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WHOA NEW POLL. Are you doing Day of Silence and/or Ally Week?

Yes, I am doing both. 0.1 10.0% [ 11 ]
I'm doing the DoS but not Ally Week. 0.11818181818182 11.8% [ 13 ]
I'm doing Ally Week but not the DoS. 0.036363636363636 3.6% [ 4 ]
I am a student and I am doing neither. 0.26363636363636 26.4% [ 29 ]
I am not a student. 0.41818181818182 41.8% [ 46 ]
All of the above and more! Let me tell you about it. 0.063636363636364 6.4% [ 7 ]
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Son Lune
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I'm sure that was a concern for them. My appointment only lasted maybe less than 7 minutes? Actually, I've wondered if people did say they were Bisexual to get attention.


Some do. Some use it as a kind of phase between straight and gay (I did for about a month). Some also are genuinely attracted to both genders. I was kind of skeptical about the genuine bisexuals for a while, but I now have four close bisexual friends (one of whom I'm dating) and I've discussed sexuality with them. They're all genuinely attracted to both genders. And just as able to fall in love with one person as people attracted to only one gender. It's fascinating discussing sexuality with them.


What I mean by what I said is that, I have, I know these two people. Both girls claimed to be bisexual and the only thing I've know that they've ever done was kiss a girl. Once really, and It seemed more like they wanted to impress the guys. For fantasy....reasons.


Well, I think you've answered "Why".

However, I figured out that I was gay before I had had any physical experience beyond hugging both genders. So, lack of experience doesn't necessarily denote lack of sexuality, but if you just kiss girls to get guys to like you...

I hope you (meaning girls who kiss girls to get guys) feel my mental wrath. I hate those girls. They give all of us genuine lesbians a bad name. And like... when I'm at parties with my girlfriend people will ask us to make out in front of them. No! I am not a show for your fantasies.


Yes, I do mean girls that kiss others girls to please guys. It's something I have never understood and feel they should not label themselves as bisexual. Which is many young girls around here, acting like that. Yeah, some people can be disrespectful.


Purely for attention, I guess, is why they do it... I don't consider someone bi unless they'd consider spending their life with a girl. Yes, perhaps if you'd have sex with a girl you're bi, but I guess for my purposes I'm not really looking for someone who just wants to have sex. I'd prefer to find someone who wants to be in a nice long committed relationship.

I'm with you 110% on them not actually being bisexual. And that people are disrespectful. But I guess that's what I get for having a relationship with a girl.
Son Lune
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I'm a kitty/ferret/Horse person.
Dogs are okay but honestly I rather have a kitty/ferret/horse =3
My cat is a dog, she drinks from the toilet, comes running to me when I come home, hisses at people, and chases after cars [she really does]
She is also anitsocial. She hates everything other then herself and me. She even hisses at my mom.



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My cats bite at my Mother and rarely bite at me. They chase each other and attack, something I really don't like. Their my babies and the mutt that is staying here is messing him them so I don't like dogs at the moment. I really want a ferret but I hear they bite and smell.



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I only have one cat, and she is about seven years old.
She has never bite me, but she did n** at me once when I was holding her in the car while we were moving.
Ferrets do stink at times but you just have to give them a bath and clean their cage every week.
As for biting, it depends on the ferret. Normally they 'nibble' at you but you just swat them on the nose and they will learn to not bite.
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Son Lune
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I'm sure that was a concern for them. My appointment only lasted maybe less than 7 minutes? Actually, I've wondered if people did say they were Bisexual to get attention.


Some do. Some use it as a kind of phase between straight and gay (I did for about a month). Some also are genuinely attracted to both genders. I was kind of skeptical about the genuine bisexuals for a while, but I now have four close bisexual friends (one of whom I'm dating) and I've discussed sexuality with them. They're all genuinely attracted to both genders. And just as able to fall in love with one person as people attracted to only one gender. It's fascinating discussing sexuality with them.


What I mean by what I said is that, I have, I know these two people. Both girls claimed to be bisexual and the only thing I've know that they've ever done was kiss a girl. Once really, and It seemed more like they wanted to impress the guys. For fantasy....reasons.


