@ Rach: She is spoiled. I don't get it. She lives in her own little world where money falls from the sky and she gets everything she wants. I don't know how she turned out that way, cause we definitely weren't given things very often as kids. She's mean and cold and selfish. She WILL be there for you if you need her... but then when something happens and you make her mad she'll throw it back in your face. That kind of thing. She's always been that way, and probably always will be. She looks down on my other sister and I because we have made mistakes, and she never has (or at least none that became public). She acts like she's perfect because in her eyes, she is. And it seems like, to her, she has the right to be mean to people that aren't perfect because that means she's better than them, or something. Normally I just... ignore it, nod my head, smile... but lately, probably thanks to pregnancy, I just can't STAND the girl. And oh boy, when you piss her off... she will go out of her way to be awkward and rude. I'm dreading Aden's birthday party next weekend cause she's sure to be a major delight.
I'm SO FRUSTRATED. Aden's dad is trying to trade all these weekends with us. Pretty much all of April is now his. It's fine, because there are a couple weekends down the line that we either can't take Aden or we need him when his dad has him. We're usually able to work something out. But all of April? Really? We have him next weekend for his birthday, and then his dad wants him at the end of March and then for April. So. Okay. When are we going to tell Aden he's going to be a big brother?? I didn't want to do it his birthday weekend, cause I didn't want to make it about that. We were gonna tell him the weekend of the 21st. But now his dad is taking him for some thing that weekend. I'm announcing it on fb on April 1. Because that's funny. So my family will see it. I haven't told them yet because I didn't want them to tell Aden before we did. So now they'll see it first and probably spoil it. Maybe not my parents, but one of my sisters, or his dad will find out and say something... anything could happen. Or, will happen, I'm sure of it. Augh!!! His dad is giving us the weekend of April 10, but chances are he'll find out from someone else by then. The end of March was like the PERFECT time to tell him. Not too early, after his birthday, before we tell everyone else.... ugh!! Now we either just hope no one else tells him, or we do it his birthday weekend. Of COURSE my plans would get spoiled!!!