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Our mission in this thread is to educate, discuss and learn more about being a Muslim, no matter what country you are in, what gender you are, or your age! Our new affiliated guild is up & running for in depth discussion which gets lost on the thread ^^ Make sure to check it out~


Want to ask questions on Arabic? Br. Kimyanji has a thread where he takes questions on Arabic! He is fluent in at least Arabic and English, may Allah (swt) reward him! CLICK HERE!




~ Qur'an Quotes ~

"It is He Who created from a single person, and made his mate of like nature in order that he might dwell with her – in love"
Chapter 7, Verse 189



"Allah is with those who restrain themselves.""
Chapter 16, Verse 128



"And the servants of Allah... are those who walked on the earth in humility, and when the ignorant address them, they say peace"
Chapter 25, Verse 63



"We will show them our proofs in the horizons, and within themselves, until they realize that this is the truth. Is your Lord not sufficient as a witness of all things?"
Chapter 41, Verse 53





If you would like me to include your favourite Qur'an quote send me a PM or post on the thread :3



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* Are Muslims really crazy terrorists as we see in the Media??

We're not, hate has no religion. Any terrorists who say they are killing for the sake of Allah are very misguided. Normal Muslims are not taught to hate. Some Muslims do not approve of the West, and need people to carry out their dirty deeds.

They groom kids, the ones that crave to be accepted, from a young age poisoning their mind with lies. Think of it like a cult. For every religion, there is probably some crazy people making it look bad. Eg, Shirley Phelps and those crazies for Christianity.


* Are Muslim women who wear head scarves (khimars) oppressed?

In the West, Muslim women are not required to wear the headscarf . It's all about modesty, if you feel you dress modestly, then that will suffice. Some women DO wear headscarves, they are Muhajaba's (common slang term: Hijabis). And it is of choice. Often they feel empowered when wearing it, since they are judged on what is inside, not outside. It is something to be proud of :3

In the Middle East, some countries force ALL women to wear a headscarf. I do not agree with it, yet since i live in America, nothing i can really do about it...

- Also, some women wear Burkas, Jilbabs, or a face veil (niqabs) these cover from head to toe. They are also for the sake of modesty, also optional. -


* Why do you put acronyms by Allah and Jesus, and Mohammad's name?


Someone has asked me this via PM and i am quite glad they asked. Muslims, when typing or writing, often put acronyms to show respect to the prophets and more glory to Allah. Not ALL Muslims do this, but some (including me and most people in this thread) do type it.

PBUH or SAWS: PBUH is 'peace be upon him', SAWS is 'salla Allah alihy wa sallam'
They both mean the same thing, and are used after the Prophets names. A lot of people also SAY these phrases when speaking.

SWT: This is used when speaking of Allah, it stands for 'Subhana wa t'ala' which is Arabic for 'Glorified and Exalted is He'


* When do Muslims pray? And what are the names?


Prayer is performed five times a day:
Dawn - Fajr
Noon - Dhuhr
Afternoon - Asr
Sunset - Maghrib
Nightfall - Isha'a

And we go to Mosque whenever really, but mainly on Fridays.

* Who can convert to Islam?

Anyone can convert to Islam. A Muslim is a person who submits to the will of God, regardless of their skin colour, nationality or religious background. Becoming a Muslim is a simple and easy, it also has no pre-requisites. A person may convert in privacy, or they may do so in the presence of others.

As long as you have the full conviction in your heart that Islam is the true religion of God, then, all a person needs to do is recite the “Shahadda”, the testimony of faith. The Shahadda is the first and most important of the five pillars of Islam.

With the recitation of this and whole-hearted belief, a person is then considered a Muslim.

What are the common elements of a Muslim marriage?

Of course each country's culture will effect how a marriage is, but in this answer we'll examine the traditional Middle Eastern/East Asian wedding. It usually lasts about 3 days.

Mehndi - This is a henna ceremony, henna looks similar to a tattoo and does not last very long. It can be done anywhere on the body, hands & feet are most common.

Nikah - This is a marriage agreement and quite a serious time, between the bride and the groom. It is not uncommon to have both people sign a contract (called nikaahnaama). On the day, the older members of the two families sit together and decide the amount of the nuptial gift (called Mehar). This an amount of money given by the groom`s family to the bride.

Walima - This is the reception, both friends & family are invited. There is food provided, either by the guests or by the bride & groom themselves. This is for fun and enjoyment, celebrating the new union.

((This answer are a mix of answers from myself, bilqisnargis, Flammable, and Funny Yummy Cupcake))

Is music considered a haram?

This has been asked 3 times i believe. And even though none of us are scholars, it has been said each time that no it is not a haram. Which is why we love beautiful music and beautiful Nasheeds. And of course as pointed out by sister Bilqisnargis, music dos not compare to the beauty of Qur'an!

