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Amythe the Mammoth
Alaois
Leprechaun_Sean
Is it? Or is it just suspicious?
As you were, I was



HOW TO DATE A MINOR

1. It is not a good idea to date a minor.
2. Even if you say you are not going to have sex, you may end up doing it anyway.
3. Minors are immature and that is why they are not legal adults. Once you have had sex with them, they can report it and you are in big trouble.
4. Parents cannot give consent for their minor child to have sex with an adult.
5. It does not matter if the minor "seduced" you, or if you thought he/she seduced you.
6. For your own safety, and to avoid corrupting a CHILD, please seek out relationships with other adults.

In summary, do not date a minor. In other words, date adults. You can also wait for the minor child to grow up
As I am, you will be
Touching the butt is a felony in most states, too. So, it's not just sex.

EDIT: And they don't need evidence to arrest you. If her father suspects you of touching her butt, he can have you arrested and keep you in the legal system for weeks.

Shitty system? You know it.
As you were, I was



quite

Just like a girl can say you slept with her and even if you didn't, there is still a chance you can get in trouble.

I had a friend that 'raped' a younger girl but really didn't. Even though he was cleared of all charges, he still had to register as a sex offender...now he cannot be an elementary school teacher like he wanted too...
As I am, you will be
Le Armand
Amythe the Mammoth
Le Armand
Amythe the Mammoth
It's illegal to do anything passed first base with a minor.

It's weird to date a minor unless it's like.... 17/15.


So would you say someone who is perhaps 19 dating someone who is like 16 is weird? No reason why I ask really.
emo </caught>


Bwahahaha.
[You didn't answer the question.]
19/16 isn't much different than 17/15. In fact, the percent difference between the two is only ((15 / 17) - (16 / 19)) / (15 / 17) = 4.56140351% So, I think that's still within the normal range.

I'd say when you start getting into 5 year differences if you're under 23, then it gets to be a bit weird. Even 10 year differences in your 30s is a little off to me.
Alaois
Amythe the Mammoth
Alaois
Leprechaun_Sean
Is it? Or is it just suspicious?
As you were, I was



HOW TO DATE A MINOR

1. It is not a good idea to date a minor.
2. Even if you say you are not going to have sex, you may end up doing it anyway.
3. Minors are immature and that is why they are not legal adults. Once you have had sex with them, they can report it and you are in big trouble.
4. Parents cannot give consent for their minor child to have sex with an adult.
5. It does not matter if the minor "seduced" you, or if you thought he/she seduced you.
6. For your own safety, and to avoid corrupting a CHILD, please seek out relationships with other adults.

In summary, do not date a minor. In other words, date adults. You can also wait for the minor child to grow up
As I am, you will be
Touching the butt is a felony in most states, too. So, it's not just sex.

EDIT: And they don't need evidence to arrest you. If her father suspects you of touching her butt, he can have you arrested and keep you in the legal system for weeks.

Shitty system? You know it.
As you were, I was



quite

Just like a girl can say you slept with her and even if you didn't, there is still a chance you can get in trouble.

I had a friend that 'raped' a younger girl but really didn't. Even though he was cleared of all charges, he still had to register as a sex offender...now he cannot be an elementary school teacher like he wanted too...
As I am, you will be
But, the problem is... there is no fix to this system. What do you want, real proof? Then you might be ******** over someone who got raped and setting a real rapist free. I guess their reasoning is that the amount of cases that are real with very little evidence far outweighs the fake cases with very little evidence.

Yeah. Shitty system.
Amythe the Mammoth
Alaois
Amythe the Mammoth
Alaois
Leprechaun_Sean
Is it? Or is it just suspicious?
As you were, I was



HOW TO DATE A MINOR

1. It is not a good idea to date a minor.
2. Even if you say you are not going to have sex, you may end up doing it anyway.
3. Minors are immature and that is why they are not legal adults. Once you have had sex with them, they can report it and you are in big trouble.
4. Parents cannot give consent for their minor child to have sex with an adult.
5. It does not matter if the minor "seduced" you, or if you thought he/she seduced you.
6. For your own safety, and to avoid corrupting a CHILD, please seek out relationships with other adults.

In summary, do not date a minor. In other words, date adults. You can also wait for the minor child to grow up
As I am, you will be
Touching the butt is a felony in most states, too. So, it's not just sex.

EDIT: And they don't need evidence to arrest you. If her father suspects you of touching her butt, he can have you arrested and keep you in the legal system for weeks.

Shitty system? You know it.
As you were, I was



quite

Just like a girl can say you slept with her and even if you didn't, there is still a chance you can get in trouble.

I had a friend that 'raped' a younger girl but really didn't. Even though he was cleared of all charges, he still had to register as a sex offender...now he cannot be an elementary school teacher like he wanted too...
As I am, you will be
But, the problem is... there is no fix to this system. What do you want, real proof? Then you might be ******** over someone who got raped and setting a real rapist free. I guess their reasoning is that the amount of cases that are real with very little evidence far outweighs the fake cases with very little evidence.

