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boyfriend 0.11078066914498 11.1% [ 149 ]
fiancée 0.092936802973978 9.3% [ 125 ]
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@Aidan; Hello!
if both you and your partner have the will for it, any relationship can survive the military, no matter which job you take on. It's just up to you on whether you think it's worth trying against the distance.
Nuu I'm cool with being a mod 8D
I try being on Gaia as much as possible xD
I'm on gaia a lot cus I have nothing better to do xD
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Veolin
Ello, I'm a military wife myself. Currently making it through deployment #2. I had tried to get into the other military support thread, but most in there didn't seem to be very chatty. >.<


Well, welcome to this thread! Hehe.
I was going to try and affiliate with them later on, but idk I'm afraid they might b***h at me for making another :s
I don't know if they will or not, but it's always worth asking. 3nodding
truee c:
I will eventually.
KeroPop's avatar

Invisible Regular

Hello there. :3 I am currently a military girlfriend. I tried posting in the other military support thread a while back, but no one really paid attention to me, or my story. -sigh- so I'm trying again here. I've been together with my boyfriend for almost seven months now. He is stationed in Anchorage, and he's already been deployed once to Afghanistan for nine months. Which took place last year. He only needs two more years to go, and I'm really excited for that. whee
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Shameless Exhibitionist

My boyfriend is in the army.
He gets most weekends off.
But it's taking a toll on my sanity.
Most guys only have to be in the (mandatory) army for a half a year here...
But my boyfriend wants to be a pilot in the army...
Lady Kero

Well hi there! I'll try my best not to make you feel ignored, haha. How old are you and your boyfriend?
I'm going to be leaving for the Air force in about five months.
I have a long term girlfriend (2 years)
Im not sure if I should end things before I leave or keep them going.
My term is four years, but chances are I will probably be re-enlisting.

We love each other very much, but I feel like I dont want her sitting here being lonely
and just waiting for me to come back. I want her to be happy and be able to have a life
that consists of more than just waiting for my letters or my calls.

I'd marry her before I left so I could live off base after my training, but since I am gay
I wouldn't actually be able to do that, which also puts a strain on things.


Its the toughest thing for me to deal with right now.
Dysfunctional Underwear
My boyfriend is in the army.
He gets most weekends off.
But it's taking a toll on my sanity.
Most guys only have to be in the (mandatory) army for a half a year here...
But my boyfriend wants to be a pilot in the army...

Aweh, dear ): How long has he been gone already?
Creaturefearr
I'm going to be leaving for the Air force in about five months.
I have a long term girlfriend (2 years)
Im not sure if I should end things before I leave or keep them going.
My term is four years, but chances are I will probably be re-enlisting.

We love each other very much, but I feel like I dont want her sitting here being lonely
and just waiting for me to come back. I want her to be happy and be able to have a life
that consists of more than just waiting for my letters or my calls.

I'd marry her before I left so I could live off base after my training, but since I am gay
I wouldn't actually be able to do that, which also puts a strain on things.


Its the toughest thing for me to deal with right now.

wait, I'm a tad confused. you're gay in this situation?
I would say that if you both really love each other and all, then the wait is well worth it (and honestly, my boyfriend's letters are the highlight of my day no matter what I end up doing), but I'm not quite sure what you mean here. ^^;
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Shameless Exhibitionist

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Dysfunctional Underwear
My boyfriend is in the army.
He gets most weekends off.
But it's taking a toll on my sanity.
Most guys only have to be in the (mandatory) army for a half a year here...
But my boyfriend wants to be a pilot in the army...

Aweh, dear ): How long has he been gone already?

Only a month...
But we've only been together since Febuary...
But I feel like we have nothing in common now...
All he talks about is the army...
But I suppose that's life.
Wish For Wings That Work

wait, I'm a tad confused. you're gay in this situation?
I would say that if you both really love each other and all, then the wait is well worth it (and honestly, my boyfriend's letters are the highlight of my day no matter what I end up doing), but I'm not quite sure what you mean here. ^^;


Haha, yeah.
I should clarify, female and gay.
So a lesbian.


I just don't know if I should do such a thing to her.
Stay in the relationship and leave her, you know?
I love her too much to let her be lonely I guess.
So that's my concern, I love her to the point
where i only care about her happiness.

And Im not sure making her wait for me for 4 years
will allow her to be happy.
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Lady Kero

Well hi there! I'll try my best not to make you feel ignored, haha. How old are you and your boyfriend?


It's quite alright :3 I am 18 and he is 21 ^^; We have to deal with long distance for now because I'm all the way in Florida. :/

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