need birth control want to find the method that is best for us. And each of us has different needs when choosing a method. If you are trying to choose a method of contraception, learning about the methods may help you make your decision. Here is a list of common contraceptives.

Methods of Birth Control (with lower fail rates):
Abstinence (if you can't own up to the consequences, don't do it.)
Birth Control Implant (Implanon)*
Birth Control Patch (Ortho Evra)*
Birth Control Pill * (there are over 30 different birth control pills, so if one is not right for you, there is always another to try)
Birth Control Vaginal Ring (NuvaRing)*
Birth Control Shot (Depot-Provera)*
Birth Control Sponge (FemCap or Today Sponge)*
Cervical Cap*
Condom [available in drugstores]
Diaphragm*
Emergency Contraception (morning after pill) [available in drugstores]
Female Condom [sparse availability, check locally]
IUD (Mirena: good for 5 yrs. and uses hormones; ParaGard: good for 10 yrs. and contains no horomones)*
Spermicide
Sterilization for Women*
Vasectomy*

Methods of Birth Control (with higher fail rates):
Breastfeeding (it's true! nursing frequently rearranges the horomones of the woman and makes her unable to concieve!)
Fertility Awareness
Outercourse (dry-humping)
Withdrawal (pull-out method, not 100% effective)

*As you should when starting or changing any birth control, check with your doctor before use.

Birth control is used to prevent pregnancy and regulate or lessen symptoms of your period.

Anytime the naked genitalia of the male and female come into contact there is a chance that you could get pregnant.


New Flash
Male birth control soon to become available. The pill, patch, and shot release a small amount of testosterone which in time lowers the sperm count to zero.

Male Birth Control - MSNBC
Male Birth Control - How Stuff Works

Natural Birth Control and Family Planning
Billings Method
Natural Family Planning

LINKS:
Free or Cost-Reduced Birth Control
How To Use A Condom video


IMPORTANT INFORMATION:
Condoms should never be kept long-term in pockets, wallets or bags. Heat and friction causes the latex to weaken, increasing the likelihood of breakage. It's okay to put condoms into your bag or purse if you're going to use them that day. Keeping them in a box helps prevent any wear or tear.

Spermicides are not recommended by many doctors because they are a leading cause of urinary tract infections (such as cystitis). They contain a chemical which may aggravate those with sensitive skin or have a history of yeast infections or UTIs.


Zero Fail's Simply Sexy Guide To Proper Condom Usage:
Before you even open the condom there are things you have to do.


Storing the condom:
Keep your condoms in a cool, dry place away from sunlight and away from sharp objects. The junk drawer, glove box of a car, wallet, and bathroom are all examples of bad places to store them. A good place would be a dresser drawer, closet, or maybe a backpack/purse if you're on the go, but not recommended for long periods of time. Temperature change and sunlight can make the latex less durable.

Opening the condom:
Push the condom to the side so it will not be in the line of tearing. Simply grasp a corner and pull down (from the ridged side down to the ridged side). DO NOT USE YOUR TEETH. I know it looks hot, I know it seems sexy, but would it really be sexy when you get an STD? Condoms can rip from opening the packaging with your teeth. Unless, of course, you have mastered this move.

So, things are heating up, and you want to use one! JUST WAIT! Check the expiration date first. I do not suggest using condoms near their expiration date (month or two before). Also squeeze the condom to make sure there is an air pocket. If it does not have an air pocket, THROW IT AWAY. It can be contaminated, dried up, or have a hole in it.

The condom is out, things are looking good so far. You have to figure out which side is the outside and what is the inside. Pretty much the ring of latex has to be on the outside of everything...it has to look like if you rolled it down it would go easily. Seen here (I know that's not a real condom). Pinch the tip so there is no air in it. That is where the sperm will go.

Putting it on:
Now...time to actually roll it down. The p***s must be fully erect to do this, no softies. With the reservoir tip pinched with one hand use the fingers on your other hand to place the condom over the head of the p***s. I suggest using just your fingertips to roll it all the way down the base, but I know some women have long nails and can do it by creating a circle (ok sign) and stroke down to roll it on.

I suggest that if you're having vaginal or a**l sex to put an amount of water based lube onto the condom (even if it is already lubricated) and into the orifice. This will further prevent from friction tears of the condom. Use a thicker lubricant for a**l sex. It sorta sticks to the inside better...if I phrased that right. I also suggest that the person wearing the condom holds it at the base to be sure that it stays on upon entering the orifice and also upon exiting the orifice. It doesn’t hurt to check it every now and then too, just to be safe. If you are really worried about it falling off, use a c**k ring.

