Does saying someone's name during sex actually mean anything

[Missyvixen]

Me and my boyfriend are both horrible with intimacy, I'm worse then he is. I'm the girl, but I was raised with this sense of showing emotion was a weakness, and as such I'm bad at expressing how I really feel.

I've been sexually active before, and I know that sex does not mean love. However, this was the first time we actually said each other's names during it, and for a moment it felt like it meant something more. Like it was a sweet moment.

I'm just wondering on people's opinions if it can mean something or if it's just part of sex. I'm sort of new to all this relationship stuff, all my other ones were shallow and quite honestly, I didn't feel anything for them much at all.

I've heard from several girl friends and one guy friend, it means something deep, but also have a few others tell me it doesnt mean jack. I'm just wondering in case I'm over thinking all of it.

[Im Something Juxtaposed]

lol what?

why would it be a big ******** deal?

if i screamed out orange duck during climax it would have the same effect rolleyes

[Explosive Nads]

My boyfriend gets ridiculously turned on by it, so that's the only reason I say his name during sex. I've never been otherwise inclined to do it. I don't think it makes it any more meaningful.

[emi desu]

it's embarrassing. i avoid calling people by their name at all costs.

[Wilder Wein MCMXCII]

Well, as I'm personally not really a verbal type when it comes to intimacy I must admit that I never say my partner's name during sex. I prefer showing my affection through physical things, like cuddling, kissing and sex indeed. I've always believed that acts say more than words.

[Shirabelle]

If it means something to you then it means something to you. Ask if it means something to him as well?
In most cases though I'd say you can pretty much say anything during sex and It'll still feel good.

Unless you yell that you have AIDS or he yells that he ******** your sister.

[FarmFreshEggs]

It turns my SO on if I say his name. Though I generally don't. He says my name during, which is kind of nice that, you know, he's aware it's me he's having sex with. I suppose it could mean something to the person, but at the same time, I don't personally read a ton into it.

[Ms Spork]

Saying someone's name during sex usually feels forced and stilted for me. Sometimes it slips out, and that is jolly good, but it's not something I do often.

When I have sex with my boyfriend it often feels more like "making love" (it's a silly sounding term, but the only one I know to describe it) than just ********. It's not anything we say to each other, it's just the way it feels in the moment, and I can tell he feels the same connection by looking in his eyes. Randy sex and quickies are great and I enjoy that too, but I generally don't get the same feeling.

If you guys both felt like it meant something more, then that is what matters. If saying each other's names helps you connect more, then that's fantastic. Don't worry so much about what it means to other people, what matters is what it means to you.

[anonumos]

If you think it's meaningful, then it is.
For you.

[d y z t o p i a]

wow that can really happen? i thought it did only in comedy movies.

i mean i could see dreaming about someone else and sex and saying their name but not saying it alert. o___O

[Valtiel the Watcher]

It generally only changes the mood for me if they yell someone else's name during sex.

[GS Sailor Midnight]

NOPE emotion_awesome

I don't like talking during sex at all neutral It just..sounds awkward I think.

[Ripley Jones]

My boyfriend is turned on by it, so it's the only reason I say it. Never really got why it does, maybe when I call him other things but I never got the name thing...

[r33na1]

this is my first real relationship, so i don't really have that much experience, but with saying anything, i think it only has as much meaning as you give it.

i personally, don't think it means anything, but it makes me feel closer to my boyfriend and he loves when i do it. i love when he does it to... idk, its just this feeling of love starts building in my chest and that combined with lust is just... amazing.

[1tty bitty kitty]

I think dirty talk is silly. Including saying your partner's name.