A POLL! "Lick My Boots!" BDSM: The Passion, The Lifestyle

Pick your poison.

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[forever a fawn]

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Mm, I love gun play, actually. I suppose that I'm considered an edgeplayer by many of the things I engage in, but I personally don't.

I agree with the mantra of never trusting that a gun isn't loaded.

Meh, I've heard of too many accidents caused by "unloaded" guns. They make me incredibly nervous anyhow. Even pellet guns, and those pop guns that just shoot out smoke worry me a little bit. I once killed a wood rat with a beebee gun, and it really shook me up. They scare me a lot more now.

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Mm, I love gun play, actually. I suppose that I'm considered an edgeplayer by many of the things I engage in, but I personally don't.

I agree with the mantra of never trusting that a gun isn't loaded.

Meh, I've heard of too many accidents caused by "unloaded" guns. They make me incredibly nervous anyhow. Even pellet guns, and those pop guns that just shoot out smoke worry me a little bit. I once killed a wood rat with a beebee gun, and it really shook me up. They scare me a lot more now.

Exactly why it shouldn't ever be trusted.

[Leohasgone]

Re: Edgeplay. Leo's absolutely terrified of guns and doesn't even like them when they've got their insides pulled out, but she thinks she'd really love knife play. Not even being cut or anything, just knowing that it could happen. Leo actually really likes knives in general. She thinks they're really pretty. She gets really excited if she sees any; like all bouncy and happy. Her Person finds it silly. =P

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Leolilac

Re: Edgeplay. Leo's absolutely terrified of guns and doesn't even like them when they've got their insides pulled out, but she thinks she'd really love knife play. Not even being cut or anything, just knowing that it could happen. Leo actually really likes knives in general. She thinks they're really pretty. She gets really excited if she sees any; like all bouncy and happy. Her Person finds it silly. =P

I love knives and knife play, but I also love knife play with penetrative play. I cannot bear to touch a person's skin with a knife and NOT draw blood! (Well, I can, I just become saddened.)

[Leohasgone]

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Leolilac

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Re: Edgeplay. Leo's absolutely terrified of guns and doesn't even like them when they've got their insides pulled out, but she thinks she'd really love knife play. Not even being cut or anything, just knowing that it could happen. Leo actually really likes knives in general. She thinks they're really pretty. She gets really excited if she sees any; like all bouncy and happy. Her Person finds it silly. =P

I love knives and knife play, but I also love knife play with penetrative play. I cannot bear to touch a person's skin with a knife and NOT draw blood! (Well, I can, I just become saddened.)

Yeah, that scares Leo a bit just 'cause she doesn't know what it feels like and it's one of those things where if she doesn't enjoy it she has to deal with it for a while until it heals up. xD

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Leolilac

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Leolilac

http://i801.photobucket.com/albums/yy296/Leopardchild/Leoart.png

Re: Edgeplay. Leo's absolutely terrified of guns and doesn't even like them when they've got their insides pulled out, but she thinks she'd really love knife play. Not even being cut or anything, just knowing that it could happen. Leo actually really likes knives in general. She thinks they're really pretty. She gets really excited if she sees any; like all bouncy and happy. Her Person finds it silly. =P

I love knives and knife play, but I also love knife play with penetrative play. I cannot bear to touch a person's skin with a knife and NOT draw blood! (Well, I can, I just become saddened.)

Yeah, that scares Leo a bit just 'cause she doesn't know what it feels like and it's one of those things where if she doesn't enjoy it she has to deal with it for a while until it heals up. xD

This is very true. You can always do it in a place where it will not be seen and will be small. But it's almost hard to say because you will not get the full effect unless you have a full cutting scene.

[Jason0690]

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Leolilac

Re: Edgeplay. Leo's absolutely terrified of guns and doesn't even like them when they've got their insides pulled out, but she thinks she'd really love knife play. Not even being cut or anything, just knowing that it could happen. Leo actually really likes knives in general. She thinks they're really pretty. She gets really excited if she sees any; like all bouncy and happy. Her Person finds it silly. =P

I love knives and knife play, but I also love knife play with penetrative play. I cannot bear to touch a person's skin with a knife and NOT draw blood! (Well, I can, I just become saddened.)