Finished with the condom:
Once you're done doing whatever, the condom wearer should (while still erect) turn away from their partner (or at least not have their p***s near their partner's genitals), roll down the condom part way and it should easily come off. Then they need to tie a knot to keep everything inside the condom (we don’t need any super-sperm now do we?) and throw it in the trash. Not a toilet because it can easily clog lead to a large bill from a plumber!


Flavored Condoms

Okay, no-brainer, flavored condoms are best used for -BINGO- oral sex! They taste good and come in a variety of flavors and colors. There are also flavored dental dams available (will try to find sites).

Flavored condoms should not be used for vaginal sex as they contain sugars which can lead to yeast infections in women.

Remember, if you are allergic to latex or are unsure about your allergy status to latex, DO NOT stick a latex condom in your mouth the first time, rather touch it with your finger to establish whether or not you have a latex allergy. This is not telling you to neglect the STD reminder, however it is better to refrain from latex than to suffocate from latex allergies. (I will look into non-latex flavored condoms for you all....)
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PREGNANCY

How Pregnancy Happens is a hilarious movie showing you just how this happens.


ANYTIME the naked genitalia of a male and female come into contact there is a chance of pregnancy.


It's All About Choice:
Abortion
Adoption
Parenting

SYMPTOMS OF PREGNANCY:
Implantation Bleeding:
About 6-12 days after conception the embryo implants itself into the uterine wall. Some women will experience spotting as well as some cramping.

Delay/Difference in Menstruation:
When you become pregnant, your next period should be missed. Many women do bleed while they are pregnant, but typically the bleeding will be shorter or lighter than a normal period.

Swollen/Tender Breasts:
Starting as early as 1-2 weeks after conception, many women will notice changes in their breasts. They will be tender to the touch, sore, or swollen.

Darkening of areolas:
If you are pregnant, the skin around your nipples may get darker.

Fatigue/Tiredness:
This symptom can start as early as the first week after conception.

Nausea/Morning Sickness:
This well-known symptom will often show up between 2-8 weeks after conception. Some women are fortunate to not deal with morning sickness at all while others will feel nauseous through most of their pregnancy.

Backaches:
Dull backaches can be present throughout an entire pregnancy.

Headaches:
The sudden rise of hormones in your body can cause you to have headaches early in pregnancy.

Frequent Urination:
Around 6-8 weeks after conception, you may find yourself making a few extra trips to the bathroom.

Food Cravings:
While you may not have a strong desire to eat pickles and ice cream, many women will feel cravings for certain foods when they are pregnant. This can last throughout your entire pregnancy.


Not all women get the same or even all of these symptoms.

REMEMBER: most symptoms of pregnancy and PMS are the same



TESTING FOR PREGNANCY
HPT or home pregnancy tests allow you to find out if you are pregnant very early in your pregnancy. It is recommended you wait until at least 1 week after your missed period to test at home. Some tests claim to test accurately with as little as to 3 days after or even 5 days before your missed period. The two highest doctor recommened and most accurately tested are First Response and ClearBlue home pregnancy tests.

Blood tests or urine tests done at a doctor's office are often much more accurate than a home pregnancy test. Blood tests are more expensive though.



Most Common Pregnancy Problems:

ENDOMETRIOSIS
Endometriosis is the development of uterine-lining tissue outside the uterus. Symptoms include abdominal pain, heavy periods, and infertility. Treatments include pain relievers, birth control pills, and surgery.

Symptoms include:

Pelvic pain.
Severe menstrual cramps.
Low backache 2 or more days before the start of the menstrual period, becoming less during the period.
Pain during sexual intercourse.
Rectal pain.
Pain during bowel movements.
Infertility, which may be the only sign that you have endometriosis. Between 20% and 40% of women who are infertile have endometriosis.
Abnormal bleeding.
Blood in the urine or stool.
Some vaginal bleeding before the start of the menstrual period
Vaginal bleeding after intercourse.


PREEMCLASIA
Normally, a pregnant woman's blood pressure is slightly lower than normal during the second trimester and then gradually returns to normal throughout the remainder of her pregnancy. However, in 10% of pregnant women, blood pressure begins to increase to abnormally high levels (hypertension) sometime after 20 weeks of pregnancy.8 This is occasionally referred to as pregnancy-induced hypertension. Less commonly, this change in blood pressure develops during the first days after childbirth.