Well, I think you've answered "Why".

However, I figured out that I was gay before I had had any physical experience beyond hugging both genders. So, lack of experience doesn't necessarily denote lack of sexuality, but if you just kiss girls to get guys to like you...

I hope you (meaning girls who kiss girls to get guys) feel my mental wrath. I hate those girls. They give all of us genuine lesbians a bad name. And like... when I'm at parties with my girlfriend people will ask us to make out in front of them. No! I am not a show for your fantasies.


Yes, I do mean girls that kiss others girls to please guys. It's something I have never understood and feel they should not label themselves as bisexual. Which is many young girls around here, acting like that. Yeah, some people can be disrespectful.


Purely for attention, I guess, is why they do it... I don't consider someone bi unless they'd consider spending their life with a girl. Yes, perhaps if you'd have sex with a girl you're bi, but I guess for my purposes I'm not really looking for someone who just wants to have sex. I'd prefer to find someone who wants to be in a nice long committed relationship.

I'm with you 110% on them not actually being bisexual. And that people are disrespectful. But I guess that's what I get for having a relationship with a girl.


Awh, I think that do consider yourself bisexual you should like both male and female, and you should both feel like you could end up with one of them the rest of your lives. Actually, I like to think that everyone wants to be with someone the rest of their lives, I'm not for games.
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Son Lune
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I'm a kitty/ferret/Horse person.
Dogs are okay but honestly I rather have a kitty/ferret/horse =3
My cat is a dog, she drinks from the toilet, comes running to me when I come home, hisses at people, and chases after cars [she really does]
She is also anitsocial. She hates everything other then herself and me. She even hisses at my mom.



The CB's Pokemaster.
User ImageUser ImageUser Image


My cats bite at my Mother and rarely bite at me. They chase each other and attack, something I really don't like. Their my babies and the mutt that is staying here is messing him them so I don't like dogs at the moment. I really want a ferret but I hear they bite and smell.



[I'm going to stop using the pokemon thig because it takes up a lot of room]
I only have one cat, and she is about seven years old.
She has never bite me, but she did n** at me once when I was holding her in the car while we were moving.
Ferrets do stink at times but you just have to give them a bath and clean their cage every week.
As for biting, it depends on the ferret. Normally they 'nibble' at you but you just swat them on the nose and they will learn to not bite.


Cookie and Calico are sisters and I'm not sure how old, I lost track. There beautiful cats, calico's. But I'm getting really tired, so I'm going to be off. I'll be back.


Byee everyone.
I'm going to sleep now. Good night everyone.
Son Lune
SapphireAngel13
Son Lune
SapphireAngel13


User ImageUser ImageUser Image
The CB's Pokemaster.


I'm a kitty/ferret/Horse person.
Dogs are okay but honestly I rather have a kitty/ferret/horse =3
My cat is a dog, she drinks from the toilet, comes running to me when I come home, hisses at people, and chases after cars [she really does]
She is also anitsocial. She hates everything other then herself and me. She even hisses at my mom.



The CB's Pokemaster.
User ImageUser ImageUser Image


My cats bite at my Mother and rarely bite at me. They chase each other and attack, something I really don't like. Their my babies and the mutt that is staying here is messing him them so I don't like dogs at the moment. I really want a ferret but I hear they bite and smell.



[I'm going to stop using the pokemon thig because it takes up a lot of room]
I only have one cat, and she is about seven years old.
She has never bite me, but she did n** at me once when I was holding her in the car while we were moving.
Ferrets do stink at times but you just have to give them a bath and clean their cage every week.
As for biting, it depends on the ferret. Normally they 'nibble' at you but you just swat them on the nose and they will learn to not bite.


Cookie and Calico are sisters and I'm not sure how old, I lost track. There beautiful cats, calico's. But I'm getting really tired, so I'm going to be off. I'll be back.


Byee everyone.


Okay! Bye for now!
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Just wanted to say I totally support this thread [^_^]

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Good Morning, everyone.
Ohh, this thread seems cool.