And when the Quran is recited it's the most beautiful sound and it softens the heart.
An example of the Quran's ability:

Say (O Muhammad SAW to them): "Believe in it (the Qur'ân) or do not believe (in it). Verily! Those who were given knowledge before it (the Jews and the Christians like 'Abdullâh bin Salâm and Salmân Al-Farisî), when it is recited to them, fall down on their faces in humble prostration." (Al-Isra 17:107)

Allâh has sent down the best statement, a Book (this Qur'ân), its parts resembling each other in goodness and truth, oft-repeated. The skins of those who fear their Lord shiver from it (when they recite it or hear it). Then their skin and their heart soften to the remembrance of Allâh. That is the guidance of Allâh. He Guides therewith whom He pleases and whomever Allâh sends astray, for him there is no guide. (Az-Zumar 39:23)






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1) Shahadah - This is the declaration of Allah (swt) and one of the 5 pillars, this is said daily. Also, when a non-Muslim converts to Islam, they testify publicly:

'La ilaha illa al-Lah, Muhammadun rasulu l-Lah'
'There is no god but God, Muhammad is the Messenger of God'


2) Halal - This is something permissible in Islam (opposite of Haraam)

3) Haraam - Arabic word for 'forbidden' and this relates to Islam as well. Examples of haraams are: adultry, abuse, pork, and alcohol. (Opposite of Halal)


4) Mecca - Also known by 'Makkah' is location in Saudi Arabia, and most importantly the Holy Land and the direction in which Muslims pray to and make a 'hajj' to. Non-Muslims are not permitted to enter Mecca by Saudi law.


5) Hajj - In Islam this is the pilgrimage to Mecca, and the 5th pillar of Islam. All Muslims who are financially able, and able-bodied are encouraged to do this at least once. This shows hte submission to Allah (swt).


6) Mosque - This is a place for salat (prayer) for Muslims, many people also call it by its Arabic name, masjid.

7) Burqa - This is an all enveloping piece of clothing, and the eyes are covered by a light cloth.

8 ) Niqab - Face veil with eyes showing.

9) Muntaqaba - Woman who wears niqab

10) Hijab - A combination of a headscaf and modest dress (such as arms, legs & neck covered.) The headscarf comes in a variety of lengths and styles, commons names of some types are: khimar, al-amira, or shayla.

11) Muhajaba - Woman who wears hijab (slang term: Hijabi).

If you are having trouble visualizing, all the clothing terms, this image is most helpful. I have whited out the faces.


12) Ramadan - This is the month of fasting, it falls on the ninth month of the Islamic calendar (lunar). But some people may be excluded from fasting (not eating from dawn to night), like the very elderly, pregnant women, or other wise very ill people to whom fasting could be detrimental to their health.

14) Iftar - This is the meal eaten at sunset, breaking the fast in Ramadan.

15) Fard - A religious duty, or an obligatory action. Example: Praying 5 times a day is fard.

16) Jummah - Friday prayer at the Masjid (mosque)


 
     
 
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* Shahadda

This is the profession of faith, as mentioned in 'terms'

* Salah / Salat


This simply means, prayer.

* Zakah


This is charity. There is no set limit, but most Muslims pay about 2.5% of their yearly income to the needy.

And not jsut to local Masjids to assist the deen to grow, it can be given to mainstream charities or individual people.


* Saum

This is hte fasting during Ramadan, fasting is when One does not eat or drink anything from dawn until dusk, when night comes Muslims make break fast and eat.

Although, there are exceptions to the rule. If a female is pregnant, a woman is menstruating, or a person is very ill, they may eat during Ramadan.

* Hajj

This is the pilgrimage to Mecca, also mentioned in terms. All Muslims who are financially able and in good health must visit Mecca, the Holy city in Saudi Arabia. Although, non-Muslims are not permitted to enter the city of Mecca, by Saudi law.

     
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Thanks to Pale Kids Mafia for helping me compile this list!



Allahu Alum - God knows best

Alhamdulillah - Praise God

Assalamu Alaykum - Peace be upon you

Wa Alaykum Saalam - And peace be upon you

Bsmillah - In the name of God

Astaghfir Allah - God, forgive me

Allahu Akbar - God is the greatest

Insha'Allah - God willing

Masha'Allah - This is God's will (when praising something)

Ya Allah - Oh God

Mubarak - May God bless you

Sall-Allahu aleyhi wa salam - God, bless him and grant him peace

JazakAllah khair - May God reward you

Aoothoo billahi meen ash-shaytan ar-rajeem - I seek God's protection from satan the accursed

Ameen - Please accept

Masalama - With peace

Wallah - I swear to God (not used often)

Fisabilillah - For the Sake of God

Subhan' Allah - Glory be to God

 
     
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Please note, this is not a debate topic on weather God (swt) exists or if Mohammad (pbuh) is really a prophet. This is about being a Muslim, and the lifestyle which comes with it. If you dont think its a lifestyle, do what we do for a couple days and then tell me that.

And don't tell me to put this in the M&R in the ED, this is purely about the Lifestyle of Muslims, what we do each day, how sometimes Muslim traditions come in the way of the Western life...etc.



 
     
 
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