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Hey guys; let's keep this going ok? mrgreen
 
     

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tenthdivisioncaptain
 
please keep this fascinating and helpful topic going ok?
     

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I don't think I'd be able to do it. I need the reassurances of a person coming on to me now and then.
 
     
 
I would think that it would free up a lot of time. rofl But, I don't know. There are a lot of options to take care of your sexual health, any other than masturbation should probably be discussed with your partner.
     
"Hikaru418"
I would think that it would free up a lot of time. rofl But, I don't know. There are a lot of options to take care of your sexual health, any other than masturbation should probably be discussed with your partner.

What might these include? Masturbation is the only one I can think of...lol xd
 
     

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"Saaaandy"
smile glad to see the thread is still going.
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i cant think of anything interesting to say except i agree totally with everything you say, tenthdivisioncaptain
and ive thought all those things before exactly, smile

haha; thanks. Maybe I'll be the first man to understand how a woman thinks eek
maybe not that far...but still I think I'm a little bit knowledgeable sweatdrop
     

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Technically, being asexual doesn't mean you won't have sex with your partner or that you're repulsed by sex. It simply means you feel no urge to have sex or anything sexual. The urge to pleasure your partner can quite possibly be the alternative motivation.
 
     



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As an asexual girl myself, I don't think I could ever get into a relationship were I could simply deny my partner his needs. It's cruel, I think.
Although if my man was willing to give up sex just to be with me, I'd find that ridiculously romantic. xD
     
"MechaMoru"
As an asexual girl myself, I don't think I could ever get into a relationship were I could simply deny my partner his needs. It's cruel, I think.
Although if my man was willing to give up sex just to be with me, I'd find that ridiculously romantic. xD
Haha; ridiculously romantic huh? That's a neat way of putting it. I think if you are with an asexual/someone who doesn't want sex they'd value the relationship alot more if you just gave it up rather than make them uncomfortable. Interesting views coming in; plz do keep posting guys and gals mrgreen
 
     

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"Contagious Cure"
Technically, being asexual doesn't mean you won't have sex with your partner or that you're repulsed by sex. It simply means you feel no urge to have sex or anything sexual. The urge to pleasure your partner can quite possibly be the alternative motivation.

Hmm. I wonder how that would work between two asexuals who didnt' know the other was asexual somehow? You'd think they'd know, but...this is a pretty crazy world. lol.
     

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"tenthdivisioncaptain"
"Fizzlesticks"
"Tute Sweet"
"Shadow Coon II"
Unless you're asexual, sex plays a fairly sizable role in all healthy, adult relationships that you get in. Given that I am NOT asexual, no, I would not choose to stay in a relationship with someone who was. I would be their best friend, though.

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^This.

You'd be frustrated and unsatisfied all the time, and it'd be their fault. Not exactly the best ground for a successful relationship, is it?

I would ask that you not just quote someone else, but put your own words in. How do you know I would feel frustrated?

The quotes above best expressed how I would feel in that situation.
I would feel frustrated. I can't speak for you.

All the best.
 
     
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"Fizzlesticks"
"tenthdivisioncaptain"
"Fizzlesticks"
"Tute Sweet"
"Shadow Coon II"
Unless you're asexual, sex plays a fairly sizable role in all healthy, adult relationships that you get in. Given that I am NOT asexual, no, I would not choose to stay in a relationship with someone who was. I would be their best friend, though.

3nodding


^This.

You'd be frustrated and unsatisfied all the time, and it'd be their fault. Not exactly the best ground for a successful relationship, is it?

I would ask that you not just quote someone else, but put your own words in. How do you know I would feel frustrated?

The quotes above best expressed how I would feel in that situation.
I would feel frustrated. I can't speak for you.

All the best.

ok. and thanks
     

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tenthdivisioncaptain
More ideas and opinions guys? idea
 
     

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o_o; umm the thread is dead? I honestly don't think anything more can be said.. confused

I think the best option from here on out would be to rally for this to be put in the "Memorable Threads" section
     
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If the thread is dead let's pull a frankenstein here. OOOOO

more opinions; pleaaase?
 
     

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