Sex-Ed and What They Missed! *new poll*

[DearJack]

Yeah, I tried looking it up on WebMD, but I can't find something about a girl my age that's still a virgin and everything... I'm not even sure it is my clitoris though.

[EDIT]
If it makes any difference;; Its a small red bump underneath the ... labia minora I believe, with a small hole in it..

[fashion zombie harlot]

@ dearjack- yes it's normal. i have a large c**t as well, and im a small girl (5'1 & hopefully soon 120lbs)
what i find weird is that a females c**t does swell up like a males p***s when aroused.
whenever you start having sex, you might find it to get a bit larger and more sensitive then normal ones

[DearJack]

Is it supposed to be tender even when not aroused? It stays tender and swelled up for a couple days...that I notice. And I don't know why there's a hole in it. I don't intend to have sex until I'm married and I really don't understand why this randomly pops up..

[fashion zombie harlot]

Well, at your age your body is still forming.
It's normal.
No worries.
You said it only stays tender/swollen for a couple of days.
After you start having sex, it should die down.

[Softballchick400]

I like this threadi really helped me clear some of the lies i have been told.
i was it hurts every girl the first time the have s*x

[fashion zombie harlot]

@ softball- certain ones. it hurts most who haven't had their hymen broke.
i know mine didn't hurt the first time at all.
though, pain is also a mental thing.
making sure it's with someone you are comfortable with makes it seem like there is no pain, compared to having sex with someone you aren't okay with.
that's another reason why rape is so bad.

[DearJack]

Darn... okay. I'll have to wait for it to go away. Thanks though.

[fashion zombie harlot]

No problem. Glad I can help.

[rabid rabit 260]

anyone need any help today?

[fashion zombie harlot]

happy new year

[Princess Pachabel]

I missed the elementary school sex-ed video day, but was present for the freshmen year one, but this was still so great!

[Kitteh_22]

Hi, I have kind of a dilemma.

I was considering having sex with my boyfriend, but I'm not sure if I want to or not. I mean, part of me really does and wants to make him happy, but part of me wants to save my virginity for marriage. He's always let me know that it's fine for me to have this view and assures me he'll never pressure me or do anything I'm not comfortable with, but I still want to offer him this special experience...

Another problem, though, is that I'm not sure how, ummm, responsible we would be...At this moment, even though I am a virgin, I am experiencing a pregnancy scare because he came near me and some of it ended up into my v****a. So I want to make sure we prevent any possible problems.

What do you think? And how would I bring this up to him? Even if I bring it up, he'll no doubt make sure time and time again that it's something I want and am completely comfortable with. So, just a good way to bring it up would be nice.

[fashion zombie harlot]

@ star- well, it's honestly whatever you are comfortable with. if you honestly want to wait til marriage, when wait. if you think that now is the time and you are both okay and ready, then go for it.

And how old are you? if you are 18 or older, you can get a Plan B pill at walmart or such and just use that.

Don't bring it up while you guys are being sexual. Because then hormones will take over.

Just kind of mention the whole thinking about not waiting to him and his thoughts. Remember though, if you are just doing it to make him happy and you are a bit so so with it, don't do it.

[Kitteh_22]

Ok, thanks!

I'm 18, so I can buy that pill if I ever have to. We actually almost did back in November when the whole pregnancy scare issue happened, but by the time I decided to get it, 72 hours had passed and I was afraid it would be useless by then. So now I know better and will be sure to get it if I need to.

I don't know...I guess I'll bring it up when breaks ends and we see each other again. It's going to be so awkward, but not necessarily uncomfortable.

[fashion zombie harlot]

Np hun. I thought i seen you in the pregnancy thread asking about this.