is it really that bad if...

[Murasaki_Wolf]

is it unusual if a girl doesnt wear make-up or care about their appearence, have crushes on people, to have never liked anyone in a romantic sort of way and to never have had a boyfriend and theyre 16 years old?

is it really that bad if a girl is like this?

i was wondering if anyone has an opinion on this?

[Neamhurchoid]

The very thing you strive for ...

It doesn't fit in with society, but it doesn't mean she's weird. Mayeb she has had crushes, but hasn't told anyone because she feels embarrassed about it.

If it's you ... then it's not weird.

... is the thing that makes you blind

[taliban insurgency]

nope.

[Blitzkrieg Beauty]

It's have.

And, no, that's completely normal for some girls. You'll probably find at least a few girls exactly like that in every high school.

[Shima Shinji]

It just says that you don't care about your appearance at all.

Otherwise you're fine.

[Kaiiea]

I'll say that it IS unusual, but not bad.

Personally, I was a tomboy longer than all the other girls at my middle school. I think I looked more grunge than anything in junior high. Now I am 21 and dress very feminine...skirts, heels, the works...and I have a huge fascination with makeup. I still wear boy clothes every once in awhile and my most loved hobby is console gaming.

My point is, there is the possibility for natural change. If there is some underlying bad reason why you do those things, then sure it could be bad.

[Violet Fog]

nope, that's fine. Everyone is different. I think when you get in a public school situation people feel the need to conform, so you might think you're really different from the 'normal' girls, but it's more natural to be different. Everyone goes at their own pace.

[Bubbly Personality]

We're in the Nazi killin' business

Haha, I was getting creeped out when I was reading that because it sounds too much like me.
I wouldn't say it's unusual or weird, I'd say it's more rare than anything.
I personally don't want to go out with anybody until I'm 16 is because guys that are my age are just pigs and I don't really want to waste my time worrying about them or getting pressured into doing stuff I don't want to do at a young age like mine,
catch my drift?
Btw, I personally don't like make up, and I hardly ever wear it so... yeah, like I said before, rare.

And businesses are boomin!

[Chieao]

i don't find it unusual. my best friend is a bit like that.

[x Tian-shi Mika x]

I;ve seen weirder.

[Helena-Feileacan-]

unusual but not bad.

[SimplyABreeze]

I don't care about make-up,myself..although i do fuss about looking CLEAN and PRESENTABLE..it's not weird..

look at this way..

do you want to look clean and tidy Or gorgeous and slutty?

[ChaosRocket]

I see nothing wrong with this. To me, makeup is ugly...it's also shallow, expensive, a waste of time, and pretty sexist since girls are always expected to wear it while guys aren't. I'm against it entirely, I would never wear makeup and I'm well into adulthood. I never stopped being a tomboy; I rarely wear anything other than sweat pants and loose T-shirts. I just wear what feels comfortable, and what I like, I couldn't care less what other people think of my appearance. Though I differ from you in the way that I do like guys and always have, I first started having boyfriends in kindergarten and I don't have any trouble getting guys, regardless of how I dress and my lack of makeup. But if you don't have an interest in romance then that's fine. Some people get interested later than others. Some people turn out to be asexual and never get interested. It's rare but there's nothing wrong with it.

[Dale_Jr_Fan88]

Murasaki_Wolf

is it unusual if a girl doesnt wear make-up or care about their appearence, hav crushes on people, to hav never liked anyone in a romantic sort of way and to never hav had a boyfriend and theyre 16 years old?

is it really that bad if a girl is like this?

i was wondering if anyone has an opinion on this?

It's not bad. You just prefer to worry about other things.

[Plushie Heartless]

Nope, not bad.
I don't even think it's that rare, people mature at different rates.
Not saying that you'll mature into liking makeup, that's optional, but the whole crush business
should settle itself eventually...unless you're asexual, which is okay too. c: