Magic-Froggie Sundae
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hey do you guys think that it is irresponsable to not give your child the talk when they come of age?
i ask because, my younger brother is starting to get to that point, so i asked my mom when her husband was going to give him the talk. So she asked him, and he said that he wasn't going to. He aslo said that would be because he was never given it so he'd just have my brothers all just find out things on their own.
Now i never had the talk, i never had a adult male in my life that wanted to do that. But even though i never got it, i'm still going to give the talk to my children ((when my fiancee' and i actually have children, cause hopefully i'll have at least one boy))
but yeah, what do you guys think about that?
"I wasn't given the talk so I perused the internet....and found stuff I shouldn't or didn't want to know. My husband actually taught me how to masturbate, explained to me about orgasms....it was kind of embarrassing. I am definitely giving my kids the full, well-rounded talk when it comes up in my future."
The talk was attempted to be given to me-quite a few years back, but soon as that "Birds and the bees" came up I just stared, put a hand up and said I'm good! Which at the time I new more than the average teen about that. Plus I'm very uneasy and uncomfortable talking with my "mother", and well my father, we're like buddies, we don't go into that nonsense.
Here and there I picked things up, from friends, internet, and then my boyfriend came along, and WOW did he broaden my horizon.
But I wish at the time I did have an older adult I could confind in, but I didn't.
As for giving my children the talk, I will be giving daughter and/or son a complete, full talk.