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Please excuse the mule. I am a girl. I was wondering how common it is for an older girl dating a younger guy. It seems that society has accepted more of older guy dating a younger girl than an older girl dating a younger guy (not including cougars). I am in a relationship where I am the older one by a year and half difference.
Since you're still young enough for a year to be considered a big deal, just wait until you're like, 16 or 18, nobody cares about it then.
Well generally with age differences in relationship it's also important how old the people are - it's different when they're e.g. 15 and 18 than 25 and 28.
In any case you should not worry about what other people think if you're happy with your relationship. It's your life, not theirs.
And 1,5 year seems a completely fine difference to me; people may find it strange if the girl is many year older, but 1,5 year really is not a lot.
Shima Shinji
Since you're still young enough for a year to be considered a big deal, just wait until you're like, 16 or 18, nobody cares about it then.


I am actually seventeen. I don't care about the age difference, I was just wondering if anyone on Gaia was in this type of relationship.
Ever hear of Cougers? 3nodding

Edit: Given the vast amount of ages on Gaia, I'm going to go ahead and say it's a safe bet there's quite a few here, though most of them aren't looking for jailbait. wink

Also, GAIA IS NOT A DATING SITE. Most adults understand this, so...yeah.
Doctor Edo
Shima Shinji
Since you're still young enough for a year to be considered a big deal, just wait until you're like, 16 or 18, nobody cares about it then.


I am actually seventeen. I don't care about the age difference, I was just wondering if anyone on Gaia was in this type of relationship.

Being a year older isn't really considered being an older woman. When you say that, people assume you're like, 5 or 8 years older.

Hell, my boyfriend is 6 years older than me and I don't consider him being an older man.
Doctor Edo
Shima Shinji
Since you're still young enough for a year to be considered a big deal, just wait until you're like, 16 or 18, nobody cares about it then.


I am actually seventeen. I don't care about the age difference, I was just wondering if anyone on Gaia was in this type of relationship.


Well when I was 17 I was dating a guy who was 14. But it last only 4 months. We were too different personalities to stay together longer. It was actually more of a closer friendship than a romantic relationship.
Cougar...lol razz . Just kidding .

I'm in a relationship with an older man and I know more women with older men than women with younger men >_> .
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I'm 18 and I'm taking a 26 yr old to dinner this weekend ;D
Flings happen, but i doubt there are many that end up seriious and lasting. Mostly because women already mature before men, so a woman dating someone younger than herself is more like a woman dating a boy
I used to be in a relationship with a younger guy... I don't recommend it... Unless you get a guy who won't hurt you. But this it my opinion. I've always been into older men. ^.^
I date a girl older than me by 2 years...
I'm used to dating guys who are several years older than me, but now I'm dating someone who is just five months younger than me and that's kinda strange. I love him though. heart
I'm 22 and I'm just over a year older than my boyfriend.
My ex was also younger than me by a month.

I don't really see a problem with it as long as there's not some bizarre kind of age difference

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