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its the opposite, he says i should stare less at other women. Hey if your ta ta's are all out there and they are nice, i will look!

He doesnt look at other women at all unless i point someone out for looking nice/looking terribad

Bloodsucker

He doesn't do it. At all.
sometimes I'll mention a beautiful girl that just walked by, and he'll just look at me confused. He doesn't pay attention to the people around us.
if he did look, I wouldn't be mad. Just would want him to be subtle and not obnoxious about it and not something that happens every single time we go out.
No. It would be a problem if he straight up began interacting, though.

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So the girl I'm seeing has no prob with me watching porn, but if she catches me staring at some girl with skin tight yoga pants on she flips. I don't get it.


God bless the man who created yoga pants.
nope. I tend to point out what he refers to as "fat a**". he is in a relationship...not dead. If it is open and we are both aware...what is the issue?

Fashionable Shopper

It doesn't occur to me to look at other dudes and comments. My fiance likes to poke fun and point out every hot girl walking down the street just for my reaction, lol. I told him I'm going to start pointing out every hot guy haha. ....then I forget. stressed
Lol at all the girls in here going "I don't care, I'm totally cool with it, haha, I'm not crazy! *really*. He's free to do whatever he wants, really, he totally is! SEE HOW LAID BACK I AM"

******** that. That b***h's eyes better be only for me.
idgaf












on the real i prob check out more a** than he does
/kanyeshrug




i love beautiful women
god bless em

Aged Girl

No, not really.
:/

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My mom and aunt was a stripper.

Your mom and your aunt are the same person?



This is why proper grammar usage is sometimes important.

"My mom and aunt were strippers."

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no considering im usually checking her out too lol

Questionable Prophet

Taking a quick look and oggling are different.
Like that's disrespectful to me, to her, and to my ancestors.

Bashful Bookworm


Straight up staring? I'd give him a shove and tell him to be more respectful about it.
But the fact that he's checking someone out? We both do it, and we'll even give each other a nudge and say who we're looking at.

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Oh look at all these people, "its okay to look! blah blah blah" F that! I helped my bf get over his porn problem and he doesn't need to look at other women since he has me.

Fashionable Hunter

My boyfriend isn't dumb enough to get caught blatantly staring. Probably because he's not 15.

Profitable Gekko

Holy insecurity projection batman...I think this thread is full of a bunch of people who don't know how to cope with the idea that a person doesn't stop being attracted to other people when in a relationship. That being said it is extremely natural for your eyes to float towards what is aesthetically pleasing or interesting to them, and stopping that is a chore that no relationship is worth in the long run.

To the women who are going "hurr durr no he shud only luk at me." You're projecting your jealousy and insecurities onto your boyfriend and trying to control him. He shouldn't be gawking unless you're both into that sort of thing, and he shouldn't be pointing out EVERY person for their features, because yes that will eventually breed insecurity in almost anyone. But that being said trying to control what he can and can't look at is the other side of the extreme and just stupid. That's sight crime...if that's even a term...where you're pegging him for potentially looking in the direction of an attractive girl and getting on him for it? Yeah I can tell your relationships are very fulfilling and full of trust.

The only people who feel like looking at another person is wrong when it's only looking, are immature or ignorant...or repressed...and repressed people tend to be that way because someone pounded super dumb ideas into their heads.

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