is it really that bad if...

[Yurako]

I dont think its a bad thing.

For the looooongest time i was never into make up. Im in my first year of college and the only make up i wear is consealer. Just to hind thoes really red bumps.

Nothing else really.


As for teh crushes, perhaps you haven't found someone you can really connect with yet. Its a good thing in a way. Maybe subconsincely it means you know what you want ;D

[Walegrin]

What is really bad is your spelling. Learn to use the E key.

[GogglesGirl]

It's not bad. I don't wear make up at all, and I probably never will.

[kyubimaster]

its not bad if youre a lesbian

[Murasaki_Wolf]

percocet princess

yeah, that's certainly not normal.

not wearing makeup isn't a big deal, but not caring about how you look is. this shows that you DO NOT CARE ABOUT YOURSELF. those who do not care about their appearance reveal that they do not care about themselves to lose that extra ten minutes of sleep to actually do their hair and makeup and pick out a nice outfit. if you can't even care about yourself, others are going to think that you aren't gong to make the effort to care about them either. this can effect relationships in a very damaging way--both romantic and platonic.

you don't necessarily have to wear makeup (although it does improve everyone's features if worn right), but you do need to look presentable. nice, clean hair, an attractive outfit, etc.


it's also unusual that you have not had a crush at 16. this seems to say that you are also so petrified of caring about other people that you won't allow yourself to even acknowledge a crush. again, this ties back to not caring about yourself.



all and all, this probably means you have low self esteem to an extreme point.





it sounds like you need to see a therapist and talk about these feelings--they can access the problem and recommend treatment better than anyone on gaia. but yes, i would definitely say that something is majorly off.

i do not have really low self esteem. i'm actually really confident and couldnt care less about what people say to me. i just found it weird that when i was talking to a few people the past few days it seemed they all started to talk to me about how i dont roll with the crowd. i'm myself and no one can change me.

[silvershadowedwings]

It's normal, at least to me, since I am one of those girls you just described