Hey everyone, I'm Andy.
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Andyl1c1ous
Ohh, this thread seems cool.

Hey everyone, I'm Andy.


Hello, I'm Samii. :]
Andyl1c1ous
Ohh, this thread seems cool.

Hey everyone, I'm Andy.

Hello thar.

I'm Stephen, and welcome to our thread.
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There really should be a rule in the OP about quote trees. I just read the entire thread. Lots of scrolling and grey text boxes.

Anyway, I'm turbid, I'm pansexual.
I came out as bisexual nearly ten years ago, before it was cool to be bisexual and before anyone ever heard the term "emo". I lost a lot of friends that way, but it was my last year in that school anyway. When I switched to my new school, I learned not to tell people. At my new, all-girls Catholic school, in junior and senior year, I was the only girl out as "not-straight." Other girls who were questioning their sexuality would come up and ask me about it. During my junior year, I had my first real girlfriend, but for some reason, everyone thought we were sisters and that's why we were so close. O.o We broke up junior year, and I had a boyfriend for senior year.

When I got to college, more people discriminated against me for being bisexual. They would refuse to talk to me and spread rumors about me. Except the thing about my rumors is that they're usually true. I was a bit crazy my first year of college, because I was unmedicated schizoaffective bipolar. Combine manic promiscuity with genuine bisexuality, and you get a lot of hooking up. There was one girl I really liked and wanted to start a real relationship with, but she didn't want to admit that she wasn't totally straight.

I left that college and went to Emerson College, where almost every guy is gay, and bisexuality and homosexuality is much more accepted. This was after I was raped, though, so I wasn't really looking for anyone.

Now I graduated college and I have a lovely boyfriend. He's worried I'm going to leave him for a girl. And it's true, I do miss being with girls, but I also kind of miss being with my exboyfriends, and it's not like I'm going to leave him to hook up with his friend.
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turbid blue
There really should be a rule in the OP about quote trees. I just read the entire thread. Lots of scrolling and grey text boxes.

Anyway, I'm turbid, I'm pansexual.
I came out as bisexual nearly ten years ago, before it was cool to be bisexual and before anyone ever heard the term "emo". I lost a lot of friends that way, but it was my last year in that school anyway. When I switched to my new school, I learned not to tell people. At my new, all-girls Catholic school, in junior and senior year, I was the only girl out as "not-straight." Other girls who were questioning their sexuality would come up and ask me about it. During my junior year, I had my first real girlfriend, but for some reason, everyone thought we were sisters and that's why we were so close. O.o We broke up junior year, and I had a boyfriend for senior year.

When I got to college, more people discriminated against me for being bisexual. They would refuse to talk to me and spread rumors about me. Except the thing about my rumors is that they're usually true. I was a bit crazy my first year of college, because I was unmedicated schizoaffective bipolar. Combine manic promiscuity with genuine bisexuality, and you get a lot of hooking up. There was one girl I really liked and wanted to start a real relationship with, but she didn't want to admit that she wasn't totally straight.

I left that college and went to Emerson College, where almost every guy is gay, and bisexuality and homosexuality is much more accepted. This was after I was raped, though, so I wasn't really looking for anyone.

Now I graduated college and I have a lovely boyfriend. He's worried I'm going to leave him for a girl. And it's true, I do miss being with girls, but I also kind of miss being with my exboyfriends, and it's

I not like I'm going to leave him to hook up with his friend.


I was thinking about that the over day, the qoute trees. They are really long but people tend to get carried away when they talk.

I'm sorry to hear that you got raped. Thank you for sharing your story and welcome to the thread. That would be something to go to an old girls school.
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Good Evening everyone.
Heeeeeeeeey.
I'm horrible with introductions. sweatdrop I'm uh.. cosmicatastrophe but.. my real name's Alex and I'm 16. I've been struggling with bisexual and gay feelings since I was 12, and have had gender dysphoria since I was 15. The dysphoria comes and goes -- I used to have transsexual feelings out the wazzoo. I'm pretty andro..

Aha.. here's me.. sweatdrop

http://img15.imageshack.us/i/img01471.jpg/

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