A POLL! "Lick My Boots!" BDSM: The Passion, The Lifestyle

Pick your poison.

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[Silvia Crow]

Blackrose_Knight

Silvia Crow

GF/FWB is interested in trying some light bondage (Mostly in the form of ball gags and handcuffs). Any tips and/or suggestions on gear to buy? We were considering just buying some stuff from Spencers.

Make sure you are of or over the ago of majority before you do this. If you are specifically wanting a ball gag and handcuffs, go to Spencers for the handcuffs, but I would go for a good ball gag. Cheap ones can break in your mouth (and pose a choking hazard) or be made out of poky plastic and/or have plastic burrs of ouch. Inspect your products before you buy them; that is sound buying practice for much anything though.

There's an Adult Megaplex a bit of a ways on the highway that might have some...

About how much does a good quality ball gag go for?

Also, any opinion on ring gags?

[S c h a d 3 n f r e u d e]

Silvia Crow

Blackrose_Knight

Silvia Crow

GF/FWB is interested in trying some light bondage (Mostly in the form of ball gags and handcuffs). Any tips and/or suggestions on gear to buy? We were considering just buying some stuff from Spencers.

Make sure you are of or over the ago of majority before you do this. If you are specifically wanting a ball gag and handcuffs, go to Spencers for the handcuffs, but I would go for a good ball gag. Cheap ones can break in your mouth (and pose a choking hazard) or be made out of poky plastic and/or have plastic burrs of ouch. Inspect your products before you buy them; that is sound buying practice for much anything though.

There's an Adult Megaplex a bit of a ways on the highway that might have some...

About how much does a good quality ball gag go for?

Also, any opinion on ring gags?

Depends where you get it from. Can go anywhere from twenty about all the way up to fifty or sixty dollars. Some of my favorite gags have been in the range of thirty to forty U.S. dollars.

Ring gags are not that great for beginners. They can be nice for the open mouth feel and you can penetrate the mouth while they're in use, but that's only if you can fit the p***s or prosthetic through it. I highly recommend a plug gag. A ring gag keeps the mouth open at a generally uncomfortable angle for people new to wearing gags.

Also, I posted on the page before this, don't know if you saw it.

[Blackrose_Knight]

Silvia Crow

Blackrose_Knight

Silvia Crow

GF/FWB is interested in trying some light bondage (Mostly in the form of ball gags and handcuffs). Any tips and/or suggestions on gear to buy? We were considering just buying some stuff from Spencers.

Make sure you are of or over the ago of majority before you do this. If you are specifically wanting a ball gag and handcuffs, go to Spencers for the handcuffs, but I would go for a good ball gag. Cheap ones can break in your mouth (and pose a choking hazard) or be made out of poky plastic and/or have plastic burrs of ouch. Inspect your products before you buy them; that is sound buying practice for much anything though.

There's an Adult Megaplex a bit of a ways on the highway that might have some...

About how much does a good quality ball gag go for?

Also, any opinion on ring gags?

I am not a ball gag fan ( I dislike drooling on myself, and boy do you drool). I would be warry of Adult Megaplex's and kink gear, then generally only have low grade kink stuff on site for dabblers. Low grade = generally hurty in the WRONG ways. Like burrs in plastic...ect ect. I would look there, but always inspect things that are going into sensitive places like mouths and genital areas.

If you don't want to drop money, try a pervertables like Shad suggested. But for a gag, just venture out and buy one, then splurge on a nice one if you like it.

[Urvogel]

I'd like to point out that Silvia Crow has not confirmed she is over the age of majority.

[Randi The Rogue]

Urvogel

I'd like to point out that Silvia Crow has not confirmed she is over the age of majority.

You don't have to be age of majority to post in this topic and to receive our information/assistance. We're aware they have not stated whether they were or not. Hence why Blackrose has been saying, "If you are above the age of majority..."

[S c h a d 3 n f r e u d e]

Who here is involved in Leather? Anyone?

I've been trying to learn more about its inner workings, but haven't been too successful. Most of what I know was inherited knowledge from someone in my family who was a capped leatherman. I'm personally more into simple D/s and M/s, which is why I ask. I'd like to know more about it, though.

[forever a fawn]

They say when you meet the love of your life, time stops. And that's true.

I would love to be able to make things with leather.
Sadly though, I'm not creative at all.
Also I have a job now. So with one of my next pay checks, I plan on getting something from CollarFactory. heart

What they don't tell you, is that once time starts again, it moves extra fast to catch up.

[RosesFallingLikeRain]

Hello! I'm back, and eighteen. :3 and all that fun stuff.

[Blackrose_Knight]

RosesFallingLikeRain

Hello! I'm back, and eighteen. :3 and all that fun stuff.

Which is generally good but is 18 the age of majority for your area?

[S c h a d 3 n f r e u d e]

That's not what I meant. I didn't say "leather crafting." Leather is one of the lifestyles under the BDSM spectrum, which is why I capitalized it. It really has nothing to do with leather crafting, though many people involved in Leather do do some form of leather working.

[RosesFallingLikeRain]

Blackrose_Knight

RosesFallingLikeRain

Hello! I'm back, and eighteen. :3 and all that fun stuff.

Which is generally good but is 18 the age of majority for your area?

Yes, it is. I'm finally legal.

[GaijinGuy36]

RosesFallingLikeRain

Blackrose_Knight

RosesFallingLikeRain

Hello! I'm back, and eighteen. :3 and all that fun stuff.

Which is generally good but is 18 the age of majority for your area?

Yes, it is. I'm finally legal.

Good for you! 3nodding

[Chieftain Twilight]

S c h a d 3 n f r e u d e

Silvia Crow

I don't like ball gags either, I'm not a big gag fan (one way or the other)... but I do enjoy light bondage. I have a thing against fuzzy cuffs, though, but that's just me.

I'd suggest doing what I do -- get in good with the crafters and artists. they usually have good-quality stuff, and will sell it at reasonable prices. if you want, I can hook you up with leatherers, chainmail weavers, collar-makers, whipmakers, the works.

[leahCanadian]

*licks boots* biggrin

[forever a fawn]

S c h a d 3 n f r e u d e

That's not what I meant. I didn't say "leather crafting." Leather is one of the lifestyles under the BDSM spectrum, which is why I capitalized it. It really has nothing to do with leather crafting, though many people involved in Leather do do some form of leather working.

They say when you meet the love of your life, time stops. And that's true.

Oh, I misunderstood. Thanks for correcting me. 3nodding

What they don't tell you, is that once time starts again, it moves extra fast to catch up.