loveblackbutterflies
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- Posted: Sun, 10 Feb 2008 09:04:35 +0000
Hiya,
Yes this is yet another topic on the fact of "does he like me?" and "he won't go away!!!" I'm pretty sure I'm not trying to get advice (yeah I'm another one of those teenagers who are worrying and second-thoughts or in other words confused) but yeah, I want to tell my story and see if anyone else has gone through this or anything similar..
Okay I'll start off with ... umm, I don't want to say his name so lets call him Dep for depressed (sorry to Johnny Dep lovers xd )
So here I am at high school, with people I've never said "hi" to in my classes and then I see a boy, who I felt attracted to. Well I'm a type of girl who sits back and chases someone without moving sweatdrop it's dumb I know but the chase is always more fun than afterwards neutral for me anyways..
So yeah I spent months liking him and then I found his msn addy. Naturally I wanted to know what his personality was like so I added him and talked to him..Dep was nice and funny so then I knew I really liked him.
But then months later, when we finally started going out, it sucked. It was actually painful to me, he was too shy, meaning he didn't want to hold my hand in public and when we STARTED going out, straight after he said yes (yeah he was too shy to even ask me even though I said i liked him) he said he loved me. It made me feel sick I was pressured to say yes (well he wasn't twisting my arm but there was pressure.. i forgot to mention all the talking and everything was online, again another sign of shyness stare ) So yeah after that, I picked out his bad qualities I didn't like and soon felt like avoiding him until he got sick of it and I broke up with him... also I felt like he wouldn't open up to me even though I tried, I would say everything to him and he wouldn't share his life with me except for a sentence or too...
Well that started from august 20 something and ended a week before 2 months.
Well now I like Mg (stands for mystery guy, a nickname I came up with so I could talk about him at school) who happens to be Dep's friend, and also who Dep hated last year because of something in year 6 neutral
yeah well anyway, I like Mg and I'm in the stage of 'chasing but not chasing' and he seems much more my type than Dep, he talks to me in public at least and seems more at ease with it, I'm still trying to see if he acts nervous around me. Well yeah I'm trying to see the signs of if he likes me.. I've seen him look at me and glance away, and since the summer holidays (it's summer here folks, I'm in Australia!) he's talked to me on msn every day, which is kind of a scary repeat from dep..
Soo yeah, any comments? Any one else been through this?
sweatdrop sweatdrop sweatdrop Yes this is yet another topic on the fact of "does he like me?" and "he won't go away!!!" I'm pretty sure I'm not trying to get advice (yeah I'm another one of those teenagers who are worrying and second-thoughts or in other words confused) but yeah, I want to tell my story and see if anyone else has gone through this or anything similar..
Okay I'll start off with ... umm, I don't want to say his name so lets call him Dep for depressed (sorry to Johnny Dep lovers xd )
So here I am at high school, with people I've never said "hi" to in my classes and then I see a boy, who I felt attracted to. Well I'm a type of girl who sits back and chases someone without moving sweatdrop it's dumb I know but the chase is always more fun than afterwards neutral for me anyways..
So yeah I spent months liking him and then I found his msn addy. Naturally I wanted to know what his personality was like so I added him and talked to him..Dep was nice and funny so then I knew I really liked him.
But then months later, when we finally started going out, it sucked. It was actually painful to me, he was too shy, meaning he didn't want to hold my hand in public and when we STARTED going out, straight after he said yes (yeah he was too shy to even ask me even though I said i liked him) he said he loved me. It made me feel sick I was pressured to say yes (well he wasn't twisting my arm but there was pressure.. i forgot to mention all the talking and everything was online, again another sign of shyness stare ) So yeah after that, I picked out his bad qualities I didn't like and soon felt like avoiding him until he got sick of it and I broke up with him... also I felt like he wouldn't open up to me even though I tried, I would say everything to him and he wouldn't share his life with me except for a sentence or too...
Well that started from august 20 something and ended a week before 2 months.
Well now I like Mg (stands for mystery guy, a nickname I came up with so I could talk about him at school) who happens to be Dep's friend, and also who Dep hated last year because of something in year 6 neutral
yeah well anyway, I like Mg and I'm in the stage of 'chasing but not chasing' and he seems much more my type than Dep, he talks to me in public at least and seems more at ease with it, I'm still trying to see if he acts nervous around me. Well yeah I'm trying to see the signs of if he likes me.. I've seen him look at me and glance away, and since the summer holidays (it's summer here folks, I'm in Australia!) he's talked to me on msn every day, which is kind of a scary repeat from dep..
Soo yeah, any comments? Any one else been through this?