Pft. If it wasn't for extreme twitchyness, you'd have loved me a couple months ago. I bled from the slightest things <_<

[Leohasgone]

Guys! Leo's Masterperson has been working on being ok with spanking and whatnot and yesterday he used a belt which is super big 'cause he really hated the idea at first and it was so much nicer than hands and Leo's really happyfaced! 4laugh
She has a concern though. She remembers seeing a picture in here a long time ago that told folks safe and unsafe places to hit, and she doesn't remember where to find it. If anyone knows what she's talking about, she'd love to see it again so she can make sure everything is safe. 3nodding

[iPyxie]

Hey, everyone. New to the forum.
Call me what ever you want. o uo

[Blackrose_Knight]

Leolilac

Guys! Leo's Masterperson has been working on being ok with spanking and whatnot and yesterday he used a belt which is super big 'cause he really hated the idea at first and it was so much nicer than hands and Leo's really happyfaced! 4laugh
She has a concern though. She remembers seeing a picture in here a long time ago that told folks safe and unsafe places to hit, and she doesn't remember where to find it. If anyone knows what she's talking about, she'd love to see it again so she can make sure everything is safe. 3nodding

I think I can find one but my sexfriendnotboyfriendbutsupercool M. and I had this convo a few nights ago during a random booty call. Never strike the spine/neck. Hitting the meaty part of the butt, the lower on the buttcheek the better. Your butt is meant to be sat on it can take it. 3nodding Back of the thighs are pretty safe, but that could be a nono given personal preference to pain.

There is a bit in Screw The Roses on it, I have to head to class but I will post more when I get home.

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Jason0690

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Leolilac

Re: Edgeplay. Leo's absolutely terrified of guns and doesn't even like them when they've got their insides pulled out, but she thinks she'd really love knife play. Not even being cut or anything, just knowing that it could happen. Leo actually really likes knives in general. She thinks they're really pretty. She gets really excited if she sees any; like all bouncy and happy. Her Person finds it silly. =P

I love knives and knife play, but I also love knife play with penetrative play. I cannot bear to touch a person's skin with a knife and NOT draw blood! (Well, I can, I just become saddened.)

Pft. If it wasn't for extreme twitchyness, you'd have loved me a couple months ago. I bled from the slightest things <_<

Mm. Bloodplay is one of my favorite things.

[Anasui]

I have always wanted to partake in BDMS, and I recently talked to my boyfriend about this, he has no problem, but wants to keep it safe. And this is going to be something both of us are going to be very new at.

What would you recommend for a new couple involved in BDMS? Both of us are of legal age, and there really are no laws against BDMS where we live.

The closest to BDMS we may have really done is just him "hurting" my breasts by twisting and stretching, although for me, the thing is, it doesn't really hurt, I actually enjoy it...

[Sillith Bloomie Grey]

iPyxie

Hey, everyone. New to the forum.
Call me what ever you want. o uo

I dub you O.

[Identity Glitch]

Wow! This is the most informative thread I have seen on a topic. Cudose to you. wink

[forever a fawn]

Leolilac

Guys! Leo's Masterperson has been working on being ok with spanking and whatnot and yesterday he used a belt which is super big 'cause he really hated the idea at first and it was so much nicer than hands and Leo's really happyfaced! 4laugh
She has a concern though. She remembers seeing a picture in here a long time ago that told folks safe and unsafe places to hit, and she doesn't remember where to find it. If anyone knows what she's talking about, she'd love to see it again so she can make sure everything is safe. 3nodding

Ooh, congrats. I've never had a belt used on me, but it could be fun. As for where is ok to hit, I'm not 100% sure, but I agree with Blackrose. You're butt and thighs are perfectly fine. ^^

Anasui

I have always wanted to partake in BDMS, and I recently talked to my boyfriend about this, he has no problem, but wants to keep it safe. And this is going to be something both of us are going to be very new at.

What would you recommend for a new couple involved in BDMS? Both of us are of legal age, and there really are no laws against BDMS where we live.

The closest to BDMS we may have really done is just him "hurting" my breasts by twisting and stretching, although for me, the thing is, it doesn't really hurt, I actually enjoy it...

It really depends what you're into.
I personally started out exploring BDSM with a pair of handcuffs. My husband also spanked me a couple times. That kind of opened up more doors and exploration. Now I'm into all kinds of things. Just discuss it with your partner, and see where you want to go. Maybe read some books on the subject. ^^

In other news, I read a more 'casual' description of a master/slave relationship. I think I'm definitely a lot more interested in it now. I'm still not quite comfortable bringing it up with JJ yet, but I'll get there. <3