At the first sign of high blood pressure during pregnancy, your health professional cannot predict whether it will remain mild, become severe, or turn out to be an early sign of preeclampsia. If you are developing preeclampsia, your urine test (urine screen) will probably show increased protein levels before long. This sign that your kidneys are being affected by the condition doesn't develop right away.

If you aren't certain that you had normal blood pressure before pregnancy, it is possible that you have preexisting chronic high blood pressure. If so, your blood pressure may remain high after your pregnancy.


Symptoms include:

Systolic blood pressure is over 140 mm Hg, or diastolic blood pressure is over 90 mm Hg, or both, for two measurements taken at least 6 hours apart.

Protein in the urine is usually higher than normal. High urine protein is 300 milligrams (mg) measured in 24 hours or protein consistently showing 1+ or greater on a dipstick.

Swelling of the hands and face that does not go away during the day. (If you have no other signs or symptoms of preeclampsia, this swelling is probably a sign of normal pregnancy.)

Rapid weight gain [more than 2lb per week or 6lb per month].

Bleeding from a cut or injury that lasts longer than usual.


MISCARRIAGE
A miscarriage is the loss of a baby before the 20th week of pregnancy. The medical term for a miscarriage is spontaneous abortion, but the condition is not an abortion in the common definition of that term. According to the March of Dimes, as many as 50% of all pregnancies end in miscarriage -- most often before a woman misses a menstrual period or even knows she is pregnant. About 15% of recognized pregnancies will end in a miscarriage. More than 80% of miscarriages occur within the first three months of pregnancy. Less likely they occur after 20 weeks gestation; these are termed late miscarriages.

Symptoms include:

Bleeding which progresses from light to heavy
Cramps
Abdominal pain
Fever
Weakness
Vomiting
Back pain

Miscarriage Support


ETOPIC PREGNANCY
An ectopic pregnancy is a life-threatening condition that requires emergency treatment. It predominantly occurs when the embryo implants in one of the fallopian tubes instead of the uterus. Rarely, the embryo can attach to an ovary or other abdominal organs. An ectopic pregnancy is most likely to occur within the first few weeks of pregnancy and is usually discovered by the 8th week of pregnancy.

Symptoms include:

Light vaginal bleeding
Nausea and vomiting
Lower abdominal pain
Sharp abdominal cramps
Pain on one side of the body
Dizziness or weakness
Pain in the shoulder, neck, or rectum


ABORTION:
Abortion is when a woman decides to terminate a pregnancy. They can be performed at different stages; however, partial birth abortion is outlawed mostly in the USA. These websites describe the different types of abortions and when they can be performed in the pregnancy.

Terminating A Pregnancyhttp://www.lifesitenews.com/abortiontypes/
Interpreting Abortion
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STD's AND PREVENTION

STD's or Sexually Transmitted Diseases come in all shapes, forms, sizes, and colors and not only affect you, but everyone around you.

Definition of Sexually Transmitted Diseases (STDs)
Sexually transmitted diseases (STDs) are transmitted sexually by someone who is infected. These infections are usually passed by intercourse, but can also be passed through other types of sex, such as oral sex.

STDs can be caused by viruses or bacteria. If you have ever had sex, you may be at risk for having an STD. You are at higher risk if you have had many sex partners, have had sex with someone who has had many partners, or have had sex without using condoms (rubbers).

Description of Sexually Transmitted Diseases (STDs)
Sexually transmitted diseases (also called venereal diseases) are among the most common infectious diseases in the U.S. today. At least 20 STDs have now been identified. They affect more than 10 million men and women in this country each year.

It is important to understand at least five key points about all STDs in this country today:

~STDs affect men and women of all backgrounds and economic levels. They are most prevalent among teenagers and young adults. Nearly one-third of all cases involves teenagers.

~The incidence of STDs is rising, in part because in the last few decades, young people have become sexually active earlier. Sexually active people today are also more likely to have more than one sex partner or to change partners frequently. Anyone who has sexual relations is potentially at risk for developing STDs.

~Many STDs initially cause no symptoms. When symptoms develop, they may be confused with those of other diseases not transmitted through sexual contact. However, even when an STD causes no symptoms, a person who is infected may be able to pass the disease on to a sex partner. That is why many doctors recommend periodic testing for people who have more than one sex partner.

~Health problems caused by STDs tend to be more severe and more frequent for women than men.

~Some STDs can cause pelvic inflammatory disease (PID), a major cause of both infertility and ectopic (tubal) pregnancy. The latter can be fatal to a pregnant woman.

