Mine was a 3 year battle, and it was worse because it was in the family.
And he only went to jail for like a couple of months before they let him out on parole.
And from the hints I've been picking up,
He's still abusing my mother and brother.
I understand the wishing death on someone in such situations..
It's early yet to decide, but since you don't seem to have any interest in clarifying, I've gotta say that you seem kind of like a pretty shitty person, wishing death on people. Maybe don't be shitty.