OUCH!!!.... That's OH soo SEXY!!!!!!

[UnlovableSoul]

I love Fetish and BDSM

i love the excitement of the chains, restriaints and whips.
i think a slight thrill of pain... i dont mean like bruises and cuts but a slight amount of pain is hot

i would never subject anyone to something they didn't want to do, and yea... thats illegal

but i think bdsm and fetish is very sexy
the thing i do not understand is

WHY is it so wrong?

if i enjoy it shouldn't i be allowed to express my wishes without being judged??

Discuss:

bdsm, fetish
weird habits
love
society
whatever

[Coyote-Walker]

Um. You ARE allowed to talk about it. It's a fairly common thing to be into. It's just that most people aren't into it enough to have bondage furniture and such. You talk about it as if you're alone, you're not. It's just that most people aren't so outspoken about it.

[Aita Vanth]

BDSM is *A* fetish. A fetish is anything that turns you on: Roleplaying, costumes, feet, etc.

And I don't like being whipped, chained, or leather. That s**t would just make me pissed off.

[v!nylzomb!e]

It's not wrong, it's just not the usual.

"The usual" being missionary position sex solely for procreation, as made popular by the church.

But nowadays, no. It's not as unheard of and wrong as you'd like to think.

[AurinLeigh]

Heh well...for me PERSONALLY, I don't care too much for it, but my girlfriend is kinda like you. She doesn't like anything too much, but like sliiiight pain is cool to her. It's really not that weird...the only people I know who seem to have a problem with it are like super conservative people or major traditionalist, family values sorta people. No worries, it's pretty normal as far as I'm concerned, and people who thing it's wrong, well too bad for them. xD They have nothing to do with you.

[DreamQuietly]

Why did u put a post in this??
Well

[XXX Zombie Porn]

I love it.
I get whipped, hair pulled, spanked and tied up on a regular basis.
I love it.
I know a lot of people who find it weird and I don't make people listen to me go on about it if it makes them uncomfortable but I usually find people are more curious.

[AurinLeigh]

xD Wow. I have VERY low pain tolerance usually, I get a scratch and I'm thinking "OMG it's the end of the WORLD!!!! crying " But well...it's just different I guess...xD Personally I don't think I could handle all out whips and chains and stuff, but enough to make my gf happy is good with me. =3 I really don't see what the problem is, and people who think that what YOU like is THEIR business, are just...ugh they bother me so much...xP

[xoCullen Babexo]

OMG i think that rocks!I love to be whipped and be naughty it is so friecken sexy ohhh sex love the thought!

[AurinLeigh]

Oh well I LOOOOVE the force involved...like you try to do something, but she forces you to wait, and just...ok not going into detail. =P xDDDD But yeah...I LOVE the whole like punishy stuff, but the pain and stuff, that I can't handle so much. xD Not that there's anything wrong with it, just my preference. xD

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Aurin Lucerius

xD Wow. I have VERY low pain tolerance usually, I get a scratch and I'm thinking "OMG it's the end of the WORLD!!!! crying " But well...it's just different I guess...xD Personally I don't think I could handle all out whips and chains and stuff, but enough to make my gf happy is good with me. =3 I really don't see what the problem is, and people who think that what YOU like is THEIR business, are just...ugh they bother me so much...xP

I often find I'm not happy until I'm almost crying.
My limit is being slapped in the face or any pain on my facial area. Mainly for reasons I don't wish to discuss in an online forum and because I have facial piercings which could be damaged.

[AurinLeigh]

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Aurin Lucerius

xD Wow. I have VERY low pain tolerance usually, I get a scratch and I'm thinking "OMG it's the end of the WORLD!!!! crying " But well...it's just different I guess...xD Personally I don't think I could handle all out whips and chains and stuff, but enough to make my gf happy is good with me. =3 I really don't see what the problem is, and people who think that what YOU like is THEIR business, are just...ugh they bother me so much...xP

I often find I'm not happy until I'm almost crying.
My limit is being slapped in the face or any pain on my facial area. Mainly for reasons I don't wish to discuss in an online forum and because I have facial piercings which could be damaged.

Heh I can go up to about lightish biting and fingernails digging into my skin, but any further than that, I can't do it. I just cannot handle pain...xD I feel stupid, and pretty wimpy, but...I dunno. I guess I am just weak I guess. sweatdrop I don't like the use of other objects, just like what the other person DOES...chains/whips and stuff don't sound appealing to me. xD But that's just me.

[Nanabii]

I'm into the M/s stuff. I'm not too much into pain beyond spanking. I prefer being completely dominated rather than being hurt.

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Aurin Lucerius

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Aurin Lucerius

xD Wow. I have VERY low pain tolerance usually, I get a scratch and I'm thinking "OMG it's the end of the WORLD!!!! crying " But well...it's just different I guess...xD Personally I don't think I could handle all out whips and chains and stuff, but enough to make my gf happy is good with me. =3 I really don't see what the problem is, and people who think that what YOU like is THEIR business, are just...ugh they bother me so much...xP

I often find I'm not happy until I'm almost crying.
My limit is being slapped in the face or any pain on my facial area. Mainly for reasons I don't wish to discuss in an online forum and because I have facial piercings which could be damaged.

Heh I can go up to about lightish biting and fingernails digging into my skin, but any further than that, I can't do it. I just cannot handle pain...xD I feel stupid, and pretty wimpy, but...I dunno. I guess I am just weak I guess. sweatdrop I don't like the use of other objects, just like what the other person DOES...chains/whips and stuff don't sound appealing to me. xD But that's just me.

There's nothing wrong with not liking it at all. Everyone's different. I'm normally a wimp when I go for piercings and hate the pain of them but I love the rush from it.
:]

[AurinLeigh]

Nanabii

I'm into the M/s stuff. I'm not too much into pain beyond spanking. I prefer being completely dominated rather than being hurt.

DOMINATION thaaaaaat's the word I was thinking of. xD Yes, I love that...x3333 But I do like occasionally being the one in control, it's all a matter of the mood. xD