~STD infections in women may also be associated with cervical cancer. One STD, genital warts, is caused by a virus associated with cervical and other cancers. The relationship between other STDs and cervical cancer is not yet known.

~STDs can be passed from a mother to her baby before or during birth; some of these congenital infections can be cured easily, but others may cause permanent disability or even death of the infant.

~When diagnosed and treated early, almost all STDs can be treated effectively. Some organisms, such as certain forms of gonococci, have become resistant to the drugs used to treat them and now require higher doses or newer types of antibiotics. The most serious STD for which no effective treatment or cure now exists is acquired immunodeficiency syndrome (AIDS), a fatal viral infection of the immune system.

Major Types of STDs:
Acquired Immunodeficiency Syndrome (AIDS)
Bacterial vaginosis
Chancroid
Chlamydial infections
Cytomegalovirus infections
Herpes
Genital mycoplasma infections
Genital (venereal) warts (Papillomavirus)
Gonorrhea
Granuloma inguinale (Donovanosis)
Group B streptococcal infections
Molluscum contagiosum
Pubic lice
Scabies
Syphilis
Trichomoniasis
Enteric infections: Hepatitis A; Amebiasis; Giardiasis; Shigellosis
Papillomavirus (condylomas):
Papillomavirus is a virus that causes growths (called condylomas or genital warts) and it is the most common STD in the U.S. Condylomas commonly accompany other STDs, such as gonorrhea. The virus is usually spread by direct contact with a wart from an infected person.

Condylomas are fleshy growths that appear alone or in clusters. They usually break out in moist areas on or around the genitals (sex organs) and a**s. Growths inside the genital organs are soft and red or pink. Outside growths are firm and dark. They are often no larger than the tip of a pencil, but they may combine to form large, cauliflower-like growths.

Genital warts usually appear one to three months after contact, but some go undetected until they cause discomfort. Lesions can become infected and cause mild irritation or itching. Small condylomas may cause rectal pain or pain during intercourse. Papillomavirus may have a serious complication – the presence of condylomas has been linked to cervical cancer. Women with histories of genital warts should have a Pap test at least once a year.

Prevention of Sexually Transmitted Diseases (STDs)
Each year, hundreds of thousands of people in the U.S. contract a sexually transmitted disease. Thus, it is important to understand what behaviors put you, your family and friends at risk. All of us must take responsibility for protecting ourselves and our partners. Simply addressing these issues does not imply approval of the sexual practices discussed.

Most STDs are treatable, but AIDS has no cure and death is virtually certain. Therefore, education about this disease is vital. Although AIDS can be spread through shared use of contaminated needles among drug abusers, or rarely, through a blood transfusion, it is usually transmitted by sexual contact. The virus is present in semen and vaginal secretions and enters a person's body through the small tears in the vaginal or rectal tissues that can develop during sexual activity. AIDS is not considered a highly contagious disease; transmission of the virus occurs only after very intimate contact with infected blood or semen.

On the other hand, STDs (such as chlamydia, gonorrhea, herpes, venereal warts and syphilis) are highly contagious and many can be spread through even brief sexual contact. However, none of these infections are spread through casual contact, such as handshaking, talking, sitting on toilet seats, or living in the same house with an infected person. The microorganisms that cause STDs (including AIDS) all die quickly once outside the body.

The only sure way of preventing STDs and AIDS is through sexual abstinence or a relationship with only one uninfected person (straight or gay). If you have several partners, either heterosexual or homosexual, you place yourself at a high risk of contracting disease. At present, no vaccine is available to prevent any of the STDs.

To help prevent the spread of STDs:
~Know your sexual partner. Tell your sexual partner if you have an STD and ask your partner if they may have an STD.

~Look for signs of an STD in your sexual partner. For example, look for sores around the p***s or v****a. If your partner has:

Chlamydia - Look for signs of itching around the v****a, a yellow and odorless discharge, pain during sex and pain and frequency during urination for women. Men may have pain or burning when urinating, and a watery, milky-colored discharge from the p***s.

Gonorrhea - Women may have a white, green or yellow discharge, painful urination, spotting between periods and sometimes fever and abdominal pain. Men may have a thick yellow discharge, painful urination and the opening of the p***s may be sore.

Syphilis - A painless red sore will appear where you were touched during intercourse. A few months later, you may have a fever, sore throat, headaches and joint pain.

Herpes - A tingling and itching around the genitals. Small painful blisters may form in the area


GOOD ADVICE:

Limit the amount of sexual partners.

Always use a condom when having sex.

Don't douche. Douching may spread infections higher into the womb.



