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What's the best way to tell someone you're just starting to date - that you're a webcam model.


Or do I just not.

Hmmm
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Just tell him straight up. Or hide it from him, FOREVER.
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Hide it, so about ten months down the line when he finds out s**t will hit the fan!
Why do you call it "modelling" though? It's more like porn.
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Just be all "So some funny info about myself.."
And do it sooner than later so you don't waste your or their time.
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What's the best way to tell someone you're just starting to date - that you're a webcam model.


Or do I just not.

Hmmm


Lol, goodluck with that. As soon as he knows you're a webcam model he's gonna think you're a slut and then lose interest entirely.
What exactly is a "Webcam Model"?
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Why do you call it "modelling" though? It's more like porn.


I think porn would mean that its high quality and produced by someone. Blah, I'm tired.

Because it's the politically correct term for it.
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What's the best way to tell someone you're just starting to date - that you're a webcam model.


Or do I just not.

Hmmm


Lol, goodluck with that. As soon as he knows you're a webcam model he's gonna think you're a slut and then lose interest entirely.


Eh I have a lot of friends that know, and don't really care.
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Just tell him straight up. Or hide it from him, FOREVER.


I mean. Is it even that big of a deal?

To me. No.

To others. I don't know
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What's the best way to tell someone you're just starting to date - that you're a webcam model.


Or do I just not.

Hmmm


Lol, goodluck with that. As soon as he knows you're a webcam model he's gonna think you're a slut and then lose interest entirely.


Eh I have a lot of friends that know, and don't really care.


That's because they aren't dating you. They're your friends, that's very different.

There's a reason why we friend-zone some people and don't friend zone others.

I would be fine with being a friend with a woman who slept with 9 quadrillion people, but I wouldn't date somebody like that.
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Just tell him straight up. Or hide it from him, FOREVER.


I mean. Is it even that big of a deal?

To me. No.

To others. I don't know
I don't think its a big deal. But I know people who would think of it as a huge deal.
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What's the best way to tell someone you're just starting to date - that you're a webcam model.


Or do I just not.

Hmmm


Lol, goodluck with that. As soon as he knows you're a webcam model he's gonna think you're a slut and then lose interest entirely.


Eh I have a lot of friends that know, and don't really care.


That's because they aren't dating you. They're your friends, that's very different.

There's a reason why we friend-zone some people and don't friend zone others.

I would be fine with being a friend with a woman who slept with 9 quadrillion people, but I wouldn't date somebody like that.


I've only slept with like 8 people.

I think showing off my body is different from sleeping with people.
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What's the best way to tell someone you're just starting to date - that you're a webcam model.


Or do I just not.

Hmmm


Lol, goodluck with that. As soon as he knows you're a webcam model he's gonna think you're a slut and then lose interest entirely.


Eh I have a lot of friends that know, and don't really care.


That's because they aren't dating you. They're your friends, that's very different.

There's a reason why we friend-zone some people and don't friend zone others.

I would be fine with being a friend with a woman who slept with 9 quadrillion people, but I wouldn't date somebody like that.


I've only slept with like 8 people.

I think showing off my body is different from sleeping with people.


I think making that distinction is appropriate, but other people may not see much of a difference.

I mean I know you're a webcam model and I don't think that's as taboo as a stripper (even though technically speaking they're the exact same thing) but can you imagine most men being interested in dating a stripper even if she hasn't slept with a lot of guys? Probably not, they probably would be turned off by the mere fact that she's a stripper, the amount of guys she sleeps with doesn't really seem to matter if she's a stripper.

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