Darth Kosher
I've met this AMAZING man. As of recent, we've dabbled with the idea of to leave our families...

His next option, which he has an AMAZING job offer, in Georgia... he'd be willing to work and easily could support EVERYTHING. I wouldn't allow that, and it'd be a dramatic change, but it'd be a nice, clean start for both of us. I just don't know.

I say go to georgia.... You can always find Job there afterall and you will have time to find the perfect one since he will be making enough for you to not feel rushed.
Plus then both of you are moving and sacrificing so no one feels they gave up more than the other.