Welcome to Gaia! ::


Okaaay.
So my boyfriend looks at porn, and I found it strange. So he said he would stop. This was a while ago. And just today, I found out that he has still been looking at it. I asked him why, and he said that it is a habit. He tried explaining it to me. But I still don't get why guys have to look at it.
Plus, I have low self esteem, so when I found out that he still looks at it, it made me feel useless and that when i feel him up that it doesn't feel good. he told me that im not useless and it does feel good.

I just don't get it.


whyyy do guys look at porn?

:/
thats because porn is great. the entire internet exists for the purpose of porn.

i mean, you've got ***** bear in your sig and you are asking "why porn?"

finally isn't looking at (insert different type of girl here) girls better than him trying to get that type of girl instead of you? look. he likes porn. unless its affecting your satisfaction, then there really isn't a problem

Don't feel useless.
It has nothing to do with his feelings toward you.
I mean, do you do stuff sexually with him?
If you don't, then he needs to get off somehow.
And even if you do, you aren't ALWAYS there to relieve him when he wants some.
Also, girls look at porn, too.


Please click here and vote for my boyfriend's avi in the Arena. ^_^

User Image - Blocked by "Display Image" Settings. Click to show.
i think your against it because you haven't experienced the wonderful world of porn like what if he is into peeing on girls, you wouldn't want him peeing on you i'd hope, let him have his fun, try having your own fun, or share and watch porn together get really horny and then go at it. yay!

also if your not putting out thats prob why hes watching other girls.
i know i have ***** bear in my sig. i find it cute xD

and yeaah i do, do things sexually with him.
SV-Sile
i think your against it because you haven't experienced the wonderful world of porn like what if he is into peeing on girls, you wouldn't want him peeing on you i'd hope, let him have his fun, try having your own fun, or share and watch porn together get really horny and then go at it. yay!

also if your not putting out thats prob why hes watching other girls.


i am putting out. trusst mee

ewwwh why would you want to see people peeing on other people?

6,400 Points
  • Conversationalist 100
  • Full closet 200
  • Profitable 100
Don't worry, actual physical contact and looking at porn/masturbating are completely different. it has nothing to do with him not being satisfied with you or anything.

Think of it more as his "me time". It's just something he enjoys doing and doesn't reflect what he does or doesn't do with you. Have some confidence in yourself and your boyfriend.
Men aren't the only porn addicted weasels. I know MANY women who watch it for kicks or watch it with their significant other.
This is a touchy subject. I feel conflicted....I feel like he should have stopped because it makes you feel really bad. But, at the same time, I feel like maybe you shouldn't take it so hard.
I guess, a lot of people watch things that get them randy that they would never think of doing/having in the real world. Like some people watching an older woman(60+) with a much younger guy. They would never dream of having an old wrinkly woman in their bed with them. Also, whether they admit it or not, many men watch gay(man/man) porn. But it doesn't mean their gay.
All, in all, if it hurts you in any way he shouldn't do it, or just not let you know he's doing it. (sorry about that).
Your mans pornz don't necessarily mean that he wants to do whatever he's watching. He's got you, and it sounds like he wants to keep it that way.
Porn is wonderful.
I felt the same way as you for a short while in my relationship, but then he showed me what he was looking at, and I was like "Zomg that's hot".

It became a cool thing we do together, and a great way to set the mood. 3nodding
Porn is a great bliss actually....
Yeaaah. I shouldn't get so worked up on it.
I just find it weird.

I've seen some porn. mind you it was pairs hilton, who really isnt good looking.

thanks everyone for your input ^^
PansyCake
SV-Sile
i think your against it because you haven't experienced the wonderful world of porn like what if he is into peeing on girls, you wouldn't want him peeing on you i'd hope, let him have his fun, try having your own fun, or share and watch porn together get really horny and then go at it. yay!

also if your not putting out thats prob why hes watching other girls.


i am putting out. trusst mee

ewwwh why would you want to see people peeing on other people?


and thats why you need porn what if he likes girls laying eggs, do you really want him to pee on you and then have you lay an egg? no? and thats why porn exists. your there for the real stuff porn is there for fantasy you should really try it out, like maybe your a furry and you never knew it. better then having him dress up like a skunk. yay porn!
i'm going to agree with everyone else here.

for a while i didn't like girls knowing about looking at porn (though all guys look at porn). but it can be really hot when girls look at porn also.

there are also added benifits. like if you know what type of porn the girl is into you can tailor your efforts to please her more. like wise, if you know what he's into then you can help him.

its not something you have to jump into, but give it a try.


also as a warning, peeing on people is still pretty mild compared to what you might find on the internet. not everything is for everyone, but you should keep an open mind.
PansyCake
Yeaaah. I shouldn't get so worked up on it.
I just find it weird.

I've seen some porn. mind you it was pairs hilton, who really isnt good looking.

thanks everyone for your input ^^

PansyCake
Yeaaah. I shouldn't get so worked up on it.
I just find it weird.

I've seen some porn. mind you it was pairs hilton, who really isnt good looking.

thanks everyone for your input ^^


I saw
A night in Paris'
Or more like, fast forward watched it.
I was really disappointed, I expected her to be really freaky.
She just kinda layed there.
Nice body though.

Quick Reply

Submit
Manage Your Items
Other Stuff
Get GCash
Offers
Get Items
More Items
Where Everyone Hangs Out
Other Community Areas
Virtual Spaces
Fun Stuff
Gaia's Games
Mini-Games
Play with GCash
Play with Platinum