Sex-Ed and What They Missed! *new poll*

[fears and lies melt away]

Question:
umm..Ok say that your boyfriend has just gotten hard and you want to have sex.. but no even like.. 5 mins into it.. he goes limp. But he tells you that he wants $%#@ so bad.. and is all upset and emberassed that he cant please you?

but at the same time your thinking.. is there something wrong with me thats not making him stay hard? D:

[rabid rabit 260]

fashion zombie harlot

rabid rabit 260

alright i've got another question, how do i get over the though that i will be not that great when it comes to sex? like is there a way to get me out of that mind set withought actually having sex?

easy.
the person you have sex with will tell you and let you know.
if you're not doing something right, or they prefer something different, they'll let you know.

well what if she dosen't know what she prefers? cause it'll be her first time aswell

[fashion zombie harlot]

Fears and Lies Melt Away

Question:
umm..Ok say that your boyfriend has just gotten hard and you want to have sex.. but no even like.. 5 mins into it.. he goes limp. But he tells you that he wants $%#@ so bad.. and is all upset and emberassed that he cant please you?

but at the same time your thinking.. is there something wrong with me thats not making him stay hard? D:

most guys goes limp because of their nerves, either nervousness or stress or many other reasons.
it will happen to guys more then once.
their body isn't able to hold up to their urges because since they are urging so bad, the nerves will move the blood from the c**k to the stomach.
i understand how that is though.
there are time that that has happened to my husband, and times when we are having sex and i'll go slightly dry. our bodies and urges wont react together at times, its normal

[fashion zombie harlot]

rabid rabit 260

fashion zombie harlot

rabid rabit 260

alright i've got another question, how do i get over the though that i will be not that great when it comes to sex? like is there a way to get me out of that mind set withought actually having sex?

easy.
the person you have sex with will tell you and let you know.
if you're not doing something right, or they prefer something different, they'll let you know.

well what if she dosen't know what she prefers? cause it'll be her first time aswell

this is why there is time.
with each time you guys have sex, you will earn something new and want to try more things.
by experimenting, you will learn what you prefer.

[fears and lies melt away]

fashion zombie harlot

Fears and Lies Melt Away

Question:
umm..Ok say that your boyfriend has just gotten hard and you want to have sex.. but no even like.. 5 mins into it.. he goes limp. But he tells you that he wants $%#@ so bad.. and is all upset and emberassed that he cant please you?

but at the same time your thinking.. is there something wrong with me thats not making him stay hard? D:

most guys goes limp because of their nerves, either nervousness or stress or many other reasons.
it will happen to guys more then once.
their body isn't able to hold up to their urges because since they are urging so bad, the nerves will move the blood from the c**k to the stomach.
i understand how that is though.
there are time that that has happened to my husband, and times when we are having sex and i'll go slightly dry. our bodies and urges wont react together at times, its normal

It sometimes happens almost everynight, well not every night but when we want to... is it cuz when i ride him im pulling too much on it? or like..he'll tell me to mount him again and we'll foreplay like he'll suck on my chest and then hes hard again..and then we do it and he cums.. what do you think that is?

[rabid rabit 260]

fashion zombie harlot

rabid rabit 260

fashion zombie harlot

rabid rabit 260

alright i've got another question, how do i get over the though that i will be not that great when it comes to sex? like is there a way to get me out of that mind set withought actually having sex?

easy.
the person you have sex with will tell you and let you know.
if you're not doing something right, or they prefer something different, they'll let you know.

well what if she dosen't know what she prefers? cause it'll be her first time aswell

this is why there is time.
with each time you guys have sex, you will earn something new and want to try more things.
by experimenting, you will learn what you prefer.

i hope we do, but i tend to get stuck in verry negative mindsets like that and it's hard to get me to change

[fashion zombie harlot]

Fears and Lies Melt Away

fashion zombie harlot

Fears and Lies Melt Away

Question:
umm..Ok say that your boyfriend has just gotten hard and you want to have sex.. but no even like.. 5 mins into it.. he goes limp. But he tells you that he wants $%#@ so bad.. and is all upset and emberassed that he cant please you?

but at the same time your thinking.. is there something wrong with me thats not making him stay hard? D:

most guys goes limp because of their nerves, either nervousness or stress or many other reasons.
it will happen to guys more then once.
their body isn't able to hold up to their urges because since they are urging so bad, the nerves will move the blood from the c**k to the stomach.
i understand how that is though.
there are time that that has happened to my husband, and times when we are having sex and i'll go slightly dry. our bodies and urges wont react together at times, its normal

It sometimes happens almost everynight, well not every night but when we want to... is it cuz when i ride him im pulling too much on it? or like..he'll tell me to mount him again and we'll foreplay like he'll suck on my chest and then hes hard again..and then we do it and he cums.. what do you think that is?

he could still be slightly nervous or scared of not being able to please you.
pulling on it to much with your hands or something could cause him pain, but if you are riding him then usually it shouldnt hurt unless he is uncircumcised or he's a virgin.
maybe he needs foreplay in order to stay hard. wouldn't be the first time i've known a guy like that.
they need some constant eye/smell/senses/contact to stay hard.
next time, try keeping foreplay to a maximum while you guys have sex.
if that doesn't work, then it just might be how his body is.

