Stahlherz
Lisas Tainted Mind
No name change yet, but I'm changing my last name as soon as my mom and I can pull together enough money. I have my dad's last name, but he didn't raise me and I'd like to have my family's name. My mom kinda guilted me into keeping my first name, I go by my middle name anyways so I figured "whatever, fine then."
Do you dislike your dad at all?
Hahaha guilt. My mom never tried to use guilt with me, but she did state repeatedly that she thought the whole thing was stupid and jackassed and a waste of my time and money, then added that she was calling me the name I was raised as regardless of what I did.
Lisas Tainted Mind
No, I don't plan on ever being a parent. If my imaginary kid change their first name, I wouldn't be mad so much as weirded out that I deemed my child one thing, and now they're something else. Like, do I call them by their legal name now? My mom never stopped calling me by my first name, no matter how many people insist on calling me Lisa.
They'll probably be so delighted that everyone else is calling them their new name that they won't care what you call them.
I don't have any feelings twords my dad anymore. As a teen I REALLY didn't like him, but at this point he's been out of my life so long, that I honestly don't even remember he exists unless someone brings up something related to him. The very few times I have contact with him it's really awkward, cause it's like talking to a complete stranger. We may share DNA, but we don't know each other at all.
D'aw, how rude. She probably took it the wrong way, like my mom did but had the more.. angry response lol. I mean, everyone I know calls me Lisa except my family, but I'm so used to that set up that if they DID call me Lisa, I don't think I'd even realize they were talking to me. So, changing my first name to my middle would probably change nothing.
So, yes I'd imagine my imaginary kids would feel the same and not care what I called them, or just be used to me calling them by their original name.