Use Of Condoms
While condoms do not eliminate risk, the correct use of a condom and avoidance of certain sexual practices can decrease the risk of contracting AIDS, as well as other STDs. The condom (also known as a prophylactic, a rubber or safe) is a thin sheath, usually made of latex rubber, that covers the erect p***s.

When used correctly, a latex condom is effective, both for preventing pregnancy and for decreasing the chances of contracting most STDs (including AIDS). Condoms can be purchased over the counter at any drugstore and are available in various thicknesses, colors and shapes. They may be lubricated or unlubricated, have a plain end or a reservoir end, and have a smooth (the most common), ribbed or corrugated texture.

Condoms can cost as little as three for a dollar, but usually the cost ranges from 50 cents to a dollar each. Condoms sometimes are made of animal membrane; however, some experts believe that the pores in such natural "skin" condoms may allow the virus to pass through. To be effective, the condom must be undamaged, applied to the erect p***s before genital contact, and must remain intact and snugly in place until completion of the sexual activity.

About a third of all condoms now sold in the U.S. are purchased by women. They can be kept in a pocket or purse until needed, and they provide protection against STDs. The condom can be placed on the erect p***s of a male partner as a part of the initial foreplay; a man who objects to a condom may be less opposed to wearing one if his partner puts it on for him.

Sexual Practices and STDs
Different sexual practices carry different degrees of risk of contracting the AIDS virus. Receptive (passive) a**l intercourse is the riskiest, because this may damage the a**l and rectal membranes and allow the AIDS virus to enter the bloodstream. The passive partner is at a much higher risk of contracting the AIDS virus than the active partner, although gonorrhea and syphilis can be transmitted from the passive partner's rectum. Most studies have focused on male homosexuals, but heterosexual a**l sex probably carries the same risk.

Heterosexual vaginal intercourse, particularly with multiple partners, also carries a risk of contracting AIDS. The virus is believed to be transmitted more easily from the man to the woman than vice versa. This type of sex is how most other STDs are transmitted.

Oral/genital sex is a possible (though probably uncommon) means of transmission of the AIDS virus. However, inserting the p***s in the mouth (fellatio) with ejaculation and swallowing of semen is the most common cause of throat gonorrhea, and oral contact with the clitoris and vaginal opening (cunnilingus) is a frequent method of transmission of the herpes virus.

Herpes is probably the only disease that can be contracted by light (dry) kissing, but deep (French) kissing may transmit other STDs. Activities that involve only skin-to-skin contact, (such as hugging, massage and mutual masturbation) with little or no exposure to body fluids, do not spread disease.

Other Prevention Methods
Spermicides are creams, foams, suppositories, jellies or film that a woman puts in her v****a to kill sperm. Lab studies show that spermicides also kill many of the germs that cause STDs. However, they offer less protection than condoms. For STD prevention, spermicides are best used with condoms, not in place of them.

Diaphragm, Sponge and Cap These types of birth control are inserted into the v****a to hold spermicide up to the cervix (entrance to the uterus - womb). The spermicide used with these methods can help protect the cervix from STDs.

Pill, Norplant, Depo-Provera and the IUD. The birth control pill, the Norplant implant and Depo-Provera injection, use man-made hormones to stop pregnancy. These devices give no protection against STDs. The IUD is a small device put inside the uterus to prevent pregnancy. It also gives no protection against STDs.

Withdrawal, Washing or Urinating Withdrawing the p***s before ejaculation is not a reliable way to prevent STDs. Washing or urinating after intercourse may help remove some of the germs that cause certain STDs, but they cannot prevent STDs.


Questions To Ask Your Doctor About Sexually Transmitted Diseases (STDs)
What tests are needed to determine if there is an STD?

Does each condition have its own test, or is there one test for several STDs?

Can any of these tests have a false reading?

Do doctors automatically test for STD with complaint of a discharge (or other symptoms), or does an additional STD test need to be requested?

How long can a STD stay dormant with no symptoms?

Could a yeast infection be mistaken for a STD?

What is the percentage of protection is there with condoms?

Should the sexual partners be notified?

How can you tell if the sex partner has STDs?

How do you ask your partner if he/she has been infected?

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I've said it before and I'll say it again: this thread is better than some sex-ed lessons. Well done.
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I have an issue with your BC post. Not only is breastfeeding not birth control, but hormonal contraceptive prescriptions all have names, I would highly suggest you use them. Especially since there are several different kinds of pill-form daily prescriptions.
I PMed you with some extra stuff that isn't exactly right, and stuff you could possibly add.
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