[fashion zombie harlot]

rabid rabit 260

fashion zombie harlot

rabid rabit 260

fashion zombie harlot

rabid rabit 260

alright i've got another question, how do i get over the though that i will be not that great when it comes to sex? like is there a way to get me out of that mind set withought actually having sex?

easy.
the person you have sex with will tell you and let you know.
if you're not doing something right, or they prefer something different, they'll let you know.

well what if she dosen't know what she prefers? cause it'll be her first time aswell

this is why there is time.
with each time you guys have sex, you will earn something new and want to try more things.
by experimenting, you will learn what you prefer.

i hope we do, but i tend to get stuck in verry negative mindsets like that and it's hard to get me to change

dont worry.
after the first time you'll relax on that.
trust me.

[rabid rabit 260]

fashion zombie harlot

rabid rabit 260

fashion zombie harlot

rabid rabit 260

fashion zombie harlot

rabid rabit 260

alright i've got another question, how do i get over the though that i will be not that great when it comes to sex? like is there a way to get me out of that mind set withought actually having sex?

easy.
the person you have sex with will tell you and let you know.
if you're not doing something right, or they prefer something different, they'll let you know.

well what if she dosen't know what she prefers? cause it'll be her first time aswell

this is why there is time.
with each time you guys have sex, you will earn something new and want to try more things.
by experimenting, you will learn what you prefer.

i hope we do, but i tend to get stuck in verry negative mindsets like that and it's hard to get me to change

dont worry.
after the first time you'll relax on that.
trust me.

i hopeso, hopefully my girlfriend will continue to give me moral support aswell.

[fears and lies melt away]

fashion zombie harlot

Fears and Lies Melt Away

fashion zombie harlot

Fears and Lies Melt Away

Question:
umm..Ok say that your boyfriend has just gotten hard and you want to have sex.. but no even like.. 5 mins into it.. he goes limp. But he tells you that he wants $%#@ so bad.. and is all upset and emberassed that he cant please you?

but at the same time your thinking.. is there something wrong with me thats not making him stay hard? D:

most guys goes limp because of their nerves, either nervousness or stress or many other reasons.
it will happen to guys more then once.
their body isn't able to hold up to their urges because since they are urging so bad, the nerves will move the blood from the c**k to the stomach.
i understand how that is though.
there are time that that has happened to my husband, and times when we are having sex and i'll go slightly dry. our bodies and urges wont react together at times, its normal

It sometimes happens almost everynight, well not every night but when we want to... is it cuz when i ride him im pulling too much on it? or like..he'll tell me to mount him again and we'll foreplay like he'll suck on my chest and then hes hard again..and then we do it and he cums.. what do you think that is?

he could still be slightly nervous or scared of not being able to please you.
pulling on it to much with your hands or something could cause him pain, but if you are riding him then usually it shouldnt hurt unless he is uncircumcised or he's a virgin.
maybe he needs foreplay in order to stay hard. wouldn't be the first time i've known a guy like that.
they need some constant eye/smell/senses/contact to stay hard.
next time, try keeping foreplay to a maximum while you guys have sex.
if that doesn't work, then it just might be how his body is.

your prolly right about the pleasing part. he always feels bad when it happens.. like all the focus is on me.. bcuz he didnt please me. i tell him its ok.. but he says its not.. i just want him to be down afterwards. i try to re-assure him that even though we didnt finish i still enjoy it.

[fashion zombie harlot]

@ Fears & Rabid- Moral support will help A LOT. It let's then know that they are doing stuff right, and how you like it. It'll help their performance.

I hope I helped a bit.

[fashion zombie harlot]

I'll brb again.
I need a nap.
lol Baby won't quick kicking so I'll be back asap.

[Eiberg]

rabid rabit 260

fashion zombie harlot

rabid rabit 260

fashion zombie harlot

rabid rabit 260

well what if she dosen't know what she prefers? cause it'll be her first time aswell

this is why there is time.
with each time you guys have sex, you will earn something new and want to try more things.
by experimenting, you will learn what you prefer.

i hope we do, but i tend to get stuck in verry negative mindsets like that and it's hard to get me to change

dont worry.
after the first time you'll relax on that.
trust me.

i hopeso, hopefully my girlfriend will continue to give me moral support aswell.

Otherwise we will.. biggrin

[rabid rabit 260]

moral support does help alot, considering i don't think highly of myself. and i'm grateful that my girlfriend is there to say otherwise.

and yeah you were really helpful

[rabid rabit 260]

Eiberg

rabid rabit 260

fashion zombie harlot

rabid rabit 260

fashion zombie harlot

rabid rabit 260

well what if she dosen't know what she prefers? cause it'll be her first time aswell

this is why there is time.
with each time you guys have sex, you will earn something new and want to try more things.
by experimenting, you will learn what you prefer.

i hope we do, but i tend to get stuck in verry negative mindsets like that and it's hard to get me to change

dont worry.
after the first time you'll relax on that.
trust me.

i hopeso, hopefully my girlfriend will continue to give me moral support aswell.

Otherwise we will.. biggrin

thanks, though i have to say that sounds kinda weird, considering i was only mentioning my girlfriend in that but yeah, thanks