dizziedobsession
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dizziedobsession
Okay. So, I told my boyfriend i'd consider still going. But I just got a message saying it could cost 100$ for the appointment. I only have 15 that I'm capable of putting toward it. Should I just call and cancel it?
Ugg. Ask and see if they will take payments. It really stinks that your parents are no help and dont understand the need for this care.
Eh. I just dont want to ask them really. I don't need it thrown in my face that it's somehow my fault, like the LAST time. That's why I'm just trying to solve it on my own. I think I'm going to cancel it though. This is my only chance. I can reschedule when I have more time to think about it next week.
If you're seriously worried about it, you're going to have to bite the bullet and ask them for help. I don't know your parents, but I know that my parents aren't as bad as I thought they were (they did pull some really idiotic s**t though). Most parents would just rather that you were straightforward and honest with them, and if you go to them as adults with an adult problem, all you can hope is that they won't lecture you. First of all, learn your stuff. You think it's bacterial vaginosis, right? According to
this website, it's unclear what causes it, but it's NOT poor hygiene. It's also not an STI. At least 1 in 10 women will get it in their lifetime. They can't blame you if the causes are still unknown. The more you know, the less they will get on your back.
Or you could just say you think you have a problem down there and you'd like to get checked. Either way, for an appointment that costs $100 you're going to have to wait until you've saved up, or tell your parents.