Yeah. Shitty system.
As you were, I was



exactly, you cannot fix or change the way the sex laws work. Evidence plays a big part, but with rape and child molestation/statutory rape (even if it is consensual) it is hard sometimes to provide evidence since it may takes days if not weeks/months/or years for the person to come forward...

-shakes his head-

Why I always say...stay away from minors unless you are within 3 years of their age and do not sleep with them until they're at least 17
As I am, you will be
Amythe the Mammoth
Le Armand
Amythe the Mammoth
Le Armand
Amythe the Mammoth
It's illegal to do anything passed first base with a minor.

It's weird to date a minor unless it's like.... 17/15.


So would you say someone who is perhaps 19 dating someone who is like 16 is weird? No reason why I ask really.
emo </caught>


Bwahahaha.
[You didn't answer the question.]
19/16 isn't much different than 17/15. In fact, the percent difference between the two is only ((15 / 17) - (16 / 19)) / (15 / 17) = 4.56140351% So, I think that's still within the normal range.

I'd say when you start getting into 5 year differences if you're under 23, then it gets to be a bit weird. Even 10 year differences in your 30s is a little off to me.


I dunno. Someone who is 16 is either a sophomore or junior in high school, and at 19 you're either a freshman or sophomore in college [or not in college], which, to me at least, seems like you'd be in very different stages in life, and, in general, I'd think that would lead to different levels of maturity. You 2 would be an exception because you're both very immature. My excuse anyway.

But maybe that's because at the moment the idea of college is most likely very exaggerated in my mind. I have a deathly fear of it.
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Alaois
Leprechaun_Sean
Is it? Or is it just suspicious?
As you were, I was



HOW TO DATE A MINOR

1. It is not a good idea to date a minor.
2. Even if you say you are not going to have sex, you may end up doing it anyway.
3. Minors are immature and that is why they are not legal adults. Once you have had sex with them, they can report it and you are in big trouble.
4. Parents cannot give consent for their minor child to have sex with an adult.
5. It does not matter if the minor "seduced" you, or if you thought he/she seduced you.
6. For your own safety, and to avoid corrupting a CHILD, please seek out relationships with other adults.

In summary, do not date a minor. In other words, date adults. You can also wait for the minor child to grow up
As I am, you will be
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Its only weird if you are 18+ dating a 13 year old but if its like 16 year old dating an 18 or 19 year old it isn't too bad.

Depends on the age difference between the two - which was already said. xD;
If you’re not a minor YES, do the words stagatory rape mean anything to you?
Le Armand
Amythe the Mammoth
Le Armand
Amythe the Mammoth
Le Armand
Amythe the Mammoth
It's illegal to do anything passed first base with a minor.

It's weird to date a minor unless it's like.... 17/15.


So would you say someone who is perhaps 19 dating someone who is like 16 is weird? No reason why I ask really.
emo </caught>


Bwahahaha.
[You didn't answer the question.]
19/16 isn't much different than 17/15. In fact, the percent difference between the two is only ((15 / 17) - (16 / 19)) / (15 / 17) = 4.56140351% So, I think that's still within the normal range.

I'd say when you start getting into 5 year differences if you're under 23, then it gets to be a bit weird. Even 10 year differences in your 30s is a little off to me.


I dunno. Someone who is 16 is either a sophomore or junior in high school, and at 19 you're either a freshman or sophomore in college [or not in college], which, to me at least, seems like you'd be in very different stages in life, and, in general, I'd think that would lead to different levels of maturity. You 2 would be an exception because you're both very immature. My excuse anyway.

But maybe that's because at the moment the idea of college is most likely very exaggerated in my mind. I have a deathly fear of it.
We are both a little immature.

If I was dating someone else in college, honestly I'd get so bored of it. It's sort of counter-intuitive probably, but I get enough of college without needing it in my romantic life. If I was dating someone my own age, it'd just be sex and bitching about classes in between. No thanks :/

And maybe I am a little bit of a *****? I dated a freshman when I was a senior and got arrested for it once already, you'd think I would have learned my lesson by now. But nope. Maybe I have the mind of a seven year old, maybe it's something about pseudo-innocence. Or maybe I'm just unlucky, finding people I really connect with and who I'm really attracted to, consistently three years younger than me. Idiocy or immaturity, either way you look at it I'm probably not making the best decisions. But what's life without error?
Lian_1994
That depends of the age difference. But if it was 17/15 or 18/15 or 19/16 then It wouldnt be so bad

I still think that's weird.
SecondHand
If you’re not a minor YES, do the words stagatory rape mean anything to you?
Actually even if you're still a minor, it's still against the law. Weird, no?
Its ok if mom and dad of the minor approve I think but I still wouldn't go there because they can turn around at any timje and say they didn't and it was rape
Dating? No.
Sex, oral sex, hand sex, mutual masturbation, groping, being naked in front of each other, naked photos, grinding, and anything else sexual in nature? Yes.

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