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Fairee Lumineuse's avatar
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            Yes or no? Give me your opinion.

            I'd say no, people can change, and my parents were together for 18 years, but then grew out of love the last couple of ones.

            What do you think?

            Sorry LD for another love thread. sweatdrop I just want peoples opinions.
I still believe in eternal love.
I know that some where, in the world, There is someone whose suppose to be with me, But isn't because they can't get to me. My soul has been around for a few thousands or so years, I'm pretty sure i broke a few hearts in my time.
I would like to say love is forever but a lot of times it's not. Some people are in loving relationships for many many years and others are not.

Depends on the people.
Nothing is forever. Nothing is certain except for death.
Masochist Marduk
Nothing is forever. Nothing is certain except for death.

And taxes?
I say love is forever with the understanding that the way you love someone can change.
I don't know. I have my doubts.
Common Zombie's avatar
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Bullshit.
Love only lasts as long as life lets it.
Chilled Escapism
Masochist Marduk
Nothing is forever. Nothing is certain except for death.

And taxes?
Touche` sophisticated 90's movie of forbidden love and staggering wealth.
Lexia_Starr's avatar
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It can be, but it's not inherently. You're right, people do change and those developments are by and large unforeseeable so I don't believe that growing apart or changing or falling out of love means it was never really love to begin with.
Since love has a lot to do with both partners and their personality, their compatibility, their ability to compromise, and their ability to grow I would have to say that it can end. Life experiences can change your personality, which can change your compatibility. Extremely stressful situations can bring out the worst in people and then them realize they're not who they thought they were, and thus fall out of love.
Everything dies, even and especially love.
I personally think it is. Well, till death forces it apart then who the hell knows.

I mean yeah, there's been couples that separated after like 15+ years of being together but there's also been couples that have stayed together for like 50 years.

I think to make a relationship like that work, both parties have to understand that people can sometimes change and they have to accept these changes and grow with the person they're with. Also, both have to have trust in the person they're with, they have to be able to talk with them through good and bad and take them at they're worst and best.
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Yes love is forever. That's why there is a 50% divorce rate in America. Also people change and when people change people's opinions of love and what they want there significant other to be changes as well and in many cases there significant other does not fit this change. Thus love is lost.

honestly I would say love would suck if it was forever. If you knew love was forever and you find your lover then there would be no point working to make your lover more happy because love is forever.

Love isn't forever. But thats what makes love so strong. Because you have to work for it constantly even in a relationship to keep it.
Chilled Escapism
Masochist Marduk
Nothing is forever. Nothing is certain except for death.

And taxes?

Republicans too.

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