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If you're choosing to get married when it will have an impact on you're schooling, you're probably too stupid for school anyways.
Oh yeah because having stereotypes and being ignorant like that makes you such a smart a** cookie. Its totally impossible to have a life and go to school at the same time!
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Why don't you go spout that sage piece of advice to all the young kids who are busy drinking and partying their way through school...
FYI in case you are one of those kids, you have been a victim of sarcasm my friend.
Oh, well.
My mistake then, marriage most certainly isn't a life changing shift that can very much stall success, if not stunt it all together.
Waiting and making school, and apparently, work the main priorities would be a terrible idea.
Obviously marriage and being responsible for both a husband and a step son comes first, especially when it can wait.
I dunno, while I recognize marriage can be shift, for some people it may not be if they've been living together and involved in each others' lives for so long previously. Why does it have to be an all or nothing decision? Why is work/school seen as counter intuitive to family life? Especially for women, and that in my mind is incredibly sexist.
Marriages can be a really supportive force in regards to school and work instead of something that takes away from them. Like I'm sure in this girl's situation her partner understands and is supportive that she will still have a large commitment to school and if both parties are okay with that and recognize the potential drawbacks I see no problem here.
Yet, while more often than not, they do the opposite.
Finishing school would be the more responsible thing to do.
Okay your opinion is different from fact. If you can offer me some sort of study than I would consider what you're saying. I go to school with a lot of people who are married. Finding time to spend with their families is no different than the time a single person spends trying to hang out with their friends and party. They are different issues, and a married person's issues may be unique in the school setting but saying school and marriage isn't compatible is ridiculous. Do you know how many fellow students and professors I've met personally and there are in the world who have completed their schooling (doctoral level schooling no less!) with a family?! To get a PhD you are going to be in your late 20s-early 30s minimum. Are you telling me it is impossible for those people to get their PhDs while trying to start and raise a family. You are mistaken my friend. If people pursuing PhDs can do it, I have no doubt an undergraduate can do it. It comes down to personal resolve. If someone really wants something than they're going to do it. If they don't, they'll think of all the excuse they can to justify them trying to attain it.
And I especially like your saying about it would be more responsible to finish school first. While I may understand where you're coming from, I resent the fact you are content to pass judgement about people being irresponsible or not from your high horse. You know nothing about how responsible or not this girl is. For all you know, she could have her sh*t together better than you. People need to really stop and think about what they're saying...
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