Sex-Ed and What They Missed! *new poll*

[fashion zombie harlot]

backing out could lead to no sex again, or not even having kids though.
you could infect your partner even.
atleast getting checked- they can fix it.
its better to be healthy then to lie to yourself.

[dizziedobsession]

fashion zombie harlot

backing out could lead to no sex again, or not even having kids though.
you could infect your partner even.
atleast getting checked- they can fix it.
its better to be healthy then to lie to yourself.

Well, I'm not having sex... so. No chance infecting my partner at all.
I also don't have much money to afford it. I don't want my parents to know. And i'll have to be using christmas money to pay for it. i don't want to pay for an emotional attack, really.

[fashion zombie harlot]

oh, i thought you were atleast 19-20 from your sig pic.
try going to the local health department OR call up a gyno and ask a couple of questions about what has been going on.
j/w-why dont you want your parents to know?

[dizziedobsession]

fashion zombie harlot

oh, i thought you were atleast 19-20 from your sig pic.
try going to the local health department OR call up a gyno and ask a couple of questions about what has been going on.
j/w-why dont you want your parents to know?

I have issues! lol. Ok. No, I always sort of have this hatred of doctors and telling them things about my life. And I had a yeast infection and I told my mom. (I wish I hadn't even then) and I just got lectured on it (And that is one of my biggest pet peeves in the world. on top of the doctor thing.) She's like... well MAYBE if you'd take a shower more often etc etc (I usually take one every other day or so. Which IS just fine!) And goes on about it and how it's like, all my fault. It just pissed me off and I didn't want to hear it. I know this time wouldn't be any better. She'd find some way to pin it on me. So I'm just not telling her.

And I'll be 19 in a month. But i'm still a virgin smile I'm in college, so I usually buy everythign on my credit card. But now I have cash that I got as a gift (and a few dollars from babysitting. But 20 of it is being put into my savings account meaning i'd have to have it put on the card or check, and it would be seen.) So i'm left with fifteen to spend on this appointment that I don't feel is worth it. (To explain the money.)

i'm not sure if you were thinking I wasn't 19-20 because of the sex, or the money, or both.

[fashion zombie harlot]

i thought you were 19 because of how you looked in your sig.
the way you were talking i thought you were 17 or under (the whole parent thing)

[dizziedobsession]

fashion zombie harlot

i thought you were 19 because of how you looked in your sig.
the way you were talking i thought you were 17 or under (the whole parent thing)

Ah, gotcha. I normally look 15, actually. Guess I look older in my sig. Or the boy does. smile
Yeah. It's just, they don't have to know. So they're not gunna find out. I'm going back to school anyway, so there's not much they can do.

EDIT: And hell. They can't try to force me to go any more than I can force myself to. Last time that happened, I ended up in the pysch ward. Albeit, it was for a therapist that I didn't want to go to. But the fact is, I didn't want to go, they tried to make me, and I somehow got irrationally violent. I was sixteen then...I'm sure it could happen as easily for this, seeing as I 100% do not want to go. I only made the appointment so my boyfriend would be happy. I thought I'd grow the balls to go but the more I think about it, the more I'm convincing myself its not necessary.

I'm off to bed. night.

[Zilla brad]

dizziedobsession

fashion zombie harlot

yea.. i MADE SURE my husband was there just because i was freaking out at first.
but then i reminded myself, its to make sure both me and my baby are okay.
that eased me...
then the whole "omg another male is touching me there im cheating"
my husband laughed at that one.
keep reassuring yourself that if you backout, something bad might happen.

I think I could handle the, something bad, over the backing out. Backing out is the much safer option than having an emotional breakdown! there's a chance it will go away on its own anyway! I could be in that one in four...

I hope you can overcome your fear and go as you already know there is a problem. Also if you dont go, then the problem may be a total turnoff to your BF.

[Lilim_demon]

whoa, this thread taught me so much...
um..what im wondering is
is there a way to make your breasts grow?

[Wolffy-Silver]

Wolffy says...

Okay i admit i didn't read the whooole thing on breast cancer but only because i thought of this and wanted to share.

My mom went for a mammogram one day and after a few re momgraming and finally an ultrasound a doctor figured out that the lumps weeere *drumroll* Lymph nodes. Wtf? aparently they come a go as they please so says mister doctor man. o_O They dont really do anything bad but uhh.... but still... DO NOT WANT!! why is this? what makes boobehs spontaneously grow lymph nodes?

But don't quote me on that.

[Wolffy-Silver]

Lilim_demon

whoa, this thread taught me so much...
um..what im wondering is
is there a way to make your breasts grow?

Wolffy says...

As far as I am aware... Push up bras, time or plastic surgery.

But don't quote me on that.

[Eiberg]

@ lilim_Demon: There isn't really that many options for breast enlargement besides implants. I know that men undergoing sexchanges get put on estrogen (Female hormone) And then gets breast, but it will be practically impossible to convince your doctor to let you take estrogen without a reason a** it might screw up on other parts of your body.
I suggest using push-ups or fillings, In most lingerei stores you can buy fillings to put in your bra and make your bussom seem larger.

You really shouldn't feel bad about having a small bussom, cause I definatly envy you on that, you can fit into all the cute bras and you can wear triangular bikinitops. And you don't have to worry as much about them becoming saggy. I have an E-cup and can never fit in to any bras unless they're custom made, wich costs a fortune, especialy when your living of su.

[dizziedobsession]

Zilla brad

dizziedobsession

fashion zombie harlot

yea.. i MADE SURE my husband was there just because i was freaking out at first.
but then i reminded myself, its to make sure both me and my baby are okay.
that eased me...
then the whole "omg another male is touching me there im cheating"
my husband laughed at that one.
keep reassuring yourself that if you backout, something bad might happen.

I think I could handle the, something bad, over the backing out. Backing out is the much safer option than having an emotional breakdown! there's a chance it will go away on its own anyway! I could be in that one in four...

I hope you can overcome your fear and go as you already know there is a problem. Also if you dont go, then the problem may be a total turnoff to your BF.

He knows that I have issues with doctors though. He would be disappointed but wouldnt leave me or anything.

About the breasts. When I was reading about birth control, I guess a lot of pills make you grow some.

[fashion zombie harlot]

@demon- the only 2 ways to make them GROW is getting pregnant, or getting fat.

[Zilla brad]

I did not know of your fear of Dr's before dizzie. I just would hate for you get ill because things did not get dealt with now. I hope it works out. Also I'm glad your BF is understanding and I did not mean to imply that he might leave you.

[chi-eah]

I have to admit, the "-PRIZE-" drew me to this thread, and I hate entering a convo at it's 1XXth page, but...

Breasts grow due to hormones.