help with my goth gf (mature plz)

[pooka91 v2]

my gf is goth and were fighting...i really love her so i dont wanna lose her.....what can i do to keep her?
note:she's very pissed at me

[Julaeto]

It'd help to know what the fight was about, what your standpoints are, and what led to the fight taking place.

[MadeInThe90s]

Maybe because you refer to her as your 'goth gf'.
Sort that out and THEN try and have a mature conversation with her and sort it out that way.

[libreg]

I love the juicy details you're giving us.

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What does it matter she's goth?

[JaddziaDax]

I don't think that the fact she is goth has anything to do with your fight... unless you don't accept her for the goth she is.

[TriumphantChaos]

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What does it matter she's goth?

^ My question.

I can't figure out if you think you're showing off by having a goth girlfriend, or if you actually refer to her as that to others instead of, you know, her name.

As others said - that might be why you're fighting.

[ShepardCommander]

talk2hand I dn't understand why we need to know that she's "goth".
I suppose you're a catch if your goth these days?

[Tarrien]

You could always try to talk things out calmly.. apologies and whatnot.

but as already said, I don't understand the point of pointing out that she's goth...

[xXEmo_boys_are_loveXx]

be kind and gentle. make her trust you. dont do anything that you know she will be upset by.

[miss romanian]

What does her being goth have to do with it?

[Deadie Bear]

As everyone else has said, what does being "goth" have anything to do with it? When you say goth, all you're causing is people to generalize what her personality is and picture what she wears. You're putting a label on her and assuming that when we hear the term goth we know exactly who she is.

Not to mention, no one can really give steady advice if we don't know what the problem actually is.

[Omnija]

pm me withthe reason why she's pissed? and give me the info on the situation and i can help u i used to ahve a goth g'f a longtime ago
and all u people are stupid he refers to her as goth 1 cuz he'd rather not use her name and 2 real goth gurls become goth because of either a trauma in there life or cuz ssomethng effected them not like half the world who r like emo's decide to be emo cuz they think it;s fun real goth gurls become goth now wanetd to be

[TiGra_M]

wots her being goth got to do with anything?

[Tute Sweet]

The irony of the